Hi I am a 26 y/o female and I had a bf 25y/o. We met briefly in 2023, started talking but when things started getting serious I pulled out because I didn’t want relationship as I don’t date if I can’t marry or seems like there is no future. But he pursued on and off for 2,3 months till january 2024. Then we were posted on different locations and were in no contact till January 2025. In Jan 2025 I was again posted on same state as him and we started talking again and again things started getting serious. I wanted to pull out and warned him that I don’t want relationship if we can’t marry as even though we were of same caste but his parents were against love marriage. He convinced me that they will agree eventually. All was good, we used to meet, got physical on call and vc all time and used to sleep over call daily at night. Then on December he puts a video of my pics as his WhatsApp status and his parents saw it, asked him who am I and if there is any chance this could turn serious, he denied that i am just a friend, and immediately asks me to breakup saying he doesn’t have guts to ask them and he thought he had guts earlier but doesn’t think he will be able to. Cuts contact with me all of a sudden, I went to his city, spent a night in bus stand and a whole day just so that can we talk, I am ok to be his friend, I made so many handmade gifts for him, I cried days and nights but he wasn’t moved. And now is ready to talk and occasionally meet me and have s#x but says only if I agree that we will not marry
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My goodness! Agree to his proposal if u r ready to ruin yourself. If u hv any self-respect ask him to get lost. Move on, u will find a much better partner who is sincere & suitable for you.
Sun k acha laga ...😄
Kya paltibaaz aadmi hai re! (if this confession is true)
See boys once or twice or thrice tasted will no longer get married to her as he has seen fully. It is boy's inherent nature to go for another apple
Actually what I understand from your story is you are a very matured person where in the first place you pulled how which was a very correct decision of your life however second time I know you got into his trap, these people only talk about there body count at the end of the day , they are lustful people if it was love then he would have taken the whole world for you, but in reality he could not even talk to his own parents. No can sleep in peace as you were a heartful person. And time will give you someone you will love you more than you will ever imagine just believe and wait ❤
He got what he wanted. Now he's moving on for the next one. Simple.
Sex before marriage is a sin, you should think before getting involved. Why women get intimate with men their not married to . Man cut your call and here you venting, move on and leave him .
Now what are you looking for / waiting for?
Tumhara kat dia reh ladke ne🤣
He has moved on already
Please bahen.. baahar aa jaao aise relationship se. He is only using you
Seems he's changed his priorities and moved on...
Kabha haa kabhi Na
Thank God Vc par physical hue Matlab ijjat abhi tak bachi hui h
How do you get physical on call and vc?
Tumhara to maza aa gya na...shadi tumko krni nahi thi...aur mauj masti free me krli...thats it..rona kyu
He got what he wanted and ran away.. it's your time now to move on.. sorry to hear this..
Send your parents to his home for marriage proposal.
Nothing wrong in having sex and not Marrying but both should be on the same page on that. If not, walk away.
1 bet in 1 year she'll sleep with him irrespective of whether he marries her or not 😂
Its a scam!!! Better you pull out before he puts in..
Ideally there's a charge of deemed r@pe made out here. Do this, ask ur parents to send an alliance through a matchmaker within the caste and tell them not to disclose the love angle (see if it works). Be sure these people will be greedy for dowry. Govt. Job + Against Love Marriage is usually a result of ego and dowry greed. U can either or either not choose to also notify him that he can either be a part of this attempt OR he can choose to act oversmart and u can file a charge of deemed r@pe against him (BUT i.e. ONLY IF u have the chats where u refused the relationship if there was no way to marry and he assured u he will talk to his parents and then refused). Civily this is clearly Trust Fraud too. Rest it will either work or u will see u found a very bad person. But the only way to maie it work amicably is to send a formal alliance from your parents through community matchmaker.
Once you slept with someone before marriage he'll not marry you it's a man mentality Wife should be a woman who has dignity class The girl who sleeps with before marriage probably has no class
What a fattu guy!! Can't talk with his parents but can pursue girls and have casual sex.
Kick him as soon as possible
Kya kya dekhna hai. He wants to use you for S**. Don’t become his se* toy.