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Submit ConfessionGender: Female17 June 2026 at 5:51 pm
#C27515 I am a mom of 2 kids working in a corporate and staying in my mothers home. My husband works in the office 3 to 4 days a week and comes here. I have a good understanding with my husband. But sometimes I feel he is not honest with me. He deletes his call log and WhatsApp messages before he comes home. I haven't confronted him about this yet. But somewhere in my heart it says he is not doing anything wrong. He thinks just speaking to his old colleague is not right and if I ask him why did you speak with them for so long and why it's needed, it might offend him and because of that he deletes those logs. Also he doesn't say anything from his heart. After 6 yrs of marriage the communication between us is not at all there. It's all about children's sometimes and about work or something else. If I speak to him emotionally or what bothers me, he doesn't seems to care at all and makes fun. So I stopped telling him anything. Also he is on his phone most or all of the time. If he spends 15mins with children even on the weekend is itself a big thing. I know he is shutting himself in a boundary and doesn't want to speak apart from that. It makes me emotionally weak sometimes. I don't know how to handle it or am I overthinking. Are all men just addicted to the phone and taking it everywhere they go and every time?
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It doesn’t sound like overthinking—it sounds like emotional disconnect. The deleted logs may not mean cheating, but they do show avoidance and lack of transparency. What’s more concerning is the absence of communication, respect for your feelings, and involvement with family. Try one calm, honest conversation without accusations. If he dismisses it again, consider counseling. A relationship can’t grow if only one person is trying to keep it alive.
Red flags in the relationship. 1. Husband and wife not together 2. Wife staying at Mom house (its not same as wife's inlaws staying with the couple) 3. Husband/father and kids not having daily physical interaction. 4. Wife and husband thinking the above arrangement is normal. Above red flags may not be trivial to few and still stay honest and loyal. But, in most cases if these scenarios exist, its very natural for an individual (man or woman) to seek company or emotional/physical support from others (whoever is available). Fix your marriage, fix your relationship. Prioritize your partner Above your kids and mother. My response will still be same if the gender was reversed. Have a conversation with him on anove 4 points. Don't normalize it. All the very best.
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Aapka gangadhar hi shaktimaan h, ur doubt is 100% right, stalk him u will find mess
This isn’t overthinking. Your doubts are real because you’re missing emotional intimacy. Is moving in with your husband an option? Have an honest talk with him. Let him know his behavior is hurting you. Without solid proof, avoid accusing him of cheating — it will only create more problems.
Are you sure he's not cheating on you? Just keep an eye on him sometimes.. But if that's not the case then you both should go for marriage counseling. tbh
While world is addicted to mobiles including kids ? Ask your kid to go one day with out social media or mobile after that see the reaction ?
What’s stopping you from staying together? Being intimate is the fuel in Marriage that’s keeps the journey exciting and connections intact. If you live apart, it creates distance mentally too. Marriage then becomes just brining up children. For emotional connection, physical intimacy is the key.
You should look into it
Long distance relationships will not work correctly and since he is alone in another city which made him to wrongdoings and also proves as he is talking with family properly. And yes he’s DEFINITELY cheating on you!keep an eye before it gets busted..
The bigger issue isn't the deleted logs, it's the lack of communication, emotional connection, and involvement with the family. Deleting call and WhatsApp history naturally creates suspicion, even if there's an innocent explanation..no, not all men r addicted to their phones. Many people use phones excessively to escape stress, emotions, or difficult conversations. Before assuming the worst, have a calm conversation about how lonely and disconnected u feel rather than accusing him of hiding something. His response will tell u a lot..right now, the strongest evidence is that ur marriage seems emotionally distant not necessarily that he's being unfaithful.
Repeat same to him
Long distance relationships NEVER work! And yes he’s DEFINITELY cheating on you!