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Submit ConfessionGender: Female19 June 2026 at 9:02 am
#C27538 For others, MIL and SIL are troublemakers, for me (and my husband too) his father and his extended family is. My fil was a banker and used to take my Mil's signature on the FDs which were in her name, withdraw the money and spend it lavishly on his 3 brothers and their families. It didn't stop till then, he extended this warmth to his cousins too. For everyone he's a nice person but not for his kids and wife. We are Bengali and for us Durga pujo is something which we can't resist and occassion where we get new clothes, which my mil and her 2 kids never got. Now coming back to FD, those were gifted to her by her parents as her parents (my husband's grandparents) were high ranked officers in railway and education department. Now my mil was left with a single FD worth 1.5 lakh and my fil got it hidden inside her clothes, took it and donated the money to 2 organisations and to his cousin sister whose 31 year son doesn't want to do job and dreams that he'll become millionaire by winning a lottery. Now coming to us. His youngest brothers son has expressed his desire to study MBA in some private college (he didn't clear CAT/ MAT). The fees quoted by him to us 28lakhs out of which his father can pay 4L and my fil is expecting us to pay the rest. My husband told him he has to payback 60L which we took to purchase our home but my fil says that we should sell off this flat (which we bought combined) and help his cousin first saying helping others is "paramdharma". He sold off his big land to a builder and in return got some cash which he used in my sister in law's wedding and got 2 flats which he gave away to his 2 brothers saying their kids are in college, so during their marriage they need to show the groom/ bride's house that they have own home. Now they live in rented house in our native and he is expecting us to do the same. My husband denied and for this he shouted at him and said birthing you was a bad decision. Your wife can give the money then and my mil said no she won't. It's for their 2 kids education. So my fil says the cousin will help us for our kids education when the time comes but now we should help him now. Everyday there's a chaos at home especially when I'm taking my classes, in front of my students he creates drama. I'm so pissed off. Is there any legal way to handle this? Can we complain in police that he is harassing us to give money to his brothers son? Ps- my fil only funded schooling of my husband and his sister. College they completed with their own money and scholarship. Same goes for our wedding. We did not get any share of money or property that's given to builder and now this house is built by taking some loan from my father( which we paid off), my contribution and obviously his contribution.
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I would suggest that go and humiliate , taunt those people on public occasion/ gathering who are expecting help from your father in law. If your FIL creates a fuss about your bad behaviour don't give a damn about it. Hide all the important registry papers, bank documents etc from home and put it safely in some bank lockers. Remove all banking related apps from his phone. Of course do all this taking your MIL and other family members in consultation.
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This flat or house of yours is registered in whose name ?
It's same here sis my father side .. if your husband is not doing sommersault you are fine let him handle the way .. strictly tell him no shouting no polluting environment and if he does vault file case on him
unko bolo ,Jitno ko help kia h aaj tak unse paise mange , hum gareeb h hum kuch nahi de payengey. N just keep silent. Let him shout n create drama,just make sure he dont own any way to sell this house or sign any loan paper against it.
Ask your MIL to chase her husband. What good she will have, only trouble to the entire family.
No solution for this.
Ignore ur FIL and u also create drama in his extended family by asking all the money n everything Ask ur MIL to ask for her share from FD and land he sold If he creating chaos u too do the same n njoy the daily soap drama
Your FIL is a cancer to your family.. separate from him..
Don't waste your hard earned money for your fulfilling your fil's fantasies which he thinks is his responsibility.. he haven't done anything for you all and don't expect anything happening in future either by his side or from his cousins and brothers whom he helped, even those people will leave him as and when their milking cow will stop giving milk .