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You should have blocked that guy. It WAS a simple solution to the situation. You should address your partner’s insecurities i guess. And it works both ways. Long distance is not an easy way. It tests your patience and loyalty too.

Ridiculous...! If you were loyal you would've bloked him immediately or informed your bf regarding this before he checked your mobile, so here is the solution for your need buy a new phone and sim .. block him in your old mobile and chat/flirt with him there in new mobile.. double dhamaka .

If you are serious about ur bf & love him genuinely then explain things to him. If he's not convinced then it's upto you what's your priority... his love or that contact. Sometimes doubts become dangerous! If u insist & prioritise keeping contact with that guy over your bf's wish then bf's doubt will go stronger & eventually your relationship will grow bitter. Now it's time to know & show your genuine priority. Imagine yourself in his place & judge! Think if it's worth to make your relationship bitter or even destroy it because of that person.

Flirting msgs, you say...which boy would manage this..

If you are not wrong, you should stand on your word. Tell him also to share his screen and chats...now he is like that means in future he will torture you..if he don't believe your words, you should give explanation for each and everything and your life goes with explanation only...tell your friend that you have a boyfriend, if he understands you he could make less conversation.

Asking the public for advice That means you started love with the new guy Fault is on your side..

He is being cautious and safeguarding you

Share mobile screen with partners and check each others' WhatsApp messages !!!! Is Zamana mein yeh bhi hota hai 😢🧐🤔

😂😂😂 every time same old crap…. Men to women -> Block the guy… and her usual response is “he’s just a friend or whatever”… and won’t block ever lol Women to Men -> Block her… Men immediately blocks… if he doesn’t the Woman starts to ruin whatever they had…

Toss a coin n then decide. Same they did in sholay movie also

You clearly knew that he was flirting with you, yet you chose not to block him. By not telling your boyfriend about that person and the conversations, you were not being completely honest with him. If you want to continue the relationship, then block him and respect your partner's feelings. If you want to break up, that's your choice, but understand that most people have insecurities when it comes to someone they love. A simple question: If you were married and your husband asked you to stop talking to a man who was clearly flirting with you, would you divorce him over that? Or would you listen to his concerns and work together to protect the relationship?

The guy sent you flirting messages which means the guy is not helping you for free, he wants you in bed business when he comes to your place in exchange for help.. where does your heart belong?

I saw a post from her bf too in this forum. Rather you both talk to each other and sort than asking strangers for advise

You want backup in your mind, accept it. And leave your bf don’t waste his time. He deserves loyal not that “just a friend “ wali ladki.

Focus on your studies and securing your future. You don’t need men to control your life.

Is this so easy for you to break the relationship .. what is the meaning of 4 year of relationship then .. if this act by your boy friend is not acceptable to you.. you should confront him and have a discussion and sort it out and continue the relationship.. true one never looks for the chances to break the relationship. Pls reconsider are you really a true one

Why would your bf ask you to share your screen and what'sapp? If he's that insecure then he should not be in a relationship with you. The ones telling you to make him secured would never ever share their phone passwords with their wife but gyani baba banke baithe hai. Also it's not about one guy who lives in a different city or country, he'll do that with everyone till you get tired of explaining.

If your bf is asking you to block someone then either save your relationship or save your reasons

First of all pl concentrate on your studies .boyfriends ke liye zindagi padi hain. Another thing if you are really serious about the long distance boyfriend be loyal to him but dont let him control you. You block the other guy but you may ve to block yourself from many things in future. Loyalty and trusting is important in a relationship from both sides. Pehli baat as per me checking your wats app chats is not at all appropriate that means the guy does not trust you. tomorrow you ll work ,you ll ve ve male subordinates,you ll ve to socialize ,travel yeh toh jaan nikaal dega ultimately you ll be the one who ll be hiding things .that's not good in a relationship. Beware of the other guy and his intentions. Rest you are smart .wish you the best❤️

I have a small record in my life. Three dif female had love marriage nd they talk wid me normally, two were serious wid me n one was just frnd but I make her agree for ons. Hope u understand how man find a chance 😁

For the sake of peace of mind of the boy... Break up NOW

You girl are wrong when that guy flirted u should have straight up shut down his intentions on his first time and there wouldn't have been a "couple of times"

You know he is flirting, but u still continue to msg.. Biggest red 🚩 is you...

Break up with your boyfriend. That poor guy deserves better

Your bf is trying to control your life. Don't block the guy who helped you in your studies but make it clear to your bf that other guy has helped you academically & it wld be unjust to just "use & throw" a friend because your bf can't handle it. If you will give in to this, your bf will keep asking you to make sacrifices if he becomes your partner in future.

Just do as u r told ..how hard is that

Your boyfriend doesn’t seem to be a simp. Leave him alone and marry this new guy 😄

Women who are asking you to hate your bf would be responsible for you being alone and miserable. Now there are gaps in your story too. When you don't have any romantic interest with the guy then what's the issue in blocking him? Are you saying you can't study without his help? Looks like you like the attention from that guy and want to keep him around.

You didn’t close the door when u know he was flirting, thats cheating my dear…

Please dont contact your boyfriend, let him have a peaceful life ,you can go on messaging whoever you want ..

In today's tech friendly world everything is available online and you still need unknown human's help? 😐

Tell that guy your bf wants you to block him and you won't be able to talk him anymore, thank him for his help and block him.

Ur boyfriend is a husband material. He genuinely loves u.. So he is scared of loosing u for someone unknown. Just think.. Why will some random guy help u.. It's only for marriage or sex.. Nothing much.. U block that guy and have a peaceful life with ur boyfriend

Before marriage he is not understanding u what willhe understand after marriage

कुछ स्टडी में हेल्प न कर रहा वो, जिस चक्कर में है वो तुम्हे भी पता है, बस तुम दोनो को नहीं खोना चाहती।

Yahi to samajh nhi pati aap ki.. hm ladke apni pasandida aurat ko chune wali hawao se bhi nafrat karte hain.. Agar use block kar dogi to aap fail ho jaogi kya exam me ? Uske bharose aap apni study kar rhi ho ?

Solimudinju

Men understand Men. I am not saying that he is 100% correct but there could be a 60% possibility that he told to block him for reasons you'd understand later, when a serious problem actually comes up (you know what I mean), and if you actual understand where the problem is/was. You decide, Loyalty, Commitment or a bitter relationship?

Pls block that guy if you are serious for your bf

It's very simple to block that guy .

Isko dogla panti kahte hain

Good that your boyfriend got upset - now you can dump him for his insecurities , and look for a secure guy.

no need to explain

Double dhamaaka.aur kam daam....

Block that stranger. Your boyfriend matters to you if you genuinely love him.

Find a third one.

Whenever these types of ques come, always flip the scenario and think how will you react. Imagine your bf having a female friend, who has flirted with him, but he didn’t flirt back. They are in constant touch and she is helping him with something which is imp to him. Now, she is coming to his city and asking him to meet and he asks when she is coming etc.

Block boyfriend, take notes from that guy and study hard, get a job and Marry to a well settled man.

Bcoz u r more inclined to new bf wat rubbish ..who is important to u ..whom u loved or who helped u..

Just asked the new guy, how many unknown boys he had help for same specific exam. Answer will be zero you get the point?

Chal be RUND

Why do you need to keep talking to a random dude who is trying to flirt with you? Are you looking for validation / attention? Women just don't seem to understand this.

If a guy flirts with you and u don't shut him down immediately that means you are ok with that and he will flirt again in future, totally not cool for your bf

Friend ❌ Back-up boyfriend ✅

Your Boyfriend is right. Good that he stopped talking to you.

Follow your gut feeling. These are all childish behaviours asking to share screen and asking you to block someone like what are you 12? If he can't trust you enough to let you handle people in your life then whats the point?

Validation Seeker! Do breakup with that guy! Give him peace..

Pseudo's feminists logic - They dont want to block their Boy bestie contact but they expect Husband should block his relationship with his parents and need forgo his duties as SON.. B*tches like this will become another sonum raghuvamsi or Siya Goel or another blue drum story.

tf

Trying to ride on 2 horses...all the best

jealousy is poison. drop him. be safe.

Your bf deserves better. Pls leave him ASAP

Actually this girl is fucking asshole 😂😂 it's very simple she is going to leave a bf with whom she spent 4 years fr a guy who is helping her. .😂😂😂 literally boys didn't help until they r not going to take any benefit

Dear men please note, nobody can't take your girl, they can only take your hoe

Your BF deserves better girl

Your boyfriend is insecure. Probably has a tiny dick too. If he doesn't trust you it's kinda shitty. Choice is yours.

Y are today's generations parents so worthless n incompetent?? They ve no idea their son/ daughter are so horny n sleeping around with random strangers in the name of love. Then the worthless parents come to know abt it n stop it n marry her off to someone else, who later comes to know, then they ve to protect their worthless daughter by hatching false fake cases against the poor guy, inorder to get divorce n thereby ruin his life too... A set of worthless parents who don't know the value of a condom.

Few minutes back we came to know from ur bf's confession that you hv blocked him in every social media & also changed your Google password. Please be truthful to yourself at least.