#C27565 Hi all, F28. I need an advice. I am working in IT and have a decent package. Recently I have purchased a property for which I have taken a loan. This is the first time I have taken a loan for such a huge amount. The amount is 1.2x of my CTC. Now the problem is I also wish to get married by next year. Apart from that I am currently facing stagnation in my career and need a job switch. Am I juggling too many things simultaneously? On one hand I feel the need to clear the loan as soon as possible while having liquidity to meet the marriage expenses or any other expenses. On the other hand I feel job change is extremely important because I do not see growth in my current role, but a new job might cause instability in the first few months due to relocation and probation? I am feeling overwhelmed. I am the sole earner in my family and my family is completely dependent on me and I do not have any financial support from my family. How should I handle all these simultaneously?
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No wrong in investment but make sure you have required amount as liquidity to meet the marriage expense
A practical way to look at this is that you are not facing one problem, but three different timelines. 1. Home loan, a long term commitment (15 to 25 years). 2. Job switch, a medium term decision (3 to 6 months). 3. Marriage, a personal milestone (6 to 18 months). The feeling of being overwhelmed often comes from trying to solve all three at once. First, don't panic about the loan. A loan amount that is roughly 1.2x your annual CTC is generally not excessive if the EMI is comfortably manageable within your monthly budget. Owning a property is not a financial mistake just because it creates a liability. A job switch may actually be the most important priority right now. If you are experiencing career stagnation, increasing your earning potential can make both the loan and future marriage expenses easier to handle. Many people switch jobs while servicing home loans, lenders care more about continuity of employment than staying with the same employer. Since you are the sole earner, maintain an emergency fund before aggressively prepaying the loan. Liquidity is often more valuable than reducing principal quickly, especially when you may have relocation, marriage, or family related expenses in the coming year. For marriage, avoid planning around assumptions. Have transparent conversations with your prospective partner about finances, responsibilities, and expectations. A financially sensible wedding is far better than draining savings to host an expensive event. Try not to think "I must clear the loan ASAP." Unless the interest rate is unusually high, it may be wiser to balance: EMI payments Emergency fund Marriage fund Career growth As someone who is the sole provider for the family, your biggest financial asset is actually your earning capacity, not the speed at which you repay the loan. If I were in your position, I would prioritize: 1. Building/maintaining a 6 to 12 month emergency fund. 2. Starting the job search immediately. 3. Continuing regular EMI payments. 4. Creating a separate marriage savings fund. 5. Considering loan prepayment only after the above are in place. You're not necessarily juggling too many things, you're going through a phase where several major life events have coincided. The key is not to solve everything this month. Focus on the next most important step, career growth, while keeping your finances stable. That tends to make the other decisions much easier.
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