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Submit ConfessionGender: Male25 June 2026 at 12:40 am
#C27614 I’m a 25-year-old man who started my career in an MNC and later built my own business from scratch. I come from a very poor family, and through years of hard work, I’ve been able to buy my dream bike, a car, and property on my own. Life is finally getting better. I’ve had several relationships in the past, and I often receive marriage proposals through relatives. Some families are even willing to offer dowry to marry their daughters to me. Three months ago, I started dating a woman who is four years older than me. She is beautiful, mature, and caring, but she comes from a financially weak background and doesn’t have a stable job. She has also been hurt in past relationships after being cheated on. I genuinely like her, but sometimes I wonder if I’m becoming her “retirement plan.” She is 29, and both society and her family are pressuring her to get married soon. On the other hand, I’m only 25 and still want to grow personally and professionally. I’m confused. Should I marry the woman I’m dating, or should I wait and choose a partner who aligns more with the life I’ve worked so hard to build?
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You’re thinking of yourself as her ‘retirement plan,’ which suggests there isn't much feelings involved. You’re just 25 — this is the time to build your own life and career.
"I'm confused. Should I marry the woman I'm dating"??? Bhai meko ek baat batao, fir kya mazaak ke liye date karte ho kya? Thik hai jesa chal raha h chalne de, fir fun, entertainment, joy ke baad dekhenge kal kya karna hai??? Marrying a 4 year elder woman is a different thing.
U got it right.. u r her retirement plan..
Why do you go for the elder one? Now why do you think twice?
Bhai dm krle kuch baat krni hai career se related mujhe advise chaiye
Live you life brother, take time to celebrate your achievements. Forget the age gap, as soon as you marry 1) You will feel like living with parents again 2) Even if it’s 100% your money, you will still have the spouse poking nose into your investment strategies and spending. 3) In laws politics 4) Children’s responsibilities 5) Becoming a photographer on the trips. 6) Periods chandramukhi to deal roughly 3-5 days a month. 7) Surprises, Gifts, Mood swings Have your lads time at this age brother, but make sure you finance and fitness is making a steady progress. Men have time if you look after your fitness. There is no need to rush into this
We all get only one life, and no one knows how long it will last. No one knows what the future holds either. That's why we should live the life we have to the fullest. Income is never guaranteed unless you have a stable job. As long as you have work, everything seems fine. But once you're out of a job or leave a company, life can become uncertain. The real value lies in finding love, building meaningful relationships, fulfilling your needs, and living happily. If you're fortunate enough to have a supportive, understanding, and mature partner, keep moving forward together. Grow as a team—both in your careers and financially. Challenges will come, but when two people stand by each other, they can face any difficulty together. After all, life can be very simple if you choose to live it with gratitude and understanding, or very difficult if you make it so.
Wese 25 mein konsa business bhai?
Don't marry her. Let her go. Please don't waste her life. You are still in your playboy mode, she is looking to settle. Please don't waste her time and life.
Wait, for what, better options? How do you know you will get better options and not worse!? What's wrong with 25, to take the plunge, what's sacrosanct about waiting?! It may work, it may not, so you would anyway hv more years than her to make amends or find it all over again...but why give failure any chance at all, So make sure, your career and ambitions she understands, right from beginning, in present times preferably make a pre-nuptial agreement....
Don't be a retirement plan. If she's not earning to support herself, it'll be a major red flag for the future.
@25 house car and settled 🤔 what r u doing mate to settle @25😳
Did you start dating her without marriage in mind? Just for fun? Why do you feel you might be her retirement plan? Is it because of her finances? Didn't you consider whether she aligned with the life you've built before you started dating? Do you feel she doesn't genuinely like you and is only after your money? If yes, leave immediately. If no, then maybe you're the one who doesn't actually want her. Either way, leave.
Go for another one
nalla script writer man nee
Dont marry her bro
"Had several relationships in past", getting "marriage proposals through relatives", "some are even willing to give dowry", "retirement plan"..... Did you just post to boast about your colourful life? And about your level of success at this age, it's impossible if you're not doing some illegal business.....
Good
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Marry her , and grow together 🍀
Why did you start dating then? When you knew she was older than you! And btw at 25 you already worked in MNC quit the job started business made it successful and bought everything huh?! Who do you think are fools here! You don’t deserve her so leave her for good and wait for karma to hit you!
Man if you thinking women go to retirement at 29, you are 100 years behind ..ditch this woman ..find a head nodding doll for yourself
Smex sumx karne k baad picha churana chah rha hai ab nayi gurl chahiye kam age ki iss bhadve ko 😅, better leave her ASAP
Just openly say, u got lucky to fuck a matured milf but later understood, u got honey trapped n now, u r being forced/ blackmailed to marry her.