Gender: MaleSubmitted on 19 June 2026 at 8:20 pm
Hi Guys, I have been working abroad more than a decade and come to India every 2 yrs since 2024 my parents have been looking for girl for me to get married but no sucess cause girls do not want to go abroad and settle in india after marriage . This year i came to india after 2 yrs and and post for marriage on fb group once girl approached me this april. We used to talk on call and videos call and after 20 days i met her in her city and got physical and then we continued talking on call and then after one we met again on my birthday and got physical again she was 2 yrs elder than me but i accepted she was fat i accepted . Then finally i told her lets get married in july this year she said then i planned to send my sister her to see her and one day before sending my sister to her home . I lied snd tricked her saying that we did check you background and got to know something u did not tell me about then she said i hid about my marriage and i am awaiting divorce. I was surprised and hurt and now i am attached to her and i think i like her and this is the same kind of girl i was looking for. Parents are refusing I do not know what to do . If i do not marry her i have to go back to abroad again alone and spend 2 yrs . By the the time i would come back i will be 37 yrs old and at this age finding a girls for marriage is very rare.
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Anonymous25 June 2026 at 9:54 pm
You’re looking for a life partner, not a quick fix. Don’t go after random people just because you’re lonely. That will only create more problems for you. Are you even sure you like her, or is it just your desperation speaking?
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Anonymous26 June 2026 at 12:48 am
Aisi english k saath abroad m kaam chal jaata hai 😶
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Anonymous26 June 2026 at 12:16 am
Don't marry, go for live-in for 2yrs, carry her to your abroad, affer two years when you are back, either you marry or go your own ways .....Girl will agree to go abroad, as she doesn't have much choices either....
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Anonymous26 June 2026 at 3:00 am
Which country u live in ? I live abroad too man u can always find someone even outside india So don’t rush . Martial status is something that should be disclosed first if u want future together
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Anonymous26 June 2026 at 7:17 am
Just 37 is not a problem. But getting divorced lady is the problem
Anonymous26 June 2026 at 9:07 am
India mai shadi karna khatre se khali nahi hai ..ajkal kya ho raha hai dekh raha hoga Better you enjoy life as before
Anonymous25 June 2026 at 10:35 pm
Beta, focus on your studies. Boards are around the corner. And please improve ypur story telling skills
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Anonymous26 June 2026 at 6:47 pm
One thing which is not clear from your post is that are you worried because you truly love her or it's because she is the only option you have ?
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Anonymous26 June 2026 at 10:44 am
Its okay be unmarried than marrying a wrong person.
Anonymous26 June 2026 at 12:44 am
Mat karna jhuth bolne wali se Ladkiya bahut mil jayengi acchi
Anonymous28 June 2026 at 8:50 am
U already crossed the marriage age ..something is better than nothing
Anonymous26 June 2026 at 12:27 am
That's a great trick to see if they're hiding something 😂😂😂
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Anonymous26 June 2026 at 1:43 am
When you're incel in your 20s and simping in your late 30s. Na ghar ka na ghat ka.
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Anonymous26 June 2026 at 1:31 am
Ladkiyo ki kami h ky duniya me 🤔
Anonymous25 June 2026 at 9:59 pm
Run away
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Anonymous25 June 2026 at 10:24 pm
Moral of the Story: never tricked and lie someone.....🤣
Anonymous26 June 2026 at 12:49 pm
You have been working abroad for more than a decade and don't know how to find a partner for Yourself?? Pls take coaching
Anonymous26 June 2026 at 6:45 am
Listen to your parents.
Anonymous26 June 2026 at 7:28 am
U must be having big money saved in abroad, so marry and convince your parents if things dont work out throw some alimony money and get rid of her with divorce, when got money, things get fixed easy, keep in mind she would have to travel back for divorce finalizing also in coming 2 years
Anonymous26 June 2026 at 8:11 am
Dont marry her she lied to you in the first place she should have to tell this by herself this is the biggest red flag
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