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Submit ConfessionGender: Female14 June 2026 at 5:45 pm
#C27458 Hi I am stuck in a dillema so trying to seek help here. I have been in a relationship with a guy from 2024. It was all good for the first 6 months but then we were on an on-off relationship. Once he goes, then I go. But somehow eventually we find out ways towards each other. So the problem is. I am of age where one should start looking for grooms. My parents are pressuring me for marriage too. So the problem here is, I am not sure if my partner is serious about me or if he will marry me. As now when everything seemed fine, we are in no contact situation. He says he's very busy with his work but during weekends?? Last when I called him, he said he forgot to call me. So I think I should stop being a bother in his life and leave him completely no? But what do I do, I really love him with all my heart and talking to some other guy feels like I'm cheating on him. I am really stuck as to what should I do?! Should I stay and wait for him to come around and treat me well or just leave him for good and move on??
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He has already shown you what he is like. This is his character. Nothing is going to change. This is not a movie where the hero suddenly realises he was wrong and changes himself for the girl. That will never happen. Your youth passes by you quicker than you know. Stop wasting it on worthless men and let your parents find you a partner who is serious about commitment as much as you are.
Girl i encountered something very similar.. What i can confidently put across is become the one who' s a dream come true person for a guy. Dont become a fall back option. A real luvsick guy shall treat u as a priority n nothing less. Asking for bare minimum n being shown the door..c'mon u deserve better..😉😉
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No one is so busy that they can’t even text, let alone call. Open your eyes and see the reality. This no-contact situation must be really painful for you. Stop suffering. Give him an ultimatum: if he comes back and wants to move the relationship forward, stay. If not, move on.
I think he received what he wanted Now he is not interested
Ask him to marry, that will show you the complete mirror , his response wil show you what you need to know .....then it's easy as fluke to take decision..
Follow your parents
Move on to new as he is not interested and said forgot to call.
Nothing leave him and go with your parents .. If he has forgotten to call you that shows you are not his priority . Tomorrow also he is going to behave with you like this . So why waste your energy and time for moron like this ...
Screw your love
Get married. If he comes back. Kick that basstad balls.