#C27480 Hi everyone, I’m a 28-year-old man living in Hyderabad. I’m average-looking, introverted, and I’ve been working at a well-known organization for the past three years. When I joined, our group at work included three girls and two boys. After a few days, the other two boys left the company, so it eventually became three girls and me. Out of the three girls, I was closest to one of them let’s call her A. She was popular, and many guys in our team and other teams had a crush on her. We became good friends, and I never had any wrong intentions. After about two years, she went on Eid holidays for a week, and I suddenly realized I was missing her a lot. Before that, during a team lunch, the girls took a picture while holding my hands. I didn’t feel anything when the others held my hand, but when A held my hand, I felt something different. During her Eid holidays, I confessed that I miss her. She didn’t respond clearly at the time, but from there, our journey started. We began talking daily and texting regularly earlier we mostly spoke only at the office. Over time, she also developed feelings for me. She’s Muslim and I’m Hindu, so we both know marriage isn’t really possible. We never directly said “I love you,” but we started dating, and a few days later we became physical. Things have been going smoothly overall. However, last year a junior let’s call her M (23F) joined our company. At first, we were just friends. Later, I found out she had feelings for one of my colleagues. He’s the type who doesn’t talk much with girls, so I helped him, and they started dating. Everything was fine until a few days ago when our team was teasing each other, and M said she likes me. I’m not sure if she was serious or joking. She also told me she misses me and stays up to meet me during different shifts. But at the same time, she still talks to that colleague and seems close to him as well. Now I’m confused about what’s happening. A is a good person, and I care about her. We both know marriage won’t happen, but we still have feelings for each other. At the same time, M’s actions are confusing me and even with M, there’s a 5 year age gap, and I don’t see it leading to marriage either. I need advice on what I should do next.
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What's love and marriage? When you clearly know that you are not going to marry her, why didn't you keep distance? Wherever you go, take your brain along with heart. So that you can think properly before initiating anything. Now if you are very clear that you can't marry her, please leave her and let her build her life. Another girl is really not for you. Emotions and feelings are not easily transferable. Earlier she liked your friend, now she's loving you....is love a game??? Stop thinking of these two women.....work and marry a girl your parents choose for you.
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Being average looking how did u manage 2 birds together
First of all, why do you even want to get close to women that you have no chance to marry? 😂 And why are you suddenly interested in this new girl just because she's interested? When you have no future with both, why do you have this dilemma?
Bro if u r not thinking of marrying her, why wasting her time & love for your physical needs, just stop this relationship otherwise both of u will get hurt later
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You will loose your mind soon, with many girls around, you playing a match maker, you looking for mariage material but sleeping with one who isnt , work wil suffer, company will discover & soon dump you, heartbroken frail or broke, soon you will be writing another confession Know your priorities, be serious, don't mess around just falling prey to circumstances, focus on career & values intact!...
What's the use of stupid feelings??? Just sleep with her. You are a man. You are waiting for 3 yrs. Real men only have 3 days
You don't need advice, you are here to flaunt yourself, madarchod. Hamari gaand jala raha hai bhadwe.
Just let your story to Bajrang dal they will marry you off and give monetary compensation if you let them know you started physical therapy before confessing I Luv U and are ready to dump a Muslim girl for a hindu girl.
Stop simping , u just a normal f boy .. acting like u a saint won't lead to marriage either like your every other reason
You are just a player, not a lover, or well, I can say fu@@kr..
You wrote this imaginary confession to prove yourself a stud.. dude none of them are interested in you ,they are as shitty as you are .. eno pee aur so jaa ..tere sar pe gas char Gaye re