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"She lied because she was afraid to lose me" is one of my favorite lines 🤣😂 Sorry I laughed at that Won't say anything. Ur life, ur choice

Don't get married because someone will laugh at you. If you want to see where things go wait. Anyway you just can't rush and marry random people. But before getting married you should do some research. All the best

Wait for her.... May Almighty bless you both with a happy married life..... You family won't be able to come to Africa... And no one will be ready to marry you later.....

Getting a good lovable, non-cheating wife is a prize, to be relished. Your reasons for her hiding the truth and then suddenly confess, without any risk from your side, is possibly correct ("that she did not want to lose you."). In such a case, I would advise you to wait for her final divorce decree.

Before marriage she told everything ..if she confesses after marriage what will you do? Wait for some more time, know the reason for divorce, talk with her ex husband and make decision.

Bro go for live in relationship .if it worked then think about marriage .take her with u SA

when you made decision of not marrying her ... so thats your decision , whats more to decide for you ... Of course she cannot be married legally until she is not divorced ...

Let her finish paper work and join you in Africa. What's so big a deal here.

Trust and Loyalty are two important factors in any relationship with or without love.

Marry her

Can give one chance as you don't have any other option..so go ahead n take her to SA and live for some months. Comfortable then marry her.

Do you know the reason for divorce?

Whatever Happened in the past let it be Buried now ... She Loves you is what matters the Most . Accept her and start your new Journey .

A leopard does not change it's spots. You walking on water here

Advice is ... Don't marry her... Always Remember... Mistakes are part of human nature, but lying about it or hiding it is a conscious decision...so if someone is making such decisions... It's part of their charecter...who knows what skeletons could be hiding in the closet... So step back and live a happy life... Focus on yourself and self enhancement... If Love is meant to find its way towards you... It'll inevitably... If it's not... Then it'll never... Hope you make a wise decision..🙂

Being divorced person doesn't mean you bad ,just people make bad choices. Maybe ex husband unfaithful, abusive.

Bhai africa me pahad ho to udhar bula le warna khud India aa jao ! Final verdict to ho gaya hain🤣🤣

She basically had an affair with you while being married. And it’s not ok to hide even if she was already divorced it’s a huge thing to hide about being married.

Women usually don't 'hide' such details 🤔 Compared to men, women are usually upfront and transparent. This is definitely not a 'normal' girl 🧐 "She left her husband" What was the reason/s she "left" him? Did she demand alimony or maintenance? Was there a police case or litigation? After you get all the above info, tell her you'd like to speak to her ex. Not "I'd like to verify with him". Not "I'd like to confirm with him". Just "I'd like to speak to your ex" If she has nothing to hide, she will not object. Listen man....if you are going to hand your life, your assets, your ancestral assets to a woman you met online, the least you should do is check her background. Btw, your colleagues will not laugh at you, they will respect you for having the courage to take the right decision and for not impulsively falling into a trap like many young men do, and regret all their lives.

First find the reason why she is getting a divorce. Do some enquiry from her friends or co-workers ....Second let her complete the divorce settlement legally...dont rush

You can perform a temple ritual.. later after all her formalities are over, go legal

Buddy You are in Your Life’s prime. She is like a flame that shines brighter before it’s going out forever. You can get better choices.Just look into the right group of people.

Complete back off.

Your family is correct, don't be impulsive

What if this is an ex parte divorce it will be ugly

Do you love this girl? If yes. Then nothing else matters

Check everything, if it's a single lie or u will get multiple lies, contact her ex partner so u have clear seen of every side of her

Don't marry her, if you people ready for she need to inform you everything why hiding

Aurat ke chakkar mein mat padho... Ache ache barbad hogaye...

Trust her and your inner voice and go for it , God bless u

Its not about her having a past. Its sbout her lying the whole time. If she can do it once, she can do it again. Honesty and Trust are huge factors in a good marriage, trust saves marriage during bad phases, trust and respect come handy when love feels insufficient. She lost that trust already. She has already shown that she can break a trust again if she gains something out of it.

Tell ur family you were physically intimate with her. So now you too have a past, a bit hidden though

Of course you shouldn't marry her

Don't marry her, why she didn't cleared everything before dating you. She will come up with more lies after marriage m sure.

Marry her

Marry her

Don't marry her

Its ok to be a divorcee, its not okay to be a liar . She had multiple chances to tell you but waited till you were completely hooked . A relationship on the foundation of a lie. Huge red flag.🚩

Wait for her

What if she is toxic & her husband asked for divorce ? Hiding a marriage itself is a monumental crime she has done … Search for another girl bro !

Better to drop.. She is not trust worthy.. just because nobody is willing to move to Africa, doesnt mean u marry a wrong person.. better get back to india for a year or so.. and then fly abroad again..

U won't marry her. U used her n ur coal black ass was looking for an excuse to dump her. Now, u got 1. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

If you wanna stay alive and live in peaceful life, Stay away from her even she promise you putting her @$$ on grilling charcoal.. once lied always lie