Gender: MaleSubmitted on 19 June 2026 at 4:38 am
Hi All ' Hope life is a gift and utilize is kindly. Hurdles comes and goes. Confession is : I am not happy about my wife laziness since marriage, she doesn't care , wake up early,make breakfast or wife's thing. I made her understand times and things are not working out with her, she accepts but she never tries to change. I let her parents know,they made her understand things and responsibilities ' but they are helpless, and asking me " its upto u" Nothing change so far .... I work online, I do all the house chores taking care of my Mom. I did many things went international trips and so onn... she never realized and never appreciated. Not only this i did everything as husband does for his wife. I never comprised on any little thing for her. What to do? I am tired of this. Looks like this marraige got tied with one sided responsibilities. I am not happy about this....
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Anonymous25 June 2026 at 10:58 am
Go on improving, increasing, expanding in your career n personal growth, let her be behind, atleast she is alive, present for you just in case, even that has its value.... Lets her sleep, be lazy, don't do avoidable work for her, that will force her to take care of herself atleast
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Anonymous25 June 2026 at 11:46 am
Have you ever tried to understand her emotionally? What she is lacking? What she needs from you? Emotionally comforted her? May be she is suffering from underlying hurt or depression that you are not aware of. Try to meet her at emotional end, talk to her, what's bothering her. May be your mother's behavior could also be a reason.
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Anonymous25 June 2026 at 7:40 pm
You are not connected to her emotionally..my daughter is the laziest in the world!!! But once she gets proper sleep nonstop she works!! My son in law has the same problem,..dnt complain ..try to care and love more.. emotional attachment is important... If nothing works go for counseling.
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Anonymous25 June 2026 at 10:57 am
Is she good in bed?
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Anonymous25 June 2026 at 1:57 pm
I understand your frustration. I'm guessing you married daddy's little princess who never learnt how to do household chores. If truly it's only you who does everything then it is a Real problem. But some important information is missing regarding her employment status, her timings and if she contributes towards any other responsibilities. I can also see that you feel underappreciated. Let her know how you feel, and also look into how you are treating her, she could be suffering just like you.
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Anonymous25 June 2026 at 10:45 am
so you married because you wanted a woman who could be paid un paid servant rather than wife ... Your wife is lazy because she does not make just a breakfast ... brilliant .. Well i think first look into your self ... Do you require life partner or a house help ?
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Anonymous25 June 2026 at 10:50 am
What’s the deal with your mom? Why are you taking care of her? Is she sick?
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Anonymous25 June 2026 at 7:54 pm
Simple just leave away from u r wife without contact for some time
Anonymous25 June 2026 at 2:51 pm
Find another wife
Anonymous25 June 2026 at 12:49 pm
Wait for feminists
Anonymous25 June 2026 at 12:26 pm
Yah and sadly laws are also one sided and pushing everything to husband only 😢😢
Anonymous25 June 2026 at 11:31 am
Stop doing things required to be done as a husband 😌
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Anonymous25 June 2026 at 11:24 am
Hire a house help full time who will do all the chores. Let your wife enjoy her time doing nothing. If you really love your wife then solve the problem by hiring help. Looks like you wanted free labour in the form of wife.
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Anonymous25 June 2026 at 10:36 am
Stop doing things that you are doing as a husband.
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