Gender: FemaleSubmitted on 10 June 2026 at 2:19 pm
Hi I am a 26 y/o female and I had a bf 25y/o. We met briefly in 2023, started talking but when things started getting serious I pulled out because I didn’t want relationship as I don’t date if I can’t marry or seems like there is no future. But he pursued on and off for 2,3 months till january 2024. Then we were posted on different locations and were in no contact till January 2025. In Jan 2025 I was again posted on same state as him and we started talking again and again things started getting serious. I wanted to pull out and warned him that I don’t want relationship if we can’t marry as even though we were of same caste but his parents were against love marriage. He convinced me that they will agree eventually. All was good, we used to meet, got physical on call and vc all time and used to sleep over call daily at night. Then on December he puts a video of my pics as his WhatsApp status and his parents saw it, asked him who am I and if there is any chance this could turn serious, he denied that i am just a friend, and immediately asks me to breakup saying he doesn’t have guts to ask them and he thought he had guts earlier but doesn’t think he will be able to. Cuts contact with me all of a sudden, I went to his city, spent a night in bus stand and a whole day just so that can we talk, I am ok to be his friend, I made so many handmade gifts for him, I cried days and nights but he wasn’t moved. And now is ready to talk and occasionally meet me and have s#x but says only if I agree that we will not marry
Confessions and community comments reflect individual experiences and views. They are not a substitute for professional medical, legal, or financial advice. Please follow our Community Guidelines and report concerns to the team.
Sponsored
👍 Reactions
👍35
😂24
😢7
💬 Comments (23)
Anonymous18 June 2026 at 3:22 pm
My goodness! Agree to his proposal if u r ready to ruin yourself. If u hv any self-respect ask him to get lost. Move on, u will find a much better partner who is sincere & suitable for you.
👍 27💬 1 replies
Anonymous18 June 2026 at 3:58 pm
Sun k acha laga ...😄
👍 3
Anonymous18 June 2026 at 7:52 pm
Kya paltibaaz aadmi hai re! (if this confession is true)
Anonymous18 June 2026 at 4:09 pm
See boys once or twice or thrice tasted will no longer get married to her as he has seen fully. It is boy's inherent nature to go for another apple
👍 5💬 1 replies
Anonymous18 June 2026 at 7:11 pm
Actually what I understand from your story is you are a very matured person where in the first place you pulled how which was a very correct decision of your life however second time I know you got into his trap, these people only talk about there body count at the end of the day , they are lustful people if it was love then he would have taken the whole world for you, but in reality he could not even talk to his own parents. No can sleep in peace as you were a heartful person. And time will give you someone you will love you more than you will ever imagine just believe and wait ❤
👍 3
Anonymous19 June 2026 at 2:07 am
He got what he wanted. Now he's moving on for the next one. Simple.
Anonymous18 June 2026 at 3:13 pm
Now what are you looking for / waiting for?
👍 2
Anonymous18 June 2026 at 7:52 pm
Tumhara kat dia reh ladke ne🤣
👍 1
Anonymous18 June 2026 at 3:32 pm
He has moved on already
Anonymous19 June 2026 at 12:54 am
Please bahen.. baahar aa jaao aise relationship se. He is only using you
Anonymous18 June 2026 at 3:18 pm
Seems he's changed his priorities and moved on...
Anonymous18 June 2026 at 6:24 pm
Kabha haa kabhi Na
Anonymous18 June 2026 at 5:19 pm
Thank God Vc par physical hue Matlab ijjat abhi tak bachi hui h
💬 2 replies
Anonymous20 June 2026 at 11:44 am
How do you get physical on call and vc?
Anonymous18 June 2026 at 10:30 pm
Tumhara to maza aa gya na...shadi tumko krni nahi thi...aur mauj masti free me krli...thats it..rona kyu
Anonymous19 June 2026 at 12:04 pm
He got what he wanted and ran away.. it's your time now to move on.. sorry to hear this..
Anonymous18 June 2026 at 3:39 pm
Send your parents to his home for marriage proposal.
👍 2💬 2 replies
Anonymous18 June 2026 at 5:57 pm
1 bet in 1 year she'll sleep with him irrespective of whether he marries her or not 😂
👍 2
Anonymous18 June 2026 at 7:37 pm
Its a scam!!! Better you pull out before he puts in..
Anonymous18 June 2026 at 9:17 pm
Ideally there's a charge of deemed r@pe made out here. Do this, ask ur parents to send an alliance through a matchmaker within the caste and tell them not to disclose the love angle (see if it works). Be sure these people will be greedy for dowry. Govt. Job + Against Love Marriage is usually a result of ego and dowry greed. U can either or either not choose to also notify him that he can either be a part of this attempt OR he can choose to act oversmart and u can file a charge of deemed r@pe against him (BUT i.e. ONLY IF u have the chats where u refused the relationship if there was no way to marry and he assured u he will talk to his parents and then refused). Civily this is clearly Trust Fraud too. Rest it will either work or u will see u found a very bad person. But the only way to maie it work amicably is to send a formal alliance from your parents through community matchmaker.
Anonymous18 June 2026 at 11:14 pm
Once you slept with someone before marriage he'll not marry you it's a man mentality Wife should be a woman who has dignity class The girl who sleeps with before marriage probably has no class
Anonymous18 June 2026 at 6:59 pm
Kick him as soon as possible
Anonymous18 June 2026 at 3:30 pm
Kya kya dekhna hai. He wants to use you for S**. Don’t become his se* toy.
Have something to share?
Share your anonymous workplace story with our community. Submissions are reviewed for safety and published if approved — no account required.
Submit Confession💬 Join the Conversation
Share your thoughts anonymously.
ℹ️ Your comment will be posted publicly on Facebook if it complies with our community guidelines.
← Previous
Next →
Comments for Post #C27344