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I liked my colleague...he too appeared as if he liked..we kept talking.. multiple times with no particular topic but never spoke personal..he used to remember all my details.. including coffee orders, my statuses etc. It went on for few days. He tried brushing my fingers etc in some occasions. But never moved or showed to bring the relationship to any next stage ..One day I was done with mixed signals. ..i called and asked what is happening..he said he is clueless and he doesn't know..he said unless I tell him what it is he can't tell anything..I said i have been pretty clear on what i hve...but he kept denying..so i cut the call telling my mistake and my misunderstanding...i dropped a serious message to him saying what he did was not nice and wish I didn't meet him. I kept my distance. I cut all interactions Days passed. Suddenly he started behaving like normally..again calls started..as long as 2.5 hours. He started hanging with our gang. I dont know what happened.. anyway immediately I asked for a lunch... He said yes let's go. He said we will go to a restaurant..that restaurant is famous for romantic dates and couples. Just before the day of the date too , i told him if you are not interested there is no force. He assured no let's go. I got excited I got dressed up and he picked me up in his car and took there .. and there while I was in mid eating, he told he had absolutely no interest or feelings towards me. He said me to take my time and become normal. He said to not be angry on him and not stop talking with him. I said we shall be colleagues...he said let's be more than colleagues.. lets be wellwishers and friends. I said that's not possible..i asked him to stop hanging out my gang. Actually I felt so humiliated that he knew he was going to reject and yet led me on to believe this was a date. So this is it...what do u guys think..how do I proceed..