#C27570 27 years ,F. I have been in a relationship since 2018. I proposed to my bf cz I know he is the one for me.Today also I stick by it and will be forever ♾️. He is so understanding, honest, loyal,loving, caring.He is a proper husband material. No smoking, drinking (willingly). I am very lucky to have him.But I don't think he deserves me ,he deserves way better than me. I am a cheater, disloyal person.I met a guy through fb ,talked with him , share thoughts and everything. Then we met for 3/4hrs,went for a movie,things happened between us mutually.He is also in a very emotionally vulnerable condition but trying to fix his things up. We know that guy and me have no future.So we left everything. Cried out loud and ended up things today morning properly. I don't know what happened to me ,why did I slip, this was the very first time in my life and the last one. Now the problem is I just see myself stuck there, can't help myself to get out of it , seeing myself drowning still standing clueless. Please help me out. I am not a person like that who roaming around with anyone. I want my previous version back. That One man girl! I had total 3 relationship in my life and including this stranger I kissed only 3 men. So this is the character of mine. I just hate myself. I am feeling so relaxed to write this out cz it helps me thoroughly. Please no harsh comments, Seriously if anyone can help me , please 🙏🏻 🙏🏻 🙏🏻 do. Thank you.
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1) Don't call yourself a one man woman, cs you're not. Accept the fact. 2) Confess to your serious one and let him decide.
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If he did the same thing and you were the loyal one, would you still be with him? How can you not know why you slipped? You are clearly old enough and it was a choice you made. You ended it because there was no future, not because it was some heat-of-the-moment mistake. So if there was a future with the man you cheated with, you would have left your loyal boyfriend and that's not a small thing. It means you don't truly love Or appreciate him. Look maybe you're over exaggerating his niceness out of guilt and weren't happy with him. That doesn't excuse your behavior, but look into why you strayed that way if you're truly a one-man-woman. Now whether you confess to him or not, leaving him and setting him free is the best thing to do. Cheating is a deal breaker and he'd probably want to end it too if he knew.
You are not loyal and didn't slip by mistake. It is the chance u have purposefully taken and don't blame on others.
इस दुनिया की खास हो तुम, मुझे भी मिलो, अपुन दोनों भी ऐश करेंगे।
This has to be a troll or the most restarted 27F ever
Repent and promise ur self for ever to never repeat the mistake again and Be loyal to ur BF and Get married to him do not think what happened in past but always have a regret for ur mistake dont take it lightly
Pls calm down. Mull over below things: 1. Why did you feel the need to meet this new person whom you befriended on FB? Was it an one time thing? Was it the curiosity to explore something new? Did it feel exciting? 2. Are you unknowingly being deprived of physical and emotional intimacy in your current relationship? 3. Is your current boyfriend just perfect which is compelling you to go for broken / imperfect or vague guys 4. Having a great guy on paper and practically is one thing but does your relationship excite you? Girl pls stop blaming for something which cannot be undone. You made a mistake but you are human. So pls evaluate what you need and accordingly take next steps. Its your life and what matters is your happiness. Solutions: 1. You may consider leaving current BF if the relationship is not something which you endure in long term 2. Tell the truth, apologise and accept your fate gracefully for you have made mistakes 3. Do nothing and enjoy life :)
Why don't you try the old trick like start blaming your bf that he didn't give u enough attention... it'll help u to portray as a better person
Only 3 different cum dumped inside you. Only 3..
Forget the odd solvent. Take it as a bad dream. Fulfill ur life
You ended up things in today morning.. Let's confess another thing tomorrow morning
u have the habit of cheating...u dint slip, its ur nature and u will continue...never ever spoil that innocent guy life by marrying him...let him be happy at least
Break up karlo apne bf se.he deserves better
Simple marry a playboy , a playgirl deserves a playboy don't ruin your bf life.
Dont talk about your character plz 🤣🤣🤣
How easily these girls come up with cheating and act as they did nothing 🤣 May this kind of love never find a man like you have
You understand bengali?? If you , thn you are just pure গীমাকীনখা
Ik your were born in kolkata
I pray to the gods, So that the bro will be saved 🙏🏽 Lately people can't keep their legs together 🚶🚶🚶
हैं 🤔 ओनली 3 3 कम होता है 😑 क्या जमाना आ गया बे
Divorce your husband mutually as he doesn't deserve this and let him live. He might have some trauma and take time but it's better that you leave him and do whatever you want by being single. The day your husband gets to know by himself, you will face a harsh ending and will affect two families. Before this happens, be honest and end it
Did you ask the group before doing such ...baate toh aise kar rahe ho ki group jo guidance dega woh aap karne walle ho. Knowingly you did all these now it's only you who needs to work on your guilt nd mindset.
you can kiss me too....
Sadly but it was your choice ! Say truth to him and end this situation for both sake
Either be loyal to him or leave him mutually
haaye haaye chiii imagine fb se mila or muuh maarliya nihayati besharam
Confess to him the facts, let him decide
Explore yourself. Maybe you are lesbian also.
Tm fir se confession krne lgi aajkl
Randy Orton is more loyal to me than you are to your partner..
Its your CIVIL WAR..!! No one can help you..!! Adults make decisions not mistakes..!! You think you did a mistake? You’re in delulu for sure..!! Maybe talk it out with your partner and accept what happens next..!! Words mean nothing when actions dont match..!! So maybe focus on that
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How easily these women normalise cheating and act as if its not a big deal just because the women is accepting. First remember you're a cheater,you don't deserve a good guy,you can't guarantee that you'll stick to him in future,so better leave him and also tell him the truth.
Ran D spotted
Best suited for prostitution
Try to find what makes u slip..it will be easy to find out...think what will happen if hubby knows...or try to marry some one who has ur character if ur present marriage life broke
Ping me I can guide you as I am expert in this counselling
Pls leave him alone.. find another disloyal man who sleeps around women..
पुराने जमाने में राण्ड कहते थे तुम जैसियों को.
U r psycho.... visit a doctor in mental hospital....
You have cheated him while being in a relationship and you are saying one man woman...Stay out of his life before doing more damage... Let him find some loyal girl
Three relationship, all have physical relations. Still guts to call herself "One Man woman" You know what, you too know that you had made mistakes, but just want to put blame on some other. Anyway, better to call off the current relation, and do your hanky panky things 😌
Randi sali
Bitch material
You're a confused entity... Who goes with the flow... Always remember if your body and brain starts controlling you and you don't control them, then You're F**Ked... Learn to prioritise and control your brain and body... A good start is to not ask people for opinions and decide what is right and what is wrong... If you're seeking advice what you did is wrong... Yes you cheated... And yes you're a disgusting degenerate woman... I don't know about what level of escapades you had, but if you're even dating someone while being in a serious relationship it's considered cheating... Can you change this... Yes you can... Accept that you did wrong... Admit it in front of the person who you're with... Then accept the outcome that comes with it... Start there and don't go around being the social service department for this messed up society... No one told you to play God... Have honor and be respectful to yourself... Remember cheap products attract lots of buyers... So don't be one..
Again one more boy will die for this bit*h
Girl you are deserved for street 😂
Don't call yourself a one man woman, cause you're not. Accept the fact.This is called cheater charecterless bit*h kind of character..Please leave your loyal bf and save his life and choose someone who is like you and then happily both of you can keep repeating these so-called "mistakes" together while cheating on each other.
Of course I will write harsh comments. You didn’t care about what your husband might feel when he finds out, so why the hell should we care about yours? You slipped because you are like that. You said you had a total of 3 relationships, what number is your husband at? If he is 1, you shouldn’t have had number 2 and 3. If he is at 2, you shouldn’t have had 1 and 3. Hence, you slipped. How was this very first time in life when you had 3 relationships until now? You yourself jumped into the ditch knowing it is a ditch. How can you expect others to help you get out? It’ll only ruin your husband more. I hope he finds about your cheating and helps himself away from you. You have done everything out of your wedlock, yet you describe yourself not doing anything. Your character is characterless. I can help you. Help yourself and don’t be a burden on your husband and earth anymore.
You aren't technically a one man women anymore and you can't undo it.
Girls like you should never ever get married dear . The boy deserves someone as per his frequency .
Your expectation is to make everyone believe that ur monogamy person, even u want to lie urself that ur a monogamy person. You are a cheater, accept the fact. Every human has to face the consequences of their actions. Ur not exceptional. Get ready to face the consequences soon or later.
Yeah yeah you aren't someone who roam's with other men after roaming and kissing (only kissing according to you but everyone knows about control of a woman over herself) with 3 other men 😂 Gawd !! I say you should feel more guilty and i hope you "FOREVER" one gets to know about all of this...or if you want to play safe then girl go and confess all of this to your "FOREVER" one and then let him decide...(Damn sure you won't confess)