Gender: MaleSubmitted on 30 May 2026 at 4:17 pm
M25, i have a geniune doubt. Can we help our wife or girlfriend with their education, career, and goals? Recently I’ve been seeing a lot of news where husbands support their wives’ careers, but once the wife reaches a good position, she leaves her husband and goes with another boyfriend. Many girls say, “My future husband must be very supportive, he should help with my career, and he should never leave me.” But sometimes, when we support them and they reach a high position, they leave us. Right now, I have a girlfriend, and in the future after marriage, should I be supportive of my wife? Should I help her with her career?
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Anonymous15 June 2026 at 12:00 pm
Get married once the girl completes her goal...and discuss shared responsibility... Peaceful life is more important than complicated life!
Anonymous14 June 2026 at 7:30 pm
U support someone else wife to grow & marry her .. Problem solved
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Anonymous14 June 2026 at 7:46 pm
It depends on person to person... If the person wants to stay he/she would stay after achieving success and if they wanna leave, dn they would leave even if you bring them sun and moon... I have also seen men leave their wife and children after achieving success with the wife's help to marry other younger woman... So do your job and don't expect anything in return, the right people will stay and the wrong will leave... That isn't betrayal but God's gift in disguise...
Anonymous14 June 2026 at 8:02 pm
Make sure you marry equals either work wise or family wise.. else it will be tough.
maark16 June 2026 at 5:44 am
Don't support your gf or wife if you are not financially better than them 🙏
Anonymous14 June 2026 at 7:47 pm
Focus on your career and making babies.
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