Gender: FemaleSubmitted on 9 May 2026 at 6:19 am
I am 27 female unmarried, I am medium /ugly acc to society standards . I have been same throughout my life because of dark skin. But in terms of career I am decent and earn good. I have never found any love of my life every person I liked rejected me because I dusky even though they’ve dusky or either they want physical relationships no love practically. I found a guy out of blue and started talking I really fell for him took one step ahead and trusted him but he lied me about his age in reality he was 2 years younger than me. I thought we are same age and it’s been more than 2 years we have been discussing about marriage but recently when I pressurised he told me truth I was shocked . Also he is not passionate or serious about his career still in phase of deciding what to do in his life and I was comfortable maybe I became desperate maybe not but I wanted to marry this year not it feels like I am scammed. Now I realised that I’m past 2 years we have never went on date , he never wished me bday or surprised me he never put effort to meet me he only met when he wanted to see any movie because there is no pvr in his town and we always do 70-30 in all expenses, 70 me because he says that I am more independent so I should always spend on him. I feel like I beg for everything in my life. We have been on trips too there’s also it’s 70-30 expense and I am not against it but in return I don’t even get the love affection attention. He forgets the plans he make he forgets me he don’t even list when I speak on video calls, he never understands and I love him I am ready to adjust but universe isn’t with me I feel bad at this point to leave him and find anyone else I don’t have anyone I have Indian concept of arrange marriage, should I wait and trust or what should I do. I feel lonely empty.
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Anonymous10 June 2026 at 12:06 am
You are only 27!! If you trust you are beautiful the world will see the beauty in you. More than looks how you carry yourself matters and your kindness, intelligence, loyalty these are the things matter. That BOY is just using you, throw him away and focus on your career and loving yourself the right MAN will come at the right time.
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Anonymous10 June 2026 at 12:25 am
In India, it is very difficult for a person with skin colour or disability to find a life partner. The external appearance is more important than the inner beauty. Rest, you should not lose hope, something better will definitely happen for you.
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Anonymous10 June 2026 at 12:24 am
I m so sorry for you, i understand this skin colour complex and you end up pouring everything you have on bouy thinking they may leave you. Listen girl' 27 is nothing in this era. You can marry till 33 also. You use the same money on ur grooming join gym Makeurslef muscled fit not like body builder but strength trained which is attractive,use money on you. Use proper nail care, Look at the grooming style of dark models etc You will knw How to present urslef Don't roam with that panam pudungara guy. He ll not marry you against his parents So dmt become 30 wasting time on him Simply cut him And start mew
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Anonymous10 June 2026 at 8:50 pm
Do not marry the person Be safe you will find your match
Anonymous10 June 2026 at 5:45 am
Don't take a decision of marriage in the pressure of society. You are only 27 that is not a age to force yourself to marry with a boy who doesn't value you. Later on you will regret but you won't have any options after that. It's better to marry late or not to marry rather than being with a wrong person. Never take your decision according to the society. Only you have to face the consequences later society will not. Take your time and think about it.
Anonymous10 June 2026 at 12:14 am
"Love can survive compromises, but not the absence of honesty, respect, and effort. If after two years the relationship still feels one-sided, make your decision based on your future and self-respect—not on the fear of being alone."
Anonymous10 June 2026 at 12:09 am
The right person won’t make you question your worth every day.
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Anonymous10 June 2026 at 5:43 pm
Are u actually so naive. If someone does this to ur sister or daughter U will agree
Anonymous11 June 2026 at 4:49 pm
Be careful. Don't be get fooled again in desperation. Get close only with the person to whom you know very well like colleague, college/classmate , close friend of brother/sister. Other wise door se namaste .
Anonymous10 June 2026 at 8:29 pm
Girl! You are better off alone. Trust me a woman should leave at the first red flag. If a man doesn’t provide now he never will. Please love yourself and wait for the right person.
Anonymous10 June 2026 at 12:25 am
Why do you mention 70 30 soo many times...and just break up with him cuz he's not interested in you
Anonymous10 June 2026 at 6:24 pm
Don't stay connected with this boy. You will definitely get someone better for sure. Don't be desperate and love yourself.
Anonymous10 June 2026 at 3:13 pm
He is gonna dump you. Run.
Anonymous10 June 2026 at 6:18 am
Run !!!
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Anonymous10 June 2026 at 12:09 am
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Anonymous10 June 2026 at 12:06 am
Refer me
Anonymous10 June 2026 at 11:11 am
First thing you have self hurt urself stating you are ugly because the society says so .. So first take this blockade out that you are ugly .. say to urself you are beautiful and glamorous,change your attitude towards self .. society is nobody to tell what your value is .. Have that confidence in yourself that People get charmed not by your physical beauty but by your attitude , knowledge and skills .. Focus on your self worth and make career . Bank balance at end makes all the things in line .
Anonymous10 June 2026 at 5:23 am
Try to find a good friend's friendship is way more important than love and dusky doesn't ur ugly don't underestimate yourself
Anonymous10 June 2026 at 12:06 am
STOP trying to find Love... When the time is right... Love will find you... Till then remain focused on yourself and your self enhancement... You said you look mid or ugly... So what are you doing to improve that... Make small steps to enhance yourself every day... Anything you want... Looks... Talent... Skill ... Anything that you want... But be always the better version of yourself from yesterday... And please stop chasing people... Cause that's how people get hurt, used and abused... Have your own self-respect... If someone values you... Is respectful of your decision... And believes in marriage after the brief courtship, talking to your parents... Is focused on his goals and aspirations... Then go right ahead... Else remain focused on yourself... Hope you get all good things in life 🙂👍🏻
Anonymous10 June 2026 at 9:19 am
Girl! He is useless. Don't settle for less
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