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Submit ConfessionGender: Female15 June 2026 at 8:47 pm
#C27473 Hi everyone Talking about myself ,I'm a 22 years old and my bf is 27 years old , we have being dating for like one an a half year everything was going great, i never expected perfection just effor, consistency and basic respect . This last few weeks we have being arguing over silly things, ik for a fact tht it's not good for a healthy relationship ,sometimes I felt neglected but i didn't released my mistake until he asked for break,i ignore his pain and feelings I didn't tried to ask him wht had happened or how was his day nor cared about wht he is going though so whn he asked for break i refused to keep up on him i tried to fix our relationship and somehow I did but he isn't like before, he do calls me ,pick up my calls but the conversation are short, shall I let him go or wait for him to love me back like he did. How can I cheer him up how to i bring back everything to normal like it was .
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If he wants to go, let him go.. Concentrate on your career, studies.. Don't accept him if he comes back too.
Relationships rarely return by forcing them back to an old version. Give him some space, show consistent care, ask genuinely about his feelings, and avoid pressuring him to act “like before.” Trust rebuilds through small actions over time. If effort comes only from one side for long, accept that and reassess together.
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concentrate on having a bank balance rather than going after men ... career is more important than running around the man ...
Time circumstances people and their choice/priority never remain the same, so be your own priority
Don't chase. Let the emotional involvement be natural. Else nothing is worth it.
Well, giving a break to each other will be a good start. See if the attraction comes back, needs to happen to both of you. Or else, worth moving on after a few months
Umm... I think he might be manipulating you. If he was facing issues, he could have communicated them instead of staying silent until you asked. The things you said you didn't do for him, did he do all of those for you? If he's genuinely hurt by your lack of understanding or interest in his life, then sincerely apologize and ask him whether a break would actually fix things, or if it's just his way of slowly ending the relationship. Have an honest conversation. His behavior resembles that of someone who has lost interest, keep that in mind. You can't force someone to love you.
Give him sometimes and see what happened. Otherwise there are a lot of handsome boys 🤭