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Go on improving, increasing, expanding in your career n personal growth, let her be behind, atleast she is alive, present for you just in case, even that has its value.... Lets her sleep, be lazy, don't do avoidable work for her, that will force her to take care of herself atleast

Have you ever tried to understand her emotionally? What she is lacking? What she needs from you? Emotionally comforted her? May be she is suffering from underlying hurt or depression that you are not aware of. Try to meet her at emotional end, talk to her, what's bothering her. May be your mother's behavior could also be a reason.

You are not connected to her emotionally..my daughter is the laziest in the world!!! But once she gets proper sleep nonstop she works!! My son in law has the same problem,..dnt complain ..try to care and love more.. emotional attachment is important... If nothing works go for counseling.

She is ur wife not ur maid..and this is Supreme Court of India s statement..Give time to her..Give her love..take her out somewhere..Relationship requires efforts don't complaint all the time..When she will understand ur care and love she will do all the things which u can't even imagine also..Being a woman I m saying..I didn't knew to cook..but I learnt from youtube for my husband..anf now i can cook international cuisines..Be patient...Every relationship blooms at A proper time..But it requires love patience and efforts like a baby plant requires water and sunlight..and plz don't listen to ur mother and point to her..A woman can never tolerate that..

Is she good in bed?

I understand your frustration. I'm guessing you married daddy's little princess who never learnt how to do household chores. If truly it's only you who does everything then it is a Real problem. But some important information is missing regarding her employment status, her timings and if she contributes towards any other responsibilities. I can also see that you feel underappreciated. Let her know how you feel, and also look into how you are treating her, she could be suffering just like you.

so you married because you wanted a woman who could be paid un paid servant rather than wife ... Your wife is lazy because she does not make just a breakfast ... brilliant .. Well i think first look into your self ... Do you require life partner or a house help ?

What’s the deal with your mom? Why are you taking care of her? Is she sick?

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Simple just leave away from u r wife without contact for some time

Find another wife

Wait for feminists

Yah and sadly laws are also one sided and pushing everything to husband only 😢😢

Stop doing things required to be done as a husband 😌

Hire a house help full time who will do all the chores. Let your wife enjoy her time doing nothing. If you really love your wife then solve the problem by hiring help. Looks like you wanted free labour in the form of wife.

Stop doing things that you are doing as a husband.

U be ultra lazy. That's the only way. Let ur house be a dumpyard. But take care of ur mom n urself. Just exist in ur wife's life as a roommate. Don't do anything. If u eat, clean ur plate. Don't do anything else. Just ignore her presence. Ask ur inlaws to take her to their home on some excuse n don't ever go to bring her back. Just ignore her existence. Just live ur life with ur mom. I hope u don't ve kids, cos, a lazy wife wouldn't want to bear the pain of childbirth.