Comments for Post #C27462

Apparently no problem is also a problem 😜

Well, if you weren't attractive or noble or affable personality, imagine one whom you claim had so many beauties around in school itself, why did he choose you, let alone marry & bring you to homecity....maybe you are better than all of them, looks only don't matter, pat yourself & your husband too, don't feel inferior when your husband had made you feel high, who else judgement matters...

Nobody cares girl, focus more on your personality, that's the real thing

You have your own set of physical attributes which makes you different, unique and beautiful..everyone is beautiful in their own way ...

You can't change genetics; still, he married you for a reason, right? Just let that be, don't focus on looks.

All bengali women are not fair and beautiful looking.Many are dusky plumpy and out of shape.Over a few years your complexion will change .Consult a good skin specialist

Despite all the pretty faces around him, he wanted to be with you... Aur kya chaiye? And yes, be confident in your own skin . You may do some regular skincare, which is a healthy habit . But please don't compare yourself with any other girl..

Sister I am sure you are beautiful in your own way. But if you need a boost. Focus on your hair, the way you smell. Exercise, atleast try to. Follow a simple skincare routine and stick to it consistently. I personally find Tamil people hot. Try to enhance that one feature may be your eyes or lips with makeup. Learn it from YouTube. And let your personality work the charm.

Full body bleaching once a week and full body sunscreen three times a day.

Hey you're beautiful in your own way 😍. It's ok. He loves you and is proud of you, that's why he introduced you to his friends. Be the adorable person you are. Don't run after looks.

Just be what you are, copying others will make you insecure

U Tamilians too are beautiful. M bengali. Trust me Bengali boys are simple and caring. So u will have a nice family 😁. But I had Tamil boyfriend. I am very beautiful good-looking just as u mentioned there. He was very happy with me but his family denied. Later I came to know his family arranged his marriage with his own cousin. Actually I was totally unaware of his customs.. now I moved back to my roots. Looking for Bengali matches. Ur post suddenly touched my soft corner.

How is caste factor here?

Become "Andho me Kaana Raja". See the situation like this.

Just be you.

use fair and lovely than can solve hour problem

make plastic surgery just like fadanvis

That's such a sweet story. You're worried for nothing.. just be there with your soulmate and cherish this beautiful love that you two share.

Thank god....you didn't visit jnk himachal or punjab...you will go to comma😅😅...jokes apart..in true love looks doesn't matter much... keep as you are

Bengali womens may be beautiful but not like TN womens …! Especially bengali guys don’t have hygiene factor at all don’t jus blabber something that might be ur case or very specific …!

Dress like Mamta Banerjee

In 2026 you cannot change ur skin color, but can improve your intelligence. Also try satvik for better skin.

Build you're cofidence, accept yourself. Give yourself regular skin care routines. Dont give lot of importance to others looks (as they fade away one day). Spend more time with your husband to gain emotional confidence for yourself. Dont compare yourself to others as you are the best in your own way. Focus on not changing your nature, that your husband liked about you (that is more important then anything else).

Looks is something a person is born with. You can't help much there. You might get a haircut that suits you. Get yourself groomed a bit. You cant change your complexion or facial features. You are good in your own way. Did anyone make you feel insecure? No right. Your husband loves you despite of other beautiful girls around him. Then why bother so much. Just enjoy your life.

Sister Just be the original you, because it's the original one which your husband loved and chose 👍 we men are like that only.

You are lucky he married you for your personality and your conversations, Bengalis are very intellect and thats why your wheatish color might not affect him, and it seems you are making yourself insecure...and to others Punjabi girls and Hrayanvi girls are very beautiful too and so are Tamil and Telugu girls, kindly dont make this a state debate ....I am from UP and beautiful girls here too...

For whom you want to improve your looks.!? Your husband is happy with you around his friends, isn't this enough, satisfying and confident for you!? You must be Apsara in your husband's eyes that's why he chose you among his female friends.!

Believe in yourself. If you feel confident on the inside, it wii radiate outward.

Looks like a fake story written by a bengali girl.

That's a peak jealousy

Are you for real?? Only option is cosmetic surgery

Bengalis girls are the most beautiful girls in the world with mesmerising eyes. no doubt. love their eyes. wish to date bengali girl some day <3 <3 <3

Did he loved you because of your look? If yes then he had plenty of option..... So think why did he loved you..... You won't get this inferiority complex when u understand that outer beauty doesn't matter to mature men anymore

Hygiene & confidence is more important

You should travel to korea & back to Kolkata 😂

Both of u dont come back to bengaluru..

Why this inferiority complex? Be proud of yourself, your achievements, your education. Caste and colour doesn’t matter.

South Indian Whitish Superiority Complex of lusting will never fade 🤣

First plan for a baby then think about other problems.... You are already 27 if you are really don't want a kid right now, after 3 years you will remember my words ....

Learn Black Magic ✨

Munji ku vella paint adichiko.

If you find Bengali women of Kolkata most beautiful, then you haven't seen India yet...

😀 Bengali women are known for their dusky looks. They are beautiful. I am married to a Bengali and I am from a different state also I am dusky like you. But, your husband married you, so you have qualities which he felt a Bengali girl does not have. Take care of yourself and him, mentally intellectually. Be happy and confident in your skin and the fact that he choose you. But one word of caution. Like any marriage, you have to safe guard your territory. Bengali women or any other woman, you need to keep your guards up. As is the case with him or any marriage for that matter. You can dress like them to begin with. The traditional Bengali sarees and jewelry and make up can make any women look beautiful. That is the secret! 😁

Don't worry, your next generation will get

Watch Bhool Bhulaiyaa and follow Vidya Balan, how she dressed up on Durgashtami. 👹😍

Join a gym

You are one lucky girl. I don't see any problem with your skin colour. You're beautiful, I am sure. Your husband is a nice person, so just enjoy your life. Don't be insecure. He picked you over all those fair and smart girls, so you must be better than them.

better looks? you have a problem. you can accept you as you or paint your face with some bad cream or white paint! live your life. the only person worried about your skin tone is you! best wishes.

Sing humba humba bumba bumba three times a day for six months.

You are beautiful damn it!!

Women always create problems out of nothing

Your husband loved you for what you are… why you want to look like those fair skinned Bengali women ? It seems you are suffering from insecurity. Instead of ruining your face with those expensive surgeries, it’s better to talk to your husband and explore your love life without caring much about external looks