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Submit ConfessionGender: Female15 June 2026 at 7:36 pm
#C27472 Hi Guys, Married for 2 and half years now after courtship of almost 4 years. My husband is a funny guy basically and most of the family decision I make be it financial or buying something for us. We are blessed with a baby boy now. The issue I am facing now is whenever there is clashes between us maybe because of some sort of misunderstanding or any issues with his parents or any personal issues between us he gets very angry not often and out of control he use bad words like Mai** and O*** which he says common among the boys friendship. But it hurts me a lot and I never able to forget all those. But as soon he realises the mistakes are not from my end he genuinely ask forgiveness saying like those words are not meant from heart but out of anger only it comes and he says sorry. But I feel so so hurt after those fights and couldn't come out of it for days. How can he says those kind of words to me and being sorry later? How to handle this I can understand there are lot many people with more verbal and physical abuses and all happening but for me this even hurting a lot. What to do ?" -Girl
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Simply ask for divorce.. Not really but just tell him next time when he does so, then, say it "this is the end, I don't want to stay with an abuser. You don't deserve to stay with me. I'm very soon going to file all the paperwork, and I want nothing from you, just want to get rid of you..." let him throw all the tantrums.. Don't move back unless he comes down on his knees (emotionally).. If he learn his lesson then continue with the marriage, if he misbehave again then you need to question your self respect. Rather than being a cry machine abla nari, you should have some dignity and respect, give divorce, kick that mf out of your life and move on.
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If he fights with his parents, will he abuse them? He is taking you for granted. Tell him strictly not to abuse you and abuse him back if he remains the same. Marriage is not for emotional people. Be strong.
I used to be like that based with my wife My wife was very patient and explained that our kids were growing so if they learn same words okay for you ? Like that she used to sit and talk with me Then i started reducing dint stop Now I don't use at all... Even am angry
When one is angry you discuss the issues but never disrespect the person. In a marriage respect comes first and love next. Looks like he disrespects you and blames it on anger. Send him to anger management, therapy. This behaviour is not acceptable
Sorry doesn't work if the behavior is not changed afterwards. Clearly set & communicate some consequences if the mistake is repeated.
Very simple, if he calls you mai**u you call him poda pun** Hel ll stop using those words eventually, rest all you can take care.
This is verbal abuse and his sorry is of no use. Over time you will lose love for him. Look up intermittent explosive disorder
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I am bengali can anyone teach me this slung So I can use this slung in angry moments, people have to Google it to understand what I say to them in angry moments?
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