#C27661 I am a female who is depressed, sad, helpless and feeling alone though I have decent family.In my family all are highly educated and got job , someone has gov. Job . But I have not done any job till now . I tried many times but didn't get the opportunity as I don't have any it skills. As I am not working women my husband also doesn't give me value saying what you do is all lying down on bed all day .His financial conditions are not that okay I understand but is it my fault that I did not get any job .he devalues. Also my family doesn't think I am so important person as other. I realised that earing money gives you all respect and importance by everyone. Due to this me and hubby always keep fighting. I have become so depressed and alone sometimes suicidal thoughts are coming on mind I want to do any job so that I will survive alone but now there is 5 years of career gap .is it possible to get job in it sector after this much gap....plz guys dnt make fun of me ...plz suggest me on this ...I am very depressed. Thank you
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Job will not solve all the problems, if ur husband does not value u now, very less chance he will value u when u will be employed
You can get a job but that depends on how much salary you are expecting... The higher the salary you want, the lower the chances
U will get i got job after ten years gap..u will get easily in customer support like jobs etc.. job opportunities are more , don't worry u will get
All adults must be financially independent. Earn enough atleast to pay for your own basic expenses (food, clothes, shelter).
Atleast could hv mentioned your age & which part of the country/state hail from. Anyway call center jobs and data entry/internet jobs etc, are allways available, age isn't a barrier, just simple English speaking skills... Even try to join a hotel or restaurant nearby....or even a kids school. Or just join a parlour, they wil self train your skills, or find a NGO or a Gaushala or a Plant Nursery and start; these are all much better than even what education brings jobs..
Don't get disappointed Love your self respect and dignity Just ignore your family members what they are pointing out at you Never feel disappointed due to their comments You can be happy as a homemaker too, you have to manage that, you have to spare time for yourself. Getting a job too is not easy,but it will take time
Chill… if your family members measure the value of a person wrt the money they earn, then simply ignore them. They don’t deserve your time & attention. Enjoy your life and don’t care about what others say
It's not too late to restart your career. Many people return after long gaps by updating their skills and starting with small opportunities. Focus on becoming financially independent for yourself, not to prove your worth to anyone.
Do MBA correspondence be patience ..don't see the world and panic
This is the story of most of the women. U r not alone. Sad but bitter truth. That's why nowadays every parent focuses on girls'education and wants her daughter to get a job before marriage... Pahle inlaws and husband ko job karne se problem hoti thi ab na karne se hoti hai... In any situation they are not satisfied...ladki ko jine nahi dena hai bas....🙄
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