My brother is 32 years old. He knows a girl who used to work with him in an IT company. She was already committed to another guy, but she still used to talk to my brother, including video calls after 12 a.m., and she also gave him gifts. At that time, both of them were in relationships. Later, she said she could not marry my brother because she had already told her parents about her love, and she got married in 2019. After that, she became pregnant. Maybe she had some misunderstanding with her husband, because she started coming to my house when my mom was not there. She became very friendly with me and also started spending a lot of money on my brother, giving him gifts like a phone, PS5, and Mac. They go to movies and outings together, and sometimes they lock themselves inside a room in the house. I am confused and concerned. Does her husband know what she is doing? Is what she and my brother are doing just friendship, or is it something more?
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Your brother is teaching her yoga asanas in the room Gifts are dakshina 😌
I read this yesterday on other page,i hope instead of brother its not You. 😂
The best idea is when they lock themselves in a room. Then request them to take you as a participant .
Let them, are you jelous of it..join them..
Ur brother is 32 but how old are you??
They are playing god of war in PS5.. After locking the room
Inform the owner of the house (father &/ mother) about what's happening when they are not at home. Let them decide what to do. Your bro will say "you are a tattletale" but that's ok..
From what you describe, this goes beyond what many people would consider ordinary friendship. Late-night calls, expensive gifts, secrecy, private time, and locking themselves in a room suggest emotional or possibly romantic involvement. No one outside them can know for certain. Avoid assumptions, but your concern is understandable and an honest conversation may help.
Is she only interested in boys ?? And by gift ..wat kind of gifts were u speaking of ..play stations ?? MacBook kind of ??
She is cheating on her husband, and he doesn’t know about it, of course. Your concern is valid. You should talk to your brother.
are bai yeh kya chl rha hai!😜
You are more worried about ain't getting gifts no more, once her husband knows 😂 (One more example for WHY PAST MATTERS)
More than friendship
What about ur brother who is also cheating on his gf !! 1st concern about ur own home then think about her .
तुम्हे औरत होकर शरम नहीं आयी, फिर क्यूँ उसके पति के बारे में सोच रही हो। चलने दो जैसा चल रहा है वैसा, नँगा नाच।
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