#C27636 During this mass lay off, it is easier to stay relevant and update skills than managing a wife who doesn't understand the market dynamics. Im having more than 15 yrs of experience and really scared of the situations. One or other day the juniors were let go coz their contribution isnt significant. Im able to survive only for the reason of working in more than one project, taking ownership, driving a few initiatives. Im spending nearly 12 hours everyday for office task and having a back pain as well. Here comes my wife who isn't bothered about anything, not having ability to go for job but judges evrything and expect a life of princess. Wants to go everyday or weekend out , trip. Sometimes I feel marriage is a curse for anyone who wants to do something great.
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Stop the maid and cook. This might give her some work at home instead of sitting on the sofa and giving instructions.
By any chance, is your wife a Bengali lady??
I’m sorry it’s important to get an understanding partner however in your older age you wouldn’t wish you had worked even harder. Make memories and try to balance. working 12 hours a day that’s crazy although I know everyone’s circumstances at are different try to have a work life balance.
Tell her u r fired and on notice period/,gareden period for 3 months, u have to find another job in 3 months and continue to go to office. Tell her that u r not clearing any interviews because ubr over qualified and ask her to go to job and attend interview. Introduction budget reduction and reduce all unwanted costs. Stay in office for 16 hours 12+ 2 hours gym...... repair ur back and get strong, keep updating u r skills and be ready for everything, invite the colleagues who got recently fired to u r home and trigger a discussion Abt how difficult life is........
This is nowadays proving to be true in most cases, new age wisdom , it was never like that in earlier generations 👇 ""Sometimes I feel marriage is a curse for anyone who wants to do something great""
You said it, take care..
Bro there is nothing wrong in chilling on the weekend and you need it! You are not a machine to work 12 hours a day! You will get all kinds of health issues and your company will replace you immediately without a second thought so don't fight with ur wife for the sake of an uncaring company who clearly doesn't give a crap about its employees and their health
Tell her corporate employee is one step above beggar
To vo b ghr sambhal e rhi h 24 hour
When you marry only for looks these kinda stuffs happen.
Its not that u r just poor and your skills are not updated thats why u r not able to give your wife princess treatment There are men out there who are earning more than 50lpa and are going abroad for travel every year Problem is we are just not skilled enough
That's why avoid young legs at any cost.
Make sure you have a backup plan. Unless you're an elite professional, you'll be shown the door soon. It is what it is.
Why don't you people discuss these things before marriage! Why did you marry unemployed unsupportive woman in the first place? Life is difficult these days as it is.
Tell her your company is considering firing you because you aren't available on weekends and say you're saving for the imminent hard times. See her reaction. If she still persists, fire her, I mean divorce her.