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A Mother's Isolated Struggle With an Unsupportive Husband

28F Married through arrange marriage with 30 M ,3 years into marriage son with 6 months old struggled too much after delivery since my son born at 36 weeks he was only 2kg since his weight was too low i should feed him every 2 hourly once this was so frustrating and i was all guilty because i put on too much weight during pregnancy since doctor did not warn be about my weight and did not tell me about the complications i and my baby would face during my routine check ups 😞 some how my son started gaining decent weight and too much sleplesss nights no support though i was staying in my mom home my mom would hardly take care for 2 hours though i requested my husband to stay with me during this time he never did did not even stay a night with me though we have a seperate room in my mom home and stays just 5 km away from my mom home and office nearly 4 km even now if he vists my mom home he just talks to baby carey him hardly 5-10 minutes he dont care make him to sleep though i will struggling to make him sleep he never understands my pain ,he never thinks about my struggles ,he wants me to do it on my own everythings kids,house stuffs he dont help in anything and dont even think of helping me in anyways Just he pays for evrything though im working too i feel to much bad about this I cant even expalin this to any one