Gender: MaleSubmitted on 27 May 2026 at 3:46 am
I was in a relationship with a girl and was completely committed to her. I was ready to marry her under any circumstances. During COVID, she went back home from Bangalore, and I returned to my native place as well. I don’t know what changed, but she got married to someone else in 2022. That phase was very difficult for me. Now I am 32, and my marriage has been fixed with a 23-year-old girl for this November. She has a reputed government job in my native place. It’s not that I don’t want to marry her—I genuinely want to love her and build a happy life together. Recently, she has started expressing intimacy more openly, but I’ve realized that I’m not feeling the same level of attraction or interest toward her. At the same time, I do feel attracted to other girls, which is confusing me. I want to accept this situation, move forward, and truly connect with her. I consider myself fortunate to be matched with such a good and beautiful girl, but I’m struggling to develop genuine interest and emotional attachment.
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Anonymous13 June 2026 at 10:59 pm
Bro you should sleep with multiple women across your region ( obviously with protection) and when you are bored from that , return to your native and marry . 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Anonymous13 June 2026 at 10:52 pm
Beta feel lucky you got a much younger wife with a government job. Enjoy your marital journey for a good 3 years And after that think of extending family. No pressure of biological clock ticking . Try to know her , chat with her . If you are just looking from intimacy thing that's not good it's just a part of happy marriage life. There are other responsibilities in marriage. In this unpredictable private job layoff s time . Someone in the family having government job is great blessings . If you loose your job . She will help sustain till you get another job beta. In old age she will get pension from state or central government wherever she is working beta. Get married and enjoy a great secured life with your dearest ❤️
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Anonymous13 June 2026 at 10:41 pm
Take some more time to know her .. be comfortable with her ...begin with friendship and then take it to next level ...
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Anonymous14 June 2026 at 1:24 am
Gajab problem hai 😂
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Anonymous13 June 2026 at 11:24 pm
Sorry but attraction is something you cannot create. You can like her, but never feel that rush and lustrous chemistry even during your honeymoon, rest period anyways are flat.
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Anonymous14 June 2026 at 7:20 am
32 and marrying 23 🙃
Anonymous14 June 2026 at 10:56 am
It's huge age gap that's why you didn't feel the attraction may be 🫣
Anonymous14 June 2026 at 4:28 pm
. better not marry her . u r the red flag
Anonymous13 June 2026 at 10:31 pm
Tada .5mg
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Anonymous13 June 2026 at 10:20 pm
Shread old feelings, move on...
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