#C27569 "I am a 21 year old girl. My parents are not alive and life is going very hard for me. I have no one to whom I can tell my problems. I am in a lot of depression. There is no one trustworthy near me that I can explain my condition to. So I want to tell everything to some unknown person so my stress reduces. But I want the other person to consult me - I just need a therapist. But I cannot go anywhere offline. So I thought I will post on this page. If there is any person here who can listen to me, then reply in the comments and I will contact them myself.. whether it is a girl or a boy, it doesn’t matter, just someone who can understand. I am very troubled, please no one take these words negatively."
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There are a lot of predators on Facebook who prey on people during vulnerable moments. Please be careful about how much of your personal struggles you share publicly. Stay safe and take care of yourself.
Don't share with strangers..consult a therapist or counselor..else try ChatGPT, it really works !
Halka Mon – Your Safe Space To Be Heard
u r young and online is not so safe consult a therapist much safer take care
Girl, just dont get used by someone. Take care please. Focus on building yourself. No matter how others treat you, you have to treat yourself better. Take care of your physical and mental health. If you treat yourself better, have firm boundaries and are focused on yourself entirely, good people with positive energy automatically enter your life. Just dont trust someone immediately. Take care of yourself❤️
You’re carrying a lot at such a young age, and reaching out takes courage. Please be careful about trusting strangers online with deeply personal matters. You deserve support from someone safe and trained to help. I hope kind people listen, but please also consider a therapist or mental health helpline for support.
bewajah koi help nahi karenge soch samajkar sirf apne dil aur dimagh ki suno bas
nobody should believe any one online, in terms of finding peace will be ended up more complications! One simple suggestion stop thinking which is not in hand.
Sorry for your loss. Life is a struggle at every place so you need to make a way to come out of it. I can understand the pain you are going through and actually it's a fact that nowadays we cannot express our feelings through meeting personally but no one is there to talk in this superb busy world hence people are looking for online friends for solutions. Please be careful on the choice of friends you choose online. I can't say that you can feel free and message me so that I can guide you because it's your choice. Only if you feel safe and comfortable then only share your side of the story otherwise wait for the right time. All the best 👍
This is the weakest you can ever be. Chennalise your thoughts in to Bhagwan and fight it alone. You can get exploited hence it's always better to trust yourself and no one else. If you are able to fight it alone this would make you strong and you would be able to face anything in future. So you have a choice to either seek Support & risk to get exploited or fight it alone & become stronger and move further in life.
Don't trust anyone online just like that and tell them all your troubles, I can understand your pain but it's best to be safe than sorry. You never know how someone will use that information against you. Be very mindful. Talking to chatgpt helps too.
I will just say don't trust anybody online Talk to your school friends cousins anyone bcoz they will be there with you Family is always family cousins your colony childhood friend
Just have some patience and strong trust on yourself and remember one thing there's nobody for you not even your own shadow it also leave you when lights get off so be strong and make your mind to control emotions
No one should have to carry this much pain alone. If you need someone to listen without judgment or unnecessary advice, you can message me. I can't promise to solve everything, but I can promise to listen with patience and respect. And if you simply need a calm conversation or good company for a while, you're welcome to message me. I sincerely hope you find the peace, strength, and support you deserve.
You are very young and vulnerable so be extremely careful whom you converse with. At barely 21, life has not been very kind. I suggest you converse with someone from your own sex just to reduce physical exploitation angle. While you find someone who delivers on your expectations , your best friend is yoga, meditation and hanuman challisa chants. Each one of these are scientifically proven to reduce depression, anxiety etc and flood your body with positivity. It’s only with a positive mind that you can define goals for yourself and take baby steps to achieve small successes. Remember, a guide can guide you ( in kalyug, one can’t be sure of anyone’s intentions) however, it’s ONLY you who has to perform her dharma. Trust but with your eyes and ears open.
Without telling ur problem if u say u need help how anyone can do it...because not everyone is good at handling every problem...so be specific so that someone can help you
Try ChatGPT, it really works 😊 don't share anything with strangers,take care of yourself first 🌻❤️
Awww.. you're going thru struggles & pain in so early stage of ur life. You can talk to me or maybe just tell me, & maybe also might help u, doesn't matter if you're a boy or girl.
Girl. Don't trust strangers,try chat gpt ,gemini ,it helped me a lot. Atleast ai listens and we won't loose anything.. hope and pray that things will turn out fine for you 🙏
Jiska koi nahi uska to khuda hai yaaro ...be positive u have super power...
Take care be strong jo Tum kar skati ho wo koi or nahi kar skta hai apne liye raste khud banao dnt trust strangers
Life is not easy for all, you're going through such a difficult time. It sounds like you've been carrying a lot on your own. You deserve to be heard and treated with kindness. If you want someone to listen, I hope you find people here who respond respectfully. But yes, there are a lot of people who are like vultures disguised as human beings. The most important thing is to build your self-confidence. I, too, went through many struggles in my life. It's just a matter of time. Believe in yourself, stay strong, and keep working on your confidence. Everything gets better with time. Stya blessed 🙌
it's okie gurl you can cry if you are sad but don't share your problems with anyone bcoz everyone is going to take it as advantage and hurt u deeply after knowing ur weakness. Stay alone than staying with exploiting people.
If u want to share..u can tell me...one thing u can do....that is Journaling....it has helped me a lot when I was going through tough time/depression
May Allah ease your difficulties and grant you peace. I'm truly sorry to hear about what you're going through. Please be careful about contacting unknown people privately online, especially when you're feeling vulnerable. Not everyone has good intentions. If you need someone to listen, try reaching out to a trusted female relative, a respected sister from your local masjid, or a qualified counsellor or therapist if possible. There's no shame in seeking professional help. Most importantly, don't lose hope in Allah. Allah says: "Indeed, with hardship comes ease." (Qur'an 94:5–6) May Allah grant you strength, replace your pain with peace, and surround you with righteous people who genuinely care for you. Ameen.
The only person you can share everything is the unknown one without showing identity. Becoz he will be most honest and brutal at the same time .
Stranger's = dangers do not trust blindly any people no one help without there personal benefits
Please start visiting your nearest temple, and take advice of old priests. Sometimes they just listen to us, and that’s all we need.
Avengers… Assemble ✌🏼
I wouldn't advise you to talk to people online because they worst to trust ,pray and ask God to heal ,whatever you going through.
Sad to hear that you're going through a lot. As someone who's going through PTSD and Depression myself I can understand what exactly you'd be going through. I did consult five different therapists but it didn't work out for me. I'll hope and pray for your well being and safety. Take good care of yourself. If you need emotional support, choose to disclose this to only trustable people not some random strangers on the Internet. Take care and update us if you start feeling better
Safe bet is therapist or counsellor
U try to search trust able person in like searching tiny boat in pacific atlantic
You dont need a person for consultation you need a person who can listen with empathy and help you out. Best of luck
I can help you.. where you from ??
I certainly understand you're going a lot of things in very early stage but just an advise from brother, don't believe anyone blindly and strangers are more dangerous.
At this young age you're carrying almost 15+ year's ahead where many disappear These times come to reveal yourself the true self, imagine you're in the middle of rough sea broken boat your life guarded by almighty as life jacket, it's tough survive Do a lot of self talk, Journal it Read it mostly your heart will listen the heaviness will reduce Everyone is alone here fighting invisible battles everyday Now you're fighting greaytest battle which is within, I can easily say ping me you're younger than my sister i can try and help But fight yourself I can sense something good going to happen soon, hold tight and proceed further
Yes, focus on yourself. I won't be able to tell that online platform is not trustworthy since me and many of my close relatives and friends got their life partners through the platform. Would say better be cautious and u can consult a therapist or mental health support helpline.
Well try me ! I'm really looking for your kind of Person to get heared & also to hear you
Be careful, before sharing anything, You’re carrying a lot at such a young age, and reaching out takes courage. Please be careful about trusting strangers online with personal matters.
Hi, I read your post. I’m really sorry that you are going through such a painful time. Losing your parents and facing life alone can feel extremely heavy, and it takes courage to share what you are feeling. If you want someone to listen, you can talk here. I may not be a professional therapist, but I can listen without judging. At the same time, I hope you can also connect with a trained counselor or mental health professional who can support you properly. Please don’t feel like you have to carry everything alone. If you ever feel like things are becoming unbearable or you feel unsafe, please reach out to an emergency helpline or a trusted person nearby. Take care of yourself. You matter, and I hope things slowly become easier for you. ❤️
I'm not a very talkative person but a good listener. Whatever you're going through in ur life u can share. I'll listen like an elder brother
I read your post, and it really broke my heart to see what you're going through. I can’t even imagine how heavy things must feel for you right now, especially losing your parents and feeling like you have to carry it all on your own. It takes a lot of strength to even type that out. It genuinely pains me to think of you feeling so completely isolated and overwhelmed at just 21. No one should have to walk through such a dark and difficult phase of life. But please remember, even in the darkest storms, the rain eventually stops. You are incredibly strong for making it this far, and this heavy chapter of your life does not define your entire story. There is still so much beautiful life ahead of you, and you have the strength inside you to get through this, one single day at a time.
No one in today's time will listen to you without their benefit so be careful
There are organizations which help people without fees online as well try those
Try to connect with the people in person. There are people who can help you.
Pta nhi itne sare comments mai app comment pad paoge ya nhi but I can listen to you as much as you want to speak
Just listen to bollywood songs based on Raag Darbari Kangda (Google it) sitting alone you will be free from depression.
There are a lot of people on FB willing to help as it seems. Hopefully you choose someone trustworthy enough to redress your grievances and someone who can lend a patient ear to your stories. You may text me if you so want. An advocate myself, I solve people's trouble as well as listen to them.
Read the Bhagavad Gita and pray to Lord Krishna or Lord Shri Ram. Also, recite the Hanuman Chalisa every day. It can bring peace, strength, and help you face life's challenges with greater courage. Surrender your worries at the lotus feet of Lord Krishna and trust in His guidance.
One cannot imagine how it would feel, life without a parent at this young age. I'm sorry that you are carrying so much by yourself. You don't need to apologize for sharing your feelings or worry about people taking your words negatively. Wanting someone to listen and understand is a very human need. Even though I'm just a stranger on the internet, I want you to know that your feelings matter and your struggles matter. I hope you find someone kind, patient, and trustworthy to talk to. And if things ever feel overwhelming or unsafe, please consider reaching out to a mental health helpline or professional as well, even online. Take care of yourself. You deserve support, understanding, and better days ahead.
I advise you to go for professional counselling if you can, bt if you really need to talk nd feel light, i can help the best i can.
Life's all about experience, let the negative be like fertilizer for your best future.
Move towards meditation
Be strong first , and diversify your brain to make yourself busy in things in which your soul found happiness as seneca said once we suffer more inside the brain rather than in reality
I am ready to listen on the condition that both of our identity would be anonymous. That way you might be better protected as well.
I’m really sorry you’re going through such a difficult time. I’m also around your age, and I understand how heavy life can feel when you have no one to share your problems with. If you ever need someone to listen to, you can talk to me. I’m not a professional therapist, but I’ll genuinely try to understand and support you. Also, try not to overthink too much. I know it’s easier said than done, but overthinking can slowly drain you from inside. I used to overthink a lot whenever I had free time, and it affected my mood and even my health. I started keeping myself busy with things like studying, watching movies, and other activities, and it helped me a little. I’m also someone who doesn’t easily share my problems with others, so I understand how difficult it can be. Take care of yourself, and don’t hesitate to talk if you need someone.
A therapist would be a safer option, it's not very safe out here on online platforms. Wishing you peace and mental sanity.
Ramna will bless you 🙏
I don't know what you're going through, but you don't have to explain everything at once. If you ever feel comfortable talking to me, I'll listen without judging or forcing my opinions on you. Take your time, and only message if you genuinely feel safe doing so. I hope things get better for you.
You can ping me I have lost both my parents Sailing in the same boat so i can relate some of your prbs very well
Be careful while you share your problems online. People get advantage of it soonest
My suggestion would be avoid sharing any personal information other than what you would like to discuss. This can keep you in a safe place. The world is too small to be alone. You can get enormous amount of strength and support from it.
False story for views and comments.. if genuinely you are disturbed stay away from social media. Travel to new places and explore. Dukh aese batne se badhega hu gatega nahi 👍
Connect with me and ill lend an ear- if not a therapist please..
Don't worry sis.. You will overcome this.. Don't let depression play with your Mind... I am always ready to listen your problems of every kind..
Strangers sometimes understand better than people we know. You’re not as alone as you feel right now.
Not a therapist, but can ping me.
Don’t ever rely on completely stranger people , there is high probability of getting trapped in an unwarranted situation.
Creeps in comment section just to lure her later into their trap.stay safe don't expose urself and ur personal life to anybody Period.
May you find someone who understand language of your soul
you’re carrying so much right now. You don’t have to explain everything at once, but you deserve to talk to someone who listens respectfully and takes you seriously. If you just want someone to hear you for a bit, you can message — but please also consider reaching out to a professional counselor or a mental health helpline if things feel too heavy to carry alone.
What problems are you facing?
Before to know some one better it's not good to share it!! Many pysiclogiiest are here in many pages or groups you can contact them. Or best idea to choose chat gpt. Or more you can contact me may be I have any solution or advice !!!
Okay.. I can do this.. I believe sometimes we need someone who doesnt judge us, doesnt guve any advice or suggestion.. but should understand and acknowledge in a sensible way.. Have been doing this to my friends and been through this phase.. feel free to connect with me anytime u like... If u have trust issues,?. Feel free to block me when u r done.. 😊👍🏻 be careful . Stay safe... good luck..
I know it's gonna hard for you to trust who is right to listen you and console you. Lots of comment you gonna get here but not here all are trust worthy. If you get a chance , try sharing it with me. If I don't deserve it , you can block me whenever you want
Better attend meditation class you will feel better.. Meanwhile dont trust strangers with personal matters..
You can try if you want👍
I don't know where you read my comment or not... But if you ever need someone to share something... I'm here Take Care ✌️
Hey i am there u can share with me i can really understand ur pain im ready to listen to ur problms and im sure u will heal gradually.
Feel free to reach out to me, Mam
Don't loose hope
U can call me n will nt charge u a penny just get out of depression dear frnd
App apna ju bhee duckh ya gam ya takleef hai sirf Allaha ku batoo wo bhee raat Kay akhri hisemay namaz e tahujid Ada karoo aur all say apnay dil kay sare razz saree takleef batoo who bateen allah aur app Kay beech raheegayee inshallah Allaha app Ki tamaam takleef door kare Ameen
I wish u will overcome all ur problems, but don't trust anyone online here everyone is not trustworthy.
Reach out to a proper therapist Social media is a scam Never expose urself to wolves God bless you
Ready to help!
Looks fishy, u should never mention your age and gender instead just ask for help. Now I could be wrong and if you are not lying then go for a girl share with them and do not share your contact and identity. There are lots of female here who can help you. Remember world is a crual and a kind place. It's you who can control and enable them. Get well soon.
Behan kya hua hai aapko , aap mujhe batao
Yes please
I pray my darling God gives you someone genuine from your family or any relatives you can get some good consolation and blessed advice.I pray God gives you the strength
You need to be careful
i will help you as much as I can.
What's going on Girl.
I have a friend u can talk to her if you’re comfortable
You are 2k kid Well matured U knw everything, its internet era, Share to whom u really want to share, forget about this negative and scary comments
try this : https://empathe-ai-chat.replit.app/chat. Its anonymous and no data stored, it will hear you out empathetically and no payment or hassle , give it a try.
Definitely it will be a trap
Yes sister you can reach out to me. 😊
We all are here for you dear. But opening up to everyone or anyone can be really dangerous nowadays. Please be safe!
U r very young. So beware being online. There are many guys who will try to manipulate you on the pretext that he cares for you. So don't share anything with a stranger online.