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Submit ConfessionGender: Male17 June 2026 at 9:30 am
#C27504 Hey all M29 here, Been married for 2 years, to a narcissistic woman who is 28 and we have an adorable cute little baby boy who is 8 months old. She is currently at her father’s house due to delivery. Tried everything i could and begged her to come stay at my house. She finally came last Sunday but stayed here only for 3 days and was constantly picking fights with me and my parents even though we didn’t talk back anything. And on 3rd day she created huge scene by removing mangalsutra and throwing it on my face. She called her parents and left home. We of course had arguements just like every other married couple and she was initially REFUSING to come home saying that it’s a village and asked me to relocate to a house nearby her parents which i refused to as we have our own house why should i pay rent just for her to stay near her parents. Even while she came to our house after almost 1.3 years she didn’t even pack any dress for her and packed only 4 set of dress for the baby. When asked she simply said that we can buy new cloths for her and baby while i have already bought so many dress and toys for the baby. She is giving lame reasons like she kept the dresses at her place so that she can use it when she goes and stays there In between but i highly suspect that it is a plan all along. Like she wanted to create a fight once she is here and go back to her place with the baby. She thought that i would go behind her at least for the sake of baby which I’m not ready to do. To be honest my peace is important for me and also baby needs to grow in an environment without fights and arguements. Even when she was here at my house i didn’t ask her to do anything like cooking for me or doing anything for me. She cooks just for the baby and for her as she doesn’t like what my mom makes. At one day I just simply asked her to sweep one room so that we can let the baby on the floor. But she started very big arguement saying that I’m treating her like a servant and asking my mom and sister (who lives far away and visit us only 3 times a year) to come and clean the floor as they are also gonna get share in the house like a stupid mad little idiot. I understand that women have post partum stress but they should also understand that men are stone and have a heart and feelings inside them. She just simply can’t throw words like garbage. Her parents came and BLINDLY supported her and took her with them saying that they will send her back after 3 months. Because of her INCOMPETENCY to live in our house I’m gonna miss living with my baby and will miss all the milestones that he is gonna go through while i have already missed out a lot in the past 8 Months. She doesn’t bring peace at all and always is so arrogant and stupid. Considering all these I’m thinking to separate from her (also for the sake of baby as i don’t want him to grow up in a house with full of fights and arguments). But her family is trying to patch up by asking me to adjust and relocate. To be honest SHE DOESNT DESERVE any of my efforts. Heart is so heavy so just wanted to vent it out. That’s why sharing here. Thanks for your time!
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Let me hear the other side of the story too. Men always act innocent infront of society and court🙄
Ask ur parents n in laws to give both of u space Move to a new rented house with ur wife n kid Try to build ur family n patch things up and understand what's wrong with her Take her for a week's holiday Hope these changes workout for u
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To all the guys here ....love you wife her family her relation but don't give anyone means anyone the right to interfere in between a couple. Parents are important so make sure before you get married ki unnecessary interference will not be acceptable from both sides. Plan for a baby only when both partners are equally willing to take the responsibility. As father take full responsibility of your pregnant wife health and other care ... everything is possible if you wish for. Save as much money as you can so that you yourself bear the whole hospital charges. No need to send your wife to her parents place. Ask parents to come to your place nd take care of there daughter.
Trisha illana divya.. just move on bro.. no emotions no , no sympathy, no feelings, no bonding... Feel free bro.. be happy.. if she wants to stay with their parents just say Thanks to her and send .. wait for your son's age 3.. no talks and calls..
One question , she has post patrum stress or she has narcissism? She's been diagnosed by some psychiatrist?
Im just saying, just go and see ur baby and play with him atleast two -three days once in week and don't ever stay in there house for night. Whatever the time is just get up and stay away from them. But u should properly be with ur child. Don't argue or answer there question just simply reply, I only came here for the baby and i don't want any of ur advice.
What if I say whole problem is you? And so soon you are deciding to separate? Are you so much perfect ? I am sure you gonna get screwed up legally. Enjoy!
Please install cctv cameras inside your house because things just started...May God bless you for further.
If you are unwilling to leave your parents for your own marriage, baby, then there is no point in blaming her. You are the biggest problem what i have understood from your post. One advice i can give you for the sake of baby, you and your wife, please listen to your wife, take her to some shopping, if not possible, send her something, some clothes or it may be some sort of pampering which she needs most now..not your parents or your sister...this is a phase of 2/3 years, after that evwrything will fall in its place accordingly. And if you react to this, then your child will be grown up in a broken marriage system. Choice is yours!
I can totally relate to you brother.. All the best . If you ever want to talk, feel free to reach out. Sometimes you just need someone to just listen to you.
Just leave it as such , she will beg you back
Need both side stories.
Brother just go stay with her in there house like a nawab eat play with kid @ sleep for 1 to 2 months then they will be send there daughter with u they will be tired from u just go there
Hi brother, it looks like same story of mine, thos mangalsuthar scene not happen but almost 90% same, in begining it will be very heavy, try yout best to reconsile, if not happend proceed for divorce, it been 3 years since i seen my 4 years old baby, just move on with the flow, as like this vent it out to close circle, don't except anything or anyone, do travel like that, everything will fall up on right place and time..
I think you should rent a house as she want. See for 6 months what’s is going to happen. If still Şam ruju can take fecidim. Without trying going to seprate also not look right
Just be like that for six months She’ll comeback to you
भाई 6 महीने अपना मन पत्थर का करके न तो उसे कॉल कर न मिल घर रह अपने खुद m बिजी रह,अपने आप दिमाग ठिकाने आ जाएगा।न ही बच्चे की चिंता कर, और अगर फिर भी न आये तो वो तुम्हे डिजर्व ही नहीं करती
ek best suggestion deta hu case kr police mein bol meri chije churake bag gai police ko paise de subh se leke shm tak thne m bithwa police,uske gar walo ka nam dal application mein khud sudr jaegi I saw in many cases karke dekh ek bar
I do hope you come out of this.
One of my friends( guy) had a similar situation. It then led to nasty dowry and abuse case against the boy and his family ( which never really happened) it was done for a big alimony and finally took years to settle the Divorce with quiet a bit of money involved especially since there was a baby in the picture.
You got married to a girl , ye ek typical breed hoti h jinko apni ego aur chaudhary pan dikhanaa hota h, bina soche samjhe hi step leti h hamesha...
Bhai ladki agar sita savitri jaisi ho ro ro k jiyegi aaj kal ki ladki phoolan devi ya bane toh hi sukhi rahegi
Bhai mangalsutra feka muh pe Maine dekhi fight lekin aisa muh pe fekna yaane wo aapki respect kavdi ki nahi karti bhai Itna natak koi nahi karta Abhi aisa future me situation aur kharab ho jayengi Lekin mangalsutra muh pe fekna nahi chahiye tha Yene is se ye sabit ho raha hai wo kuch nahi maan rahi hai
Don't patch up. Take your baby and live with peace.
Tell them that you will patch up if their parents doesn't come in between you and your wife atleast for one year and not even phone because if ahe tells whatever happened at your house her mother will tell something. Also talk with her what she will get if you both fight...even though she doesn't listen do as you like
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dont divorce… you will have to pay huge alimony and child support as well. let her stay in her parents home
Stay strong brother, this is just the norm these days!!! I have had managed a full-fledged professionalized drama troupe some years ago!!!
God bless you!!
Firstly how do you understand the post partum stress when the next word you used is a "BUT"?? Its ok for you to stay with your parents but finding a nearby apartment beside your in laws is narcissistic? It seems like you don't have any empathy towards your wife and the pain she went through to give you a baby. You should go get counseling first. Secondly stay alone with her and baby to start your own family without being under the comfortable umbrella of your parents or hers. You can keep a maid for doing cooking and household chores, you did not marry to get a maid ... Try to be empathetic and then see there would be no fight but I think counseling is much needed in your case.
Stay away from your parents as well. Ask her to contribute towards a new house not near her parents and neither near yours. Then observe her reaction. She'll have no support and will have to handle everything on her own. Such women need to be dealt with a firm hand. Don't let her be Big Boss always. Family decisions should be made together and logically.
You are only telling what she did what she said, have you ever tried figuring out why she does that? Does she feel at home and comfortable at your house? Do you and your parents treat her well? Is she loved, cared for? And branding her as a narcissist tells volumes about you here. First mend your own ways and try to have compassion for a woman who just gave birth to a child, screwing up her mental, physical and hormonal health. Instead of whining and playing blame game, take some responsibility and grow up.
Don't do anything for few more months. Let her show all her colours if anything is left. Don't relocate. Stay with your family and take care of yourself.
Definitely 498a or domestic violence case is coming soon....better file a missing F.I.R in PS., else in big trouble later. You can't get the custody of the baby even if you win case. So that option is almost closed until baby is big enough..... So atleast keep yourself and your family safe, as she has plans for alimony and doesn't like you. And wants to live seperately knowing well she has a baby to give company now.
Same what my sister in law like ur wife she will always come to my mother in law home and torcher me and my husband..... Same attitude same arrogant nature cannot even bare her for one day .. I know about the narcissist mentality .... U please divorce her
Boy you're the problem. I would love to hear her version of it. You carefully avoided saying anything about yourself though. She's mad stupid idiot incompetent etc. Why couldn't you sweep 'just one room' so 'you can put the baby down'? Are you paralyzed?
One side story. U must be treating her bad. Pity ur wife...May God Save her from u and ur Devil parents.
If this is true Who the hell are you to call her a narcissist????? You expect her to stay with your parents in the same house but Can’t imagine to stay near her parents. She is cooking for her 8 month old baby and herself but you are complaining why she isn’t cooking for the rest or not doing any other household tasks. Taking care of herself and her 8 month baby is a difficult task, please answer how much support she is getting from you and your parents. Why simply asked her to sweep one room? Just do it yourself na once. Tell us how much support you and your family showed pre and post delivery? Seems like nothing as she stayed the entire period with her own parents as you mentioned. Why not giving her a good set up with support and care at home and let her live happily for a while and then see if she is behaving badly or not . Actually I don’t know why I am wasting my time typing here But from this post , it’s clear your mindset where The wife should stay with in laws without any complaints Wife should cook Wife should be silent Wife should bring peace in your home which itself wasn’t very peaceful beforehand Or else She is narcissistic Brother, she carried your baby for 9 months and delivered the baby and raised the baby for 8 months alone Now please give her a break You take care of the baby for just a week and let her take rest and supervise then you will understand slightly. If this post is true You are a badly raised man ( like most men in our society , just check the comment section here)
Kick her out of house and divorce her
What nonsense..... She carried baby and delivered goes through all pain....u now want to be with baby...funny....u are not ready to adjust anything little....as she already gone through pain and medical conditions y shouldn't u adjust for some time.....If u don't want to adjust for sake of ur own wife and child y u expect other to adjust with u
You seem to be at fault. Why are you asking 8 month recovering women from pregnancy to sweep she may have medical issues. You seem to have no respect for your wife or marriage. You must have also done or said something for her to behave like that. She needs someone to take care of her and baby and maybe you are not doing that. Grow up and better to get a divorce otherwise you will make their life hell.
Bro. Go and take holiday in Bangkok. Clear your mind