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Hi, 27M Just read a confession of a guy where he was virgin before marriage and the wife was not, He was hurt from the lie she told about her past and even told that he had many opportunity to sleep but he did not as he wanted to save it for future partner. Now comes the strange suggestions from ladies, they were gas lighting him saying - "At least she told you" - "You should be happy that she is loyal now" - "She could have chosen not to tell you but she did worship her". what kind of cunning manipulative humans they are??? like if I had a knife I did not delete her so she should worship me now instead of hating me because I intentionally planned to harm her but I did not do so? Also for men, always keep it in mind modern women are not virgin, keep this in mind when you go for marriage, while courtship period is over, once you have had initial talks and you have established enough trust among each other, ask her about her body count and virginity status, see her reaction, be subtle but make sure she knows this is the last "MUST" for you to go into this marriage. The world will still be the same without you marrying, but sleeping right beside someone who has betrayed you and chose you to just settle down will be so heavy that you won't be able to live each second. There is no place for morality in this world, I can bet my last penny if being virgin meant the boy would be rich then girls would be asking the first question about your virginity, that kind of greedy they are, don't assume they are soft hearted like they used to 30-40 years ago.