Hey , age -25-30 yrs ...I had never been in any relationship , just wish to find love in marriage ...quiet oldschool by nature ..still believe in purity of love ...so from last 4 year my single mom looking guy in arrange marriage and that's so difficult as my mom is single so every guy family think their son have to take responsibility, and it's really difficult to communicate as even today is not good to find match by a women ...so I meet a guy in matrimonial site we decide to know each other as friend and when we are confirm we wil inv outr parents we start talking daily , all though imhecis 7 year elder then me and not have much social link or family bonding bt with time I come to know he never get chance to live his life because of family responsibility ...so I started chering him, listening him. Make him comf and then after 3 month we finnally meet I m quiet chubby , and not so fair as he was ..bt still he like because of my behaviour and his parents are not eating even onion garlic bt he assured to live in diff city or diff house in same city ...things pass because he also like non veg a lot so he wants smone who can give company to him ...so seems no issue and honestly I started him like friend bt I started like him ...and he also begin to expressing around me, then we inv our family my mother despite so many doubt abt diff in our food, lifestyle and habit shexwas ok bt prblm is from his family side her mom intrested in girl that is pure veg ...although I'm ready to leave non veg , change my dressing style as as I really start liking him ...bt his mother making excuses that we can't proceed as there is sm special month ..we can contd after that rbt at same time she is ready to meet other girl ...I can't say this to guy I like him ...neither I can bear it I try to seem normal bt couldt I have exam after 4 month bt i couldt concentrate ....we had already plan our future sharing dreams , I really show patience with him ...as he was emotionaly reserved bt i always one to send him msg, call , or try to have Convo and he appreciate that too ...
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So what do you want ? Neither this nor that ? Make decision..
Don’t overinvest emotionally unless there is clear commitment and action..
Acha thik hai..... Phir!
Maybe there are some instructions from the guy's mother to stay away from u which is why he isnt showing any interest on his own Look u cant force anyone into a relationship or marriage U had envisioned a lot of dreams with him of spending ur life together which is why it is difficult for u to concentrate in this current situation Ask clearly one more time if non-veg is truly the only issue or if there is something else going on For a few days u should also avoid him n see how the situation unfolds No matter what happens focus on ur own health n ur exams first The rest is down to fate Stay blessed
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