#C27558 M 25 Hi, I lost my mother in 2024. She was suffering from cancer, but she had no idea about it. She thought she was suffering from jaundice, which is curable. She'ad a lot of belief in me, which she always confessed in front of everyone. I feel guilty because I couldn't do anything, nd I didn't tell her what she was going through. Lately, I've been going through a heartbreaking struggle. Every single night, I'm trapped in the exact same nightmare, nd it leaves me terrified. I dream that my mother is suffering from a terminal illness. In the dream, she looks at me with eyes full of hope, silently trusting me to save hrrr and fix everything. I fight with all my might to change the outcome, but in the end, she slips away. I wake up in the morning sobbing, my pillow soaked with tears that I cannot stop. Even though she's no longer with me in this world, I'm forced to lose hrrr all over again every night. The pain of hrrr absence is heavy enough during the day, but reliving hrrr loss every night is shattering my heart.
It's your mind bro... Control your brain... If you don't control it and it starts controlling you... Then you're f**ked... Do some yoga and practice breathing techniques... Also do some naam jaap... And consult a psychiatrist if needed. But don't let this control you.... Cause it's only going to snowball... Take care and God bless you 🙂
Its already 2 yrs and u have still not come out of the agony. BELIEVE ONE THING....NOT EVERYTHING IS UNDER YOUR CONTROL. Few years back ,I heard krishna kumar's daughter died of cancer. Think a millionaire who has all world luxury ,could not save his daughter. Because whatever it is written that has to happen..... U HAVE TO COME OUT OF THE FACT ,U CAN CONTROL EVERYTHING...u are young....take help from psychatrist or attend SRI SRI ravishankar sessions on ESSENCE OF LIFE. Let me tell you this are not good signs of seeing the dreams from past 2 years...so take expert help who understand life and can guide you well. ALL THE BEST
Have a daughter soon. You will find your mother in her.
Dear son, your loss is irreplaceable, and your grief is well understood. But force yourself to come out of it. Remember your mom is watching you, she wants you to be happy and she will hate to see you always in grief. Only you think that your mom doesnt know her illness, but remember it was her body and she was much older than you are. She was just innocent and ignorant, that's all. She will be lot more happy to see you from up, you growing well, nurturing good manners, respecting your culture, your religion and elders. These are the good things that you do as a respect and return gifts to your mother. Wipe off your tears, accept the nature's cruel truth, believe in Hinduism and on what our Dharma says, and live your life. Stay strong my son!
Brother, you need to accept first that she is no more. Help few poor mothers and you will feel better. God bless
Actually you love your mother a lot, so you cannot accept that your mother is no more. Everything is not in our hand, at that time you were unable to read that situation. There is a bengali proverb " জন্ম, মৃত্যু, বিয়ে তিন বিধাতা নিয়ে"
Losing a mother at an early age is painful. You have seen her condition deteriorating everyday. Don't feel guilty and anxious. Few things are not in our control. You have done the best of your ability. Our thoughts have immense power. Think that your mother's blessings, her trust are there with you. You are not able to accept the loss and still in Trauma. I can help you release your pain. Take care
If there is any trauma healer in the group ...pls work on her to release the trauma.
Please consult a clinical therapist you are dealing with grief, it's not easy for you but life moves on with it's harsh reality, just try to heal yourself
Get grief therapy...
If u feel everything occurs not bec of us and that it is as per Krishna s wish based on one s karma u ll feel relaxed... Everything is given by God nothing belongs to us..including relationships..What He has given he has taken...Nothing is ur fault.. Leave everything to Him and be relaxed
It takes time to heal and you will definitely heal
You are guilt stuck that's why this is happening..do social service when you see happiness in others face your problem will start to reduce..take care
I feel sorry for you… I really don’t know how can I help you. Plz help
Goto Psychiatrist
Apne ko us kabil banao jis dard se tumhare maa gujri hai us dard se jo gujar raha hai unki help kro jitni bhi ho ske as per your convenience tab tum shyad chain se so pao jindagi jee pao