#C27649 M32 IT CTC 26lpa I recently got engaged to my gf of 1 year. We met through arranged marriage kind of set up. I told her about my past and she too shared everything about hers. We both were okay and then our dating started. Few days back I got an anonymous text message, the person asked me to check her phone randomly and check for dating apps. I did, she was literally fighting when I tried to take her phone, she threw away her glasses, was creating a scene in public, very embarrassing. But I did find a couple of dating apps and in all of them she was active and texted then literally minutes before meeting me that day. We had a huge fight, I threatened her that I’ll tell her family all about her. She then agreed to show me all the “harmless texts” she had sent on the apps, and that her friends were just having some fun, not meeting or doing anything nasty. When I saw the apps it was clear she had deleted most of the matches and only kept the ones where there was a single hi/ hello was shared. I checked her phone a bit thoroughly, she had cleaned it in a very good way. She had even deleted all her google maps history. I checked her upi payment history, she had made payments ranging from 500-2000 at morning at hotels. She told me all were breakfast bills, but these were hotels and not really restaurants. It was clear that even though these were not room payments but these were food bills payment that are done while check out. I am sure she goes to hotels with guys and she makes the food payments while check out, all the timings are 6am-8 am. Should I trust her and give her benefit of doubt? Give her a chance to explain herself? Or am I making too much of a deal because she insights that I am reading too much into things and making up things in my head.
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Read your confession again and you will get your answer, but didn't understand why you have mentioned your CTC here.
Run before you are in a drum !
Trust your instincts. See the 🚩. Leave.
Run as fast as you can do Biggest red flag
Just trust her bro. She went to those hotels for breakfasts. She is clean I believe.
Start Collecting proofs and then consult a lawyer
decide u want ride a new vehicle or 4th or 5th or 10th hand no one knows how many hands it was changed to kind of vehicle
Trust her bro , she was just donating money in hotels nothing wrong in it
Stay away, once trust is broken you cannot live peacefully. If she is having dating apps on the phone once marriage is fixed..she is clearly a red flag. Break this relationship and leave peacefully, you deserve better bro
Run bro Run
Benefit of the doubt in choosing your significant other HELL NO
Run brother run
Oh god..Is there more scope of Stupidity?..Sab kuch clear hai fir bhi bhai ko doubt hai... Current Situations dekhkar bhi inlogo ko Victim banna hai..Life se nahi pyaar hain toh please go ahead & Marry..All the Best
Check further and see if any bills exists on lunch and dinner as well
If you feel like giving her a chance to explain, do that.. but it would be wise to delay the marriage for a couple of months. Do not rush into marriage for now.
Yes you do please refrain from spoiling someone's life as well as yours. If a relationship doesnt make you trust it will be a hell for both
I hope u don't fall into her tunnel during first night... I mean, if at all, u still decide to listen to ur horny 🍆 n marry her...
Break up and don't look back.
Keep all the records. Hire a detective and gather all the proofs. Then show it to her family and breakup.
Bhaag Milka Bhaag
She is providing escort services to people. Dating apps + 6 am-8 am check out timings Check out timing is generally after 9 am. The escorts who provides night services to their clients checks out before that. That’s why her checkout is 6am-8am . + dating app history confirms that she is providing s£x services to people 😂 High end escorts provide services to clients staying in Hotel rooms. That’s why she only paid for the food, not hotel rooms.
Runnnnnnnnnnn never even look back
Bro bus kisi pahard par mat jana
Trust only builds a relationship strong. Nd with you the first step itself is Doubt 🤨...so it's going to be a tough journey over the days nd years. Better you move out of the relationship now itself.
hire a good detective! this is red flag
500 to 2k breakfast bills
Trust…..! What is that!
please trust her brother
Run
Na Kar Lala na Kar
Bach gaya tu
She is an escort service lady. Mat kar lala warna life kharab ho jayegi
Red flags galore 🚩
Test drive that used ol cnt n leave ...
Don't ever trust RUN FOR YOUR LIFE ELSE BLUE DRUM OR FORT AWAITS YOU
Is your wife from Kolkata, or is she one of those Bengali baddies? 🤣🤣 If so, then yeah, that's pretty normal.
Trust your gut feeling, it is matter of whole life. Better do a background check before marraige, gather all proofs and then proceed for seperation, if you find her unfaithful
Pagal wagal hain kya tu? Give her a chance after everything you saw? Bhai kulhadi maarna hain kya khudke paido pe? You ain't overthinking, you are trying to trivialise the issue. Run for your life dude, ajkal k scene toh pata hoga.
Leave please.
LEAVE!!
Leave asap
Red flag bro
Nope, please break up
let go
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Run run run
Leave her bro 😂😂😂😂
leave asap
Break up. Loyalty is everything.
G***ND pe laat maar bhai uske bht aa jyegi lekin vo aa agai agr tumhara neela Drum krdegi vo🤣🤣🤣
You are getting married to a prostitute 😁😁😁
Jahar kha le tu simp nhi gandu hai bsdkwale gutter ka pani pine wala hai tu
Move on. She's cheating. Save n help yourself.
Run, dont think twice you simphole. Run
What a dumb question to ask. Bro run
bhai tu kaat le warna aapni maiyat ka sarein intejam karke pyar mein dub jaa
Bhai which company is giving 26 L to a Dumb philosopher.
You just got engaged. Tell these things to her parents. And offcourse you should drop her . She isn't worthy .
Tu aise hi doubt kar raha hai, woh apne aunty ke sath hotel gayi thi, dating app uske dost k liye hai re, pata nahi mera chat kaise delete hojata hai .
Bro you still asking this question?? She may be a hore and you will regret later if you decide to go
Bro...run...don't fall and she will ruin your life with useless laws of bharat