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Pseudo feminism ruined a lot of good lives. First thing you don't fight with parents, might be something you don't like there though, but just ignore or think instead of fight. You are 28 , it's not too late you will get a lot good guys , in Bangalore as well,and also you will try from your side to approach some one if u like. Hopefully u will get sooner. 🍀✨

This is why never discuss your love life with friends. Most of them will only look to sabotage it.

No advice... Just a suggestion... Good that you kept your purity... See little one... Life teaches us lessons in the strangest ways... What you've learnt has opened your eyes... So just be happy that you've learnt it... I used to be naive like you when I was your age..10 years back... But then realised the Red Car theory... In this world if you see only evil in people... Evil will always find its way to you... So from experience telling you this... Not everyone in this world is bad or evil... Just don't be gullible or desperate or try searching for Love and Companionship... If it's meant to happen it'll be... No one can stop it... Just focus on making yourself a high value woman.. And you might never know... You might just find someone who takes you and settles in Paris or Switzerland.... So don't listen to Jokers or Feminists or Mysogynists... Cause all they do is objectify people and blame the opposite gender for all of societies problems... Take Care and God bless you always... 🙂👍🏻

You can still find a good match. Past you can't change...don't blame anyone. This will not help you think rationally. Nowadays people are getting married at the age of 30. So don't worry. If you still want to know the day then go to WWW.STEER-U.COM and ask one free question about your marriage. Hope it helps. Good luck

The part where I learned that the attractive man was hired by a multinational corporation and moved to Zurich with a foreign wife. Howdy! 💥 Wo....!

Marry a dude who doesn't have a job and show you learned anything.

Lower your expectations according to your standards

It feels good to be alone until you're 25, but from 30 onwards, you start to feel like it was a mistake

It's not too late yet. You have realised it now that peer pressure is a very bad thing and you have already realised that you should appreciate those who love you or Care for you. All these so-called besties will disappear from your Life and your partner and family will only be there in the long run.

Please accept the arranged marriage proposals, stop thinking about what happened, move on. Don't talk to those so-called friends. You are still young, you need a partner to love and care for you. Don't stop talking to your parents, talk to them. Take care

Go for an arranged marriage,date the guy for a few months and ensure to visit his family often.. get friendly with his family and ensure to visit the guy's home unannounced. You will understand eventually if you could bond with the family. When I dated,I became unavailable to my friends..lost too many of them. Now I'm married to my first love with a son with only single body count. I don't regret losing friends.

Nothing lost.. fortunately you never cheated .. so go for a new one with your new minds. Definitely there is A guy for you.. be sure to accept and adjustwith the one without any anticipation and unnecessary spirit to challenge your ex friends toa how that you are living a great life .

Aurat he aurat ki dushman hti hai. They never want anyone else to be happy .

Just go by the flow... You will get one

Lesson of life learn after exam ended, result - u r failed, no one is the best, so adjust if u see anyone like u

Keep good relationship with your parents. Don't compare your life with friends. God has good groom for you. You will get him soon.

Looks like written by a guy

Regret won't change the past, but it can shape your future if you let it teach you something. Stop comparing your life with your married friends or with the guy you rejected. At 28, you're really not late. It only feels that way because people around you have settled down, but that's not a universal timeline. These days, many people find the right partner in their late 20s or even 30s. Maybe the universe has been protecting you from connections that were never truly meant for you. Sometimes what feels like a delay is actually protection. Try looking at it from that perspective. From everything you've shared, it seems you've gained a lot of emotional maturity through these experiences. That maturity will help you make much better decisions going forward. Also, the fact that you've stayed true to your values and haven't been physically involved with anyone isn't something to be ashamed of. The right person will value your honesty, sincerity, and the way you've respected your own boundaries. I can relate to your story because my journey has been somewhat similar. Despite genuinely liking someone, I've never really been in a relationship either. Every time I felt a meaningful connection was developing, it somehow faded away often because of external influences and circumstances beyond my control. Experiences like these can be painful, but they also teach us patience, self-worth, and emotional resilience. That's why I understand how powerful peer pressure and social influence can be. At the same time, I've learned that the right relationship isn't just about timing it's also about two people choosing each other despite the noise around them. Don't lose hope. Keep working on yourself, stay open to meeting new people, and trust the timing of your life. Your best chapter may still be ahead of you. I genuinely wish you nothing but peace, happiness, and the kind of love that chooses you without hesitation.

Don't worry u will get a better match ,wait for ur turn, be positive,think positive,...

Oh come on . Grow up . Stop blaming feminism for your naive , gullible nature and lack of decision making capabilities. You were seeking advice and apparently received bad ones and decided to act on them . Its on you. Have you seen the plight of women in countries with no feminism ? Read Afghanistan . If you have received an education, able to work and seek equal opportunities and given a choice to choose a life partner, thank feminism for that. This reply is harsh , sure , but hope this will wake you up . Anyway, all is not lost . You are only 28 . Learn from your mistakes . Before you take any decisions, sit on it . Its ok to discuss your problem and seek advice but remember only you will bear the consequences and not the advisor . My advice, learn to forgive yourselves , change who and how much you can trust . Your problem is not that you are single , your problem is you don’t know what kind of a partner you want and how you yourself will contribute to a healthy relationship. Learn to understand and love yourself first. You seem to have pretty privilege , then know that many will try to woo you for physical attraction . Try to find a person that loves you for your true nature and will stick with you through good and bad times . May I recommend watching the movie “ someone like you “ 2001 . Teaches girls a lot about what a good partner is like .good luck.

You’re going to be okay. You’re only 28, and there is still so much life ahead of you. Be patient with yourself, take things one step at a time, and try to stay hopeful about what’s coming. Having a boyfriend, getting married, and having kids can be parts of life, but they are not the only things that make life meaningful. Don’t compare yourself with others, and don’t keep thinking about what could have happened if you had done this or that differently. Try to live in the moment. Explore new things, take care of yourself, and trust that life can still surprise you in beautiful ways.

So start initiating at your end . But flush that feminist crap frst no body want to entertain those fabricated & unnecessary thoughts. Apologise to your parents frst before anything. God bless

Happily and married is a myth and your feminist friends are right. Grass is always greener on the other side. Ps am married. Hence would advise dont get matter unless you want to ruin you life

When you need to do anything for you then do listen to anyone. Take your discussion yourself

Girls always reject the good one 😊

DM for a quick chat and let see where it goes -M, never married

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Written by a MAN!

In Bengaluru reality hurts when u see all around the peoples. Don't say it to ur colleagues and nearby that u r a virgin.. they will try to do bad things to u.. 😁 cause in Bengaluru this thing is out of syllabus

Age is just a number... Work on your appearance.. be fit.... Talk to your parents...... You will get what you need....

I am single unmarried..... 39 years old. Living in Kolkata....

No woman will write this lol

OMG if this true, then I am also in this situation

Well you are only feeling this because your circle left you. I do honestly hope you changed for the better and find a decent guy soon. Since you are still a virgin which is very rare these days, don't sleep with anyone random just to prove a point if you don't like them. Join some group activities where you can connect with more people and make better friends, and maybe you will find someone naturally.

Worthy suggestion to all the girls

This was posted a few months before

Oh no, look look the obvious outcome of my actions.

You can still find a good guy in arranged marriage setup. Keep good relationship with your parents and they will do the needful.

Karma

They were cheering because they saved that guy from a colossal idiot like you, not the other way around as you imagine In fact that’s what they were doing all along.

Karma

Pseudo feminism is on rise and threat to modern society 🙈🙈

And by the way, Didi, don't keep any female friends anymore. If you come across a good guy nearby, give it a try. Whatever you do, be completely honest about it. 👍🏻

Most good-looking girls tend to make these mistakes. I’ve seen it happen a lot.

Still in 28 and not approached by any guy?? Kind of strange though. Anyways, change the place, say sorry to your parents, and tell them you are ready for marriage now, it's not too late now.

Hii please dm

Arnab Sarkar Aritra Chakraborty 🤡

Feminism means advising others & not following for self

Confession made by a boy to make women feel bad and boost men's ego! Don't worry sweetie you men have to level up your game warna koi ladki bhao nehi degi!

I doubt you're a woman...🤔

Karma is back, when ego was on your head, you were not a women. Now all girls should suffer and die as single.

Slap urself... no matter how much u try.. u will drivel have a miserable life with any guy.. u r mentally damaged by those so called feminists.. this damage cannot be repaired unless u make efforts to fix someone's life... get back to ur parents.. show them to make decisions.. coz u suck at it..

Written by some sadistic, bitter, woman-hating man.

Idiot

Serves u good b**tch

Women n Muslims are kinda same. Only they can save men n hindus from them. Also, Only they can save themselves from them.

feminism seems cool on social media only. some pseudo feminist manipulating young minds and make them toxic man haters for no reasons whereas themselves are happily married/settled down with their partner.

Sixth sense is gifted. And most women are considered half brain because of ppl like these only.

Your group wasn't feminists, they were bloody hypocrites. Don't blame feminists for your stupidity

Go fall in ur parents feet and ask them to get u married at least now u realised about fake feminism