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Submit ConfessionGender: Male24 June 2026 at 4:01 am
#C27594 I am 41M male currently abroad having 2 kids 11 and 3. I have 2 sisters in India. My mother passed away when I was 15 and my father remarried. I don’t share good relationships with step mom. She doesn’t like anything about me. My father loves me but he doesn’t speak anything against his wife. My step - mother had a kid from her previous marriage and she wants all properties from my father in her name somehow. I don’t want to settle abroad as I miss my father and sisters. Living in India comes with all this family tension whereas at abroad I don’t face any of this tension. As kids are growing now, I am not able to decide if I should move back or settle here. If I don’t move in next1-2 years then it will become difficult to move later. I have stable job here and can have a similar good job in India.
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Focus on your career wherever u are ,and be with ur father always whenever he needs u
Don't hamper ur career. People changes with time.
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Sometime you must be practical
You can shift to India but keep limited contact with the people who create ruckus in your life. Have boundaries. Give limited access to selected people. Stay away from dramas of families. It’s possible to have peaceful life even around extended family, provided you know how to do it.
Why don’t you move to India but stay at some distance to your family. You can meet them when you feel like but they won’t trouble you everyday.
Please settle there itself
Stay abroad!
CONCENTRATE on ur career. keepnin touch with father. be for him when needed
Enjoy life in abroad
Stay abroad and let your dad take a call on property related decisions and it’s his property
Kissa paiso ka hai what is the value of ur dad ka estate and how much ur share wud be???understand and in long term if u can make that much amt of propefor ur kids wud that be enuf calculate as u said u have a stable job india has no guarantee of stability if ur step mom wanna cheat n b greedy then let the karma do their work in time
Stay there. Its good for ur and ur family mental health. Don’t come to india. If u come here, u will regret later.
Don't come to India, you are good where you are, if you miss your father ask him to visit you or you can visit him but don't come back and settle here, you will regret if you come here