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Submit ConfessionGender: Female16 June 2026 at 9:42 pm
#C27497 Hi everyone, I'm a girl who is madly in love with 27years old man btw I'm 22 this year ,so we started dating on 2025 1th January,he is a fine man and a perfect man i ever asked for ,we were very happy together but as time passes by we started arguing over silly things but we never let those arguments affect our relationship. But things started taking turns with the arrival of his frd I don't blame his frd he is a good person and i also know him but my man started giving me less time and afford but i started feeling like he doesn't love me anymore for which we argued all the time but we didn't let tht affect our relationship coz at the end of the day we love each other thts wht i tot until one fine night he asked me if we can cut the call while sleeping which i didn't agree ik it's silly, i started cutting his call every night while sleeping which only made things worse . He started ignoring my calls, after some time he called me and said let's take a break which seriously broke my heart i eventually agree coz I didn't wanna be selfish. I cried every night which even lead to my poor health so I call him after 3 days and asked him ,if he wants to continue this relationship,if he even love me just say yes or no after some silence he said let's stop here , my hands like my whole body started shaking i cried and begged him not to do this to me ,he said i don't wanna hurt u anymore, let's take a break for like few months and he cut the call i cried the whole day and i decided to visit his home tht very evening, i did went to his place and begged him think about his decision ones more coz we can talk it out and try to fix it , I asked him if he doesn't love me anymore he said how can I lost a feeling for u over night,so i asked him why is he doing this to me ,he said he wants to be alone for a while I was about to say something whn suddenly his cousin brother invite us to his house so we went there , trying not to cry .I realised tht women who treats men like a credit card always wins, while the women who only except love from the men ends up crying and heart broken. But surprising he call me the next day ,it was a short conversation now he does calls me every day and picks my call too but no i love u more or too just short conversation , now I'm wondering is he is doing this not to hurt me or is he trying to fix or am i forcing him to love me back ,is he doing this out of pitty Shall I let him free plz share ur thoughts 💭
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You're 22... Focus on yourself and your career pudding... This is not the age for finding...and especially chasing love... That's how you invite toxic demons in your life...Always remember "A hunter who chases Rabbits may go Hungry, But a farmer who grows carrots will always Feast" Make yourself a high value woman....People including the joker who left you should look at you and feel it's their loss... So please focus on growth, career, looks and make yourself the complete package that people can only dream of.... Take Care and God bless you kiddo 🙂👍🏻
You’re not forcing someone to love you, but his actions suggest he’s confused and emotionally pulling away. Love isn’t only “I love you”; it also shows in effort, consistency, and wanting closeness. Right now he seems to want space while keeping contact. Don’t beg or chase more. Give him room and watch his actions. If he truly wants the relationship, he’ll return with clarity and effort.
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I think you should give him and yourself some space. Right now your whole life seems to be revolving around your boyfriend, and that's making the anxiety even worse. Focus on yourself, your work, your hobbies, and your own happiness. If it's meant to work out, it will. But don't lose yourself while waiting for someone else to choose you.
Well, relax, take it easy, what u said did affect him, so it was good you expressed your real feelings for once and didn't confuse him.... Express yourself better and more, same for boundaries, express them also.... Things then will get better , as he wil know where to draw a line with you too, lessening your anxiety levels.
This is how husband n wife bonding works. Kindly go with flow
If he said let's take break means give him a break .. it's pretty clear ..
You’re not forcing him—you’re holding on to love. But his actions show distance, not effort. When someone truly wants you, they don’t keep you confused. Right now, he’s giving you just enough to stay, not enough to feel secure. Don’t beg for love—it should be given freely. Give him space, but also choose your self-respect. If he comes back with clarity, fine. If not, you deserve someone who chooses you fully.
Focus on your career, make money, get your own house and trust me this man is not the beginning or the end of the world. Please take therapy and have some self confidence. You suffer from low self esteem. No man is worth begging for. Respect and love is a two way street. Focus on yourself.
Your life has just begun, forget him and move on i know it's hard but not impossible i have also gone through the same situation
At this age,career should be the only focus.If not u ll end up crying whole life
Leave him. He will go in sometime. I know it's hard. But move on. Boys are like this only. Will throw you in a second.
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New age Nibbism reached all the way to 25 yrs now 😐
Learn to us punctuation please(especially fullstop).I am out of breath after reading this confession.
How can a heartless 27yr old guy breakup with an orphan girl. Now, who ll marry a poor girl with no parents??? If she had parents, they would ve got alliance for their horny daughter. But sad situation now...
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