Hi I am 38 m and married , I look like 30 y old, recently a girl (23 y old) joined my office and while lunch time we talk on many issues.on same evening I promised her to drop her to nearest station, she insisted to drop her at her home, it was 1 hour (bike)journey but still I dropped her at her home, we started to like each other and many times I dropped her at her home. We started to talk on call for hours and started to chat too. But she got suspicious about me and she doesn't allow me to kiss her when we visited nearest couple point. No one in the office was aware about us as I kept distance from her in office but few got suspecious and stared to keep eye on us I sensed that and asked her to meet me after office hours only everything was going smooth.i recenlty resigned and we decided to meet after office 2-3 times in a week, between this a boy (who is a tharki one according to office females) from our office started to connect with her or instagram and his female colleagues encouraged him in this. I sensed this is going to end my affair and this boy intentionally told my girl that I am married. Same day she watsapp me and I confessed that yes I am married and I was going to tell her on my last working day. She got upset and she blocked me and unfollowed me on insta too. I decided not to chase her. In next 2-3 days I spoke with HR that I want to leave early and same day I dropped my farewell email. Everyone was shocked and few called me and msgsd me, my ex whatsapp me I explained everything to her she told me that this guy told her about me and my marriage but he acted like he is doing it unintentionally. She got my real age too. I apologise on WhatsApp then she blocked me again this time too I didn't call her or chase her, I don't like to chase girls at all but I started to miss her a lot as my wife is in depression due to infertility and there is no spark left in our marriage although I love my wife a lot ,I told same to my ex too that this is the reason I felt connection between us now I am missing my ex and I dont know what to do if I call her or started to connect with her I know she will not speak with me. Now I am depresswd too and don't know what to do please suggest me.
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The audacity to call the other guy tharki ๐๐ฝ๐๐ฝ๐๐ฝ
My Grandfather smoked his whole life. I was about 10 years old when my mother said to him, "If you ever want to see your grandchildren graduate, you better stop immediately." Tears welled up in his eyes when he realised exactly what was at stake. He gave it up immediately. Three years later he died of lung cancer. It was really sad and destroyed me. My Mother said to me, "Don't smoke. Please don't put your family through what your Grandfather put us through." I agreed and at age of 37 I have never touched a cigarette. I must say, I feel a very slight sense of regret for never having done it, because your post gave me *cancer* anyway.
Broo u depressan story should be shown as a script to karan johar. We would get entertaining tharki movie๐
Hume office mein bhelpuri khaane ka time nahi mil raha.... yahaan tharki ladki ghuma raha! ๐๐๐ซช
U are missing spark right? Just switch on any electronic thing and touch the plug or where u lock the plugs and insert any finger of urs..Anyone will work.. U will fill the spark that u will never gonna forget and Thank God! God saved the girl ๐
Thanks to that tharki office guy, who saved that girl from Life's grave problem she was supposed to Enter..
First things first, let's get your wife some much needed help to get her out of the depression phase. Why don't you set her up with a boyfriend who can bring some spark into her life, something that you clearly can't provide. Who knows she may even get a baby. Win-win situation.
This other guy is a 'tharki' Brooooo, who's gonna tell him ๐๐
Harey Raam!! What a Kalyug is this!? ๐
One tharki is telling other person tharki
Even I'm 39 & looks like 30 ๐
Audacity to call someone tharki with this story ๐๐
I'm 32 but look like 40๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ
His wife has infertility because she is married to such a loser. Female bodies instinctively know not to produce progeny with third rate males, across entire animal kingdom. In animal husbandry, we replace the defected bull and replace him with a better quality bull, and boom- cow immediately pregnant.
Sorry to break your bubble but you are the real tharki. ๐
เคญเคพเค เคเคช เคเฅเคฆเคพ เคธเฅ เคกเคฐเคฟเค เฅค
A good English dictionary is also needed
Aur kuch ho na ho, corporate stories padh ke tv dekhne ka mann nahi karta ๐.
Bro, genuine advice. Kuch dino ka keeda hai yeh. Ek bhi point tere favour mein nahi hai. You are married and the age difference is 15 years. Wo toh sukar mana ki tera use nahi kiya usne. Better forget her and focus on your wife and life. Take your wife to a doctor for better treatment and conceive a baby. Last mein family hi kaam aati hai. Maan ja. Do not lose your mental peace.
U must remember she is not for u, never forget 4 points 1. U r married 2. Ur age difference more than 15 years 3. U have no right to spoil future or life of young girl for ur own entertainment or selfishness. 4. Never forget above 3 points
If you get the ex pregnant I am sure you will be happy as the infertility issue of your wife is sorted. ๐
Aap please subah sauch jaya kijiye, varna aap zindagi pe hugg denge
always these married uncles who think they look young ๐
A perfect bollywood script, please send it to Karan Johar and get money. Then you'll be rich and have all the outlets for your tharak.
Yes please Be depressed ๐it suits you
You need a treatment too
Yha kitne ache ache news sunne ko milta h ๐๐๐ bhai apni biwi pr dhyan de,sparkle nhi aarha mtlb hr jgh ghuss jaoge kisi k saath v..biwi ki yhi importance h bass๐ก
Feeling bad for you bro... As the road of one tharki to a 2 inch gap was blocked by another tharki. Always remember, the biggest enemy of girls are not boys but another girl from her group, and the same is with boys.
If ur infertile and ur wife leave u for the same reason and go behind another guy how will u feel?
That tharki guy in your office actually got your wife's number and now they are meeting! he also takes her out and it seems she told him that even though she loves you she feels there is no spark left due to no children! She feels that the bullets in your gun are missing the targets and your gun shoots too quick!
Tharki no1
Uncle remember your age and behave accordingly.
The only tharki in your office is you.
Blue drum treatment needed
Your wife needs support during her battle with infertility and depression, not betrayal. Marriage demands respect. Why choose to marry if you are going to seek affairs over minor issues and then blame your partner to excuse your behavior?
It is so difficult to like all the comments lol
Tere tharak ki koi Seema nahi.
I wish I loved myself just 10% of the amount you love yourself. My life would have been completely different.
Bade hi confusing aadmi ho yarr
So wife is in depression and instead of supporting her , you want to make connections outside ! And look who is calling other bachelors Tharki ???
I read it as Tharkuri
Dont u feel like a tharki urself?
Kaun tharki?
Are you for real?
What the hell did i just read๐ซ
you are the only one whose gossips actually entertain us between the hectic schedule, thank you, keep it up๐
A tharki told that another midaged married tharki is married?
Besharam bhi koi haad hoti hain ๐
To ward off your depression you should have a full fledged affaire with the lil girl from office. And your wife should start having an affaire with somebody too so that she can come out of her depression. Both of you will love each other and talk and kiss and be intimate with some one else and it will be a fun filled life.!๐๐๐๐ (please understand I am laughing at you )
Sorry bro I am confused with your X Y Z
Bro be happy vid u r and u both ignite the fire again, or else the fire u try to play vid , will surely destroy u r sweet home, by take care
Now when you are depressed, should your wife have an affair with another man. Though she loves you. Just for the spark and connection ๐ค I don't go behind girls ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ
More ja halka kore ๐
Kehna kya chahte ho bhai ๐
How lantiii you are.... (Sorry for this word but he deserves)
Unnai serupala adikanum go to hell
Andhi lulli
Chutyo ki kaami nhe haaai waqai -.-
Bro one side story kia pta apka sperm weak r nam biwi ka daal dia h shame on u idiot thrki toh bhai tu khud h jo bachio pa nazr rekhta h
Age ka jhoot, shadi k baare main jhoot, chummi bhi leni thhi lekin mili nh aur sara din phone par baat karna aur drop karna phir dusro ko thharki kehna... Waah bhai, next level hay aapka
You have to calm your ๐.
Thashiye Ekta thappor khabi ?
Pls don't spoil your family life. Don't chase her. Forget and fast forward
Just forget and move on any ways u have left ur job u won't be crossing paths
You are 38 and you look like 30, lol, you donโt because nowadays people of 30 looks like 20-24, so you donโt.
you yourself is a tharki guy
Cht ka chakkar maut se takkar babu bhiya
You are Tharkulla from Tharak, Tharki, Tharkulla ๐๐๐
How did you maintain yourself you are 38 and look as 30.. that's awesome
Bhai kabhi tho hona hi tha.. don't regret just move on.. jo karna tha short time period mae hi karliya karo.. otherwise if u want this to keep happening seperate from wife.. risky hai pta nhi kon milegi kesi milegi but u won't have regret of cheating
Who is tharki ?? I am confused ๐ค๐ค
Bro, don't post confession, don't tell anyone what's going on with your life. I am telling you, everyone is going to judge you and you will end up feeling more bad for yourself.
Aren't you also tharki?
"No Sarak Of Your Tharak"..
Wife suffering from depression due to infertility and you trying to make the other girl fertile but got depressed as your plan got spoilt whaaaa what a Man ๐
You are not tharki ,if you are married and started a relationship with her.
Leave her and be loyal to your wife . Take care of your wife.
38 year old Married man with affair calling young single boy a tharki.
Let me suggest you " have some shame" This is the only suggestion you need.
Oh my God .. May Allah protect all girls from these kinda tharkis ameen
You are not really grieving the loss of a relationship, you are grieving the loss of a fantasy that was built on incomplete information. From her perspective, the most important facts about you, being married and your actual age, were hidden. Whether you intended to tell her later or not, she discovered them from someone else. That understandably damaged her trust. Once trust is broken at the beginning of a relationship, it is very difficult to recover. Her actions are also clear. She blocked you twice, unfollowed you, and chose to end contact after learning the truth. That is a boundary, and the respectful thing to do is accept it rather than try to convince her to come back. The other man in the office is not the main issue here. Even if he had never told her, she would eventually have learned that you were married. The relationship was built on information she did not have, so focusing on him may prevent you from facing the real reason things ended. You also mention that your wife is struggling with depression related to infertility and that there is little spark left in your marriage. That sounds like a painful situation, but it does not justify starting an emotional affair with someone who believed you were available. The loneliness and emotional needs in your marriage are issues that need to be addressed within the marriage itself or with professional support. Right now, contacting your former colleague again is unlikely to help either of you. It would probably reopen wounds for her and prolong your own recovery. Instead, focus on understanding what was missing in your life that made this connection feel so powerful. Was it attention, excitement, validation, companionship, or escape from stress at home? Identifying that need is more useful than pursuing the person. My suggestion: 1. Respect her decision and do not contact her again. 2. Stop viewing the office colleague as the person who "ruined" the relationship. 3. Reflect honestly on your role in what happened. 4. Invest time and energy into repairing your marriage if you genuinely love your wife. 5. Consider individual or couples counseling, especially given the infertility struggles and your current depression. The fact that you miss her does not mean she was the right person for you. Sometimes it simply means she appeared in your life at a time when you were emotionally vulnerable. The healthiest path forward is not to win her back, but to address the problems in your own life that made this situation happen in the first place.
Chtya hai kya rey tu? Tu mil mujhe teri grand pay shuffling kar Tao... Tu dosrey lardkay ko tharki bolra, tu hai bada tharki, chichora...
Bhai bolna toh main bhi bahut kuch chahta hu tujhe Par Ghar Wale bolte hain ke zamanat nahi karaenge๐คข๐คข
Chase your wife, your ' I don't chase" made her depressed
Ullu k phatay
Woman came in middle of life and disappeared in middle of life. Live a life with your wife. No confusion.
Fraud to bhai sahab ap khud hyn shadi chupa k kisi ko pagal bna rae thy ab hoty rahen ap pagal wo to gai ab jo ghar ma hy is sab se wo bhi chali jaegi
Marriage is scary what if he is ๐ฅฒ๐ฅฒ๐ฅฒ
Ch...ya
Try on someone else ๐
Is this for real
(|) Ka chakkar babu bhaiya (|) ka chakkar ....
My suggestion, go back to the โ๏ธ
You called the other guy tharki.... Do you know what people call you behind your back???? It is madar.... ๐คฃ Also, you must be sure that you won't father someone illegitimately.... That must have gave you the confidence to have an affair and even boast of it here
ุจุฏ ูุณู
Duniya mein kitna gam hai mera gum kitna Kam hai
My girl.. I love my wife a lots.. เฎเฎฉเฏเฎฉ เฎเฎดเฎตเฏเฎฏเฎพ เฎเฎคเฏ?! ๐คทโโ๏ธ
The other guy was tharki and what about you ?
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