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You are sad that people judge you for your complexion but at the same time you judge them based on their accent ?

Marry a English/Hindi teacher

Ask Shashi Tharoor if he is okay with your complexion

Choice is your , marriage is yours .. If accent can make understanding happen between 2 people then accent should have been included .. But understanding each other is beyond the comprehension of language or color or creed . So choice is entirely yours ..

The starting where you said you are a "Vergin" not Virgin but "Vergin" ... Where I actually for a brief moment felt warm and fuzzy inside thinking finally a decent confession, so what if she's a fixer-upper in english. But then you put gasoline on my dreams and lit that on fire... See only advice I can give is your past free background is a strong bargaining chip but don't stretch it. I'll not challenge your choice or complextion, cause you're entitled to your choices however you're, but don't chase after a Mercedes Benz when you have money for a unused wagon R ... Hope this makes sense. 🙂

Life isn’t just about marriage. Stop running after random people. Focus on yourself. You’re educated — find a job. When you stop chasing out of desperation, things will start to fall into place.

its okay girl! take your time, If you are not finding anyone suitable, just don’t get married. happily unmarried is still way better than broken divorcee!

Trust me ,your grammar is no way better ..because we dont "talk them " we talk to them or have a conversation with them.. so u re not in a position to judge my dear ,marry one of them,get him admitted in a personality development class and get your self a grammar book Try not to be judgmental in future

A guy asking for a fair girl is immature and wrong whereas you look for a good accent is your mature requirement. All checks ✅ will not be matched to anyone.

If you don't like both boys, search again. If you are not doing a job, search it first, join it, maybe you will find a good match.

I also felt bad when I didn't meet the same accent person. So go according to your wish..

Rajavel Karikalan Exactly what I was about to write but glad you did it on my behalf!! 😂 Sister, English is just a language, don't hype it! And secondly for a person having such degrees (BTech and MBA), you too are bad in grammar and can't even make proper sentences! But did it stop you from getting your degrees or whatever you have achieved?? Nahi naa! Then don't make it an issue! Ye sab baad me matter nahi karta! At a later stage you want compatibility, understanding and unconditional love! You might have heard this song, "Gore rang pe naa itna gumaan kar..., gora rang to din me dhal jaayega". So color doesn't matter much! Don't stress much over it!! All the best!!

You will always have problem with the accent and then think of the responsibilities of the 1st match... It's always better to be single than to be in a bad marriage. लोगो का क्या है...बकवास तो करना ही है

Accent will definitely be different for all people even in the same caste but different cities ..it's natural...so goes with English too...american english n british english is different

You should marry Salman Khan, he speaks good English, his accent is good, his Laughter is also good, earns Good, not from Village, not immature and his brother don't sell illegal medicines😂

Natural attraction is definitely a criteria for healthy relationship. Of atttaction is forced then intimacy suffers. That spells doom for any marriage. So, give credence to this aspect. When one is older, one must realize, that it’s harder to adjust as by 30s, one has experienced the world & discovered self. So, your reservations & pickiness is valid. Everyone judges others- this acceptance is important. People try to figure out how they fit into each other’s lives. One’s likes/dislikes should not be ignored. Accepting a match out of compulsion reduces success of a marriage. Since you can’t become younger, it’s wise to accept that you have developed a personality . Plus, you are financially independent. Keep looking for a compatible match instead of saying yes to someone whom you aren’t attracted to. As one ages, matches are hard to find. Move forward with this bitter reality.

Focus on money and banglore location ur life will change

You are judgong them by their accent and comms but you are expecting that no one should judge you by your complexion. This is hypocrisy.

Please wait, hope & pray. Marry someone who genuinely likes who you are and vice versa. Can anyone live with anybody's looks forever? Look at Aishwarya rai. When the time is right destiny will lead you to your soul mate. Keep exploring. Your mate is also looking for you. Please remember you'll not be able to tick all the boxes. All the best.

If you don't feel talking to them that means you did not like them. Good communication will only lead to successful marriage. Don't get married just for the sake of it. How can you live with the person you are not comfortable with.

Just prefer the person who cares for you, nothing matters more in a relationship.

Don't be a gold digger. .. look a person to live happily.. your are expecting money oriented person.. why those persons will look at you.

Best, you can approch soniagandhi, proposal for Rahulgandhi

Both r not right. Wait for better option

Didi ko 6 years se ladka nahi mil raha fir bhi accent k peeche padi hai . Wah Didi Wah

Behan, english to teri bhi tatti hai sach bolu to🤦🏽‍♀️

You say his English is bad but your English is full of mistakes too. Lol. Go for the second guy. Help him improve his English. This can be improved. First guy you said his brother has criminal case. Better to avoid such person.

Ek kaam kar, gora se shaadi kar le, you will like their accents 🤦🤦🤦

Try more! I understand you ! People in comment only judge !! It happens try online platform sometimes we can't reach so many people so online finding is best way also there are single dating events may be you find vibe match one

Mere sath karlo shadi

You are already past the age, then why settle for any random person with no chemistry? Try to work on your communication and build yourself up so you don’t judge someone and over expect.

India mai log 3LPA pe shadi kar rakhe hai..aur khuss hai..Tumko yha 25 to 35 LPA wala boy mil rh hai tab bhi Prblm hai.. Shadi nahi hogi kabhi tumari ,hogi bhi toh tut jayegi..Joint family ka natanki karo.. Log khete hai jiska maan kala uska dimag kala

Ap k liye maharaja khoj RAHe hai.. Thoda time dijiye

25LPA 26 LPA and couldn't speak English 🫡 strange to me

Instead of SEARCH you're RESEARCHING.. reduce your Expectations & Compromise it.. 😅🤣😂🙈🙊🙉

31 f, not fair , not working, not rich : again so many requirements. Good luck.U may find someone in next 10-20 years...

You can't find it yourself and don't let parent do the match either..... You are analysing and judging like a mother does for her daughter, even that job you are doing... But your English and accent and skin tone, hv u asked someone else, how they feel?! Now hereon do one thing, ask others how they feel and what they think about you honestly, make a note of all those points....you wil be surprised they wil be 10x worse than what you think about ppl, hope not, .........then start anew, after that your analysis maybe better...

Haha even accent is also one of the criteria now... Girl, they may not talk fluently but u r totally immature and have a superiority complex. With these additional qualities, don't choose a groom whom u see as low profile.

Seriously jinko life me kuch serious problems nai rehte unko bhi problems hi dikhtey hai sab kuch...

You are like my daughter or a sister , my sweet child please pray with full dedication to god so that you are blessed with a blissful married life. Also please get your horoscope checked with a good astrologer , he will guide you about exact remedies for the same. God bless you my child 🙏

2nd one you can go . If you want to explore then do more

25 and 36 LPA and can not speak english fluently 😂😂😂😂

Looking for a match as per your family expectations ...... suddenly after a year or 2 you will have a new post written here ....

Ignore them find someone else

You should have told this to their face.. atleast improve their life for the next much better god given pair

Isko behencho koi tom cruise lake do, matlab had hoti hai obsession ki bhi aur bahen please do check ur level of British lingua as well 😂😂😂

Its ok if certain Accent is a put off for you. Dont worry

Find ur own

Wait for next 5 years... Even uncles will reject you... Nakhre bahut hn tere .

As per your information you mentioned the 2 persons details and other reasons why you didn't like them but u didn't mentioned what type of guy u want to marry, as per your post I assume that u need a guy with more than 40LPA no family and no relatives or else his parents should be in the village or another city all the best

Please wait and reject both of them, wait for right person

Vijayakumar Arunachalam

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For someone who has a B.Tech and an MBA (most likely in English) your English is very subpar. Probably the boys think the same of you. 💁🏽‍♂️ not everyone wants a fair girl but you hide your flaws behind one thing you can’t change. Focus on things you can change and work on it. My 2 cents on your situation.

Villagers will obviously speak their own language with their natural accent so there is no worries in marrying such guy if your looking for an accent so search for a groom in England or america not here

Jo mil rha hai usse karlo Soon your eggs will dry up

Apart from the accent you are not satisfied it's a different thing leave it and find someone else

Forget all this and sign up for lessons in grammar. You need it.

And your English is terrible. We can all literally read it here!

You are still v young am sure you should not settle for stupid local accent people, do wait am sure you will find an amazing guy with great accent by 2050 All the best

Didi tum machine le leo dildo wahi sahi rahega apke liye kisi ladke ki life mat barbad karo and for boys their family is more important than anyone else.

You are the problem girl.. you don't understand what marriage is? None of the boy asked you to support their family but you have problem because they are content and you are insecure.

Why are you blaming guys for your complexion. You didn't like so many things in boys and they don't like your colour. Even more than 20 years will be required for you to find a suitable match with this kind of checklist you have for boys.

First get a job

With such fixed ideas about men, you can never be happy with anyone... Fault finding... Better remain single

Please spare the boys and stay unmarried...your skin color is not the issue...your attitude is. You could not hold a job: you have not found 1 guy in 5-7 years and the problem lies with everyone else!!! Introspection- have you heard of this term? If yes, please introspect for your own sake.

No one with a good accent with marry a woman with pathetic grammar.

I don't like your spellings

हिंदी में ही लिख लेती. सेरिडॉन खाना पड़ेगा. और कभी कभी तो मुझे लगता है इस पेज का एडमिन खुद से झूठी कहानियां यहां पेलता है. ज्यादा कमेंट, ज्यादा इंगेजमेंट, ज्यादा पैसा. मादरचोद.

Why not look groom from Europe or US ? Your Main problem is accent so this will resolve