#C27643 Confession: About a guy (from Kolkata) Few years ago, I dated him. He told me he was single. He made me believe I was his only one. Then suddenly, I saw him living with another girl — no honesty, no explanation, just betrayal. It wasn’t only the big lies. It was the small things too, the everyday manipulations that chipped away at me: Promising to call, then vanishing for days, leaving me restless and doubting myself. Gaslighting me when I asked questions — “you’re imagining things,” “you’re too sensitive.” Making me feel guilty for wanting clarity, twisting every story until I was the villain. Pretending to be the victim, crying crocodile tears to make me stay. He used to tell at me if I couldn't pay for his needs. (Like money for auto, bus, his lunch etc) And then came the violence and threats: He slapped me across the face when I confronted him. Maximum time it was infront of his friends or classmates. He was not scared of anyone and he was kinda proud of his "being marad" He kicked me on my mouth — a moment I will never forget, because it wasn’t just pain, it was humiliation. He blackmailed me when I tried to leave — threatening to spread edited photos/chats, threatening to ruin my reputation, threatening to “make sure no one believes you.” He used fear as a leash, making me feel trapped, unsafe, and powerless. He lied about his own family, painting them as cold and unloving, only to later twist the story again. He even abused my parents verbally, dragging them into his anger, disrespecting the people who raised me. On top of that, he tried to destroy my image by bad‑mouthing me. He told people I used his money, when in reality I paid for everything myself. Every meal, every outing, every small expense — I carried it. He twisted the truth to make me look greedy, while he thrived on my silence. And the hypocrisy was endless. Even while living with another girl, he kept texting me — pretending to care, pretending to love, pretending I was still his priority. And how helpless he is in his new relationship. How bad the girl is! Bla bla bla. His words and actions never matched, and every message was another knife. Maybe they also broke up. I don’t know. But what I do know is this: I want to raise this in front of everyone, especially other victims of him. Because silence protects men like him. His "good boy" image can be used to fool other young girls. Behind the polished mask, he was not a partner but a predator. He thrived on deceit, intimidation, and control. He wanted power, not love. For too long, I carried the shame quietly, thinking it was my fault. But it wasn’t. Abuse is never love. Lies are never care. Blackmail is never partnership. If you’ve ever been lied to, hit, or silenced — know this: you are not alone. Speak. Break the cycle. Don’t let men hide behind their charm or their job title.
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💬 Comments (23)
I am sorry for what u have been through.... But u are not raising anything .... Or doing anyone else a favour... Physical violence is a criminal offence, abuse is not love, blackmail is not love --- it's obvious,everyone knows this already, take legal action
Short n simple walk out n b happy peaceful why to take tension in life
Men like these are a plenty and it's important to name and shame them.
someone hv the courage to take the name...you will heal one day after years..they r narcissist
I really don’t know these kinda of boys… which kind of family they come from? They just don’t have any ethics learnt or what? How someone can be so manipulative and cruel that they don’t even realise what they are doing,,, but girl you really deserve kudos that you came out of it bravely.. I know these manipulators destroy your self confidence totally. Still you could gather courage and fought for you and your self respect. Kudos👏👏👏🫡🫡🫡 Always remember we are human beings because we have certain ethics. And for a girl … Self Respect is utmost required… leave love but not self respect.
I am proud of you👌👌,, you deserve for this only..... Keep it up.... Middle class, or arrange marriage boys feels like " He is not my type "
You deserved this..!
If u are from Kolkata then u deserve it
Oh Kolkata! Completely normal phenomenon 🙂
couldn't expect better from Bengalis 🥴
Pl forget him and also your past. Take care of yourself and move on. Donot waste yr time .
Reading similar stories everywhere. Why boys are like this? Why they play with girls emotions? And betray them badly. May karma hit them
Better single than some one like them
Yaha rone se aacha h police stn jao or usse rulao …self respect nam ki koi chiz hoti h madam jis ne jaisa kiya use waise return kro 1 thappad ka 2 to milna chaiye naa return me use
Very sorry for u. It shouldn't have happened. There is a limit for everything and it went beyond. Please make a complaint and the world knows about him. He will be behind bars and dont worry. His image will be damaged and urs will be protected. Let me know if u need any help.
why some react haha on this post?
Women need to stop leaning on men for emotional support! This expectation leads to blind faith. Be your own rock! Men are humans too and they are flawed! If you understand patriarchy, you must understand what kind of men are being raised in our society by the women who are propagating this patriarchy, labelling it as tradition!! Insecure, tactless men who have more ego than sense do these kind of things to women!! These are the very men who want a virgin wife.....so that they can satisfy their egos by exerting control over them!!
U can lodge complaint incyber cell an get ur photo and videos deleted forever
Why women tolerate such guys are beyond my comprehension. Why you people tolerate even first disrespect giving these type of men validation.
Please call me 7006862592
File a case simple .. You woman idiots or what ? If you were abused or raped , File a case .. take the matter legally .. Victimized would not lead you anything or any where 😂 .. After some time people would not even sympathy on you .. if you want justice file a case ...
U yourself is a stupid girl who carried on with such morons. .N now expect sympathy.... Must be nibba nibbi story for sure grow up girl moment someone hits uh it's over. No sympathies ur pathetic
Should have tagged the bastard