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#C27455 There was a version of me that existed before him. She laughed easily. She believed people when they said “I love you.” She believed that if your intentions were pure and your heart was sincere, somehow things would work out in the end. She believed in happy endings. She believed in God. She believed in love. I miss her. Sometimes I think about her like someone I buried a long time ago. Because the truth is, she died. Not all at once. Not in a single moment. She died slowly. Piece by piece. Promise by promise. Heartbreak by heartbreak. I met him when I wasn’t looking for love. My life was routine. Wake up. Work. Come home. Repeat. I had already known loss. Already known betrayal. Already known what it feels like to give everything and still be left with pain. So when I was told to try a matrimonial app, I didn’t expect anything. I certainly didn’t expect him. A photo. A match. A message. And everything changed. His first message was honest. He told me his age. He told me he had two sons. He told me to walk away if I wasn’t okay with it. I should have known then that honesty would become the thing I loved most about him… and the thing that would break me. We moved to WhatsApp. The first call lasted hours. Then longer. Soon it became daily: voice notes, video calls, inside jokes, good morning messages, good night messages. He became part of my routine without me noticing. And somewhere in all of it, I fell in love. Quietly. Completely. Like something I didn’t choose. He became the first person I thought of when I woke up. And the last when I slept. Then came the words. “I love you.” Three words. Eight letters. And my world shifted. Hope turned into planning. Planning turned into believing. Believing turned into building a future in my mind that felt real. I imagined weddings, families, children calling my name. I imagined belonging. For the first time, I felt chosen. Then came the cracks. His certainty became hesitation. His presence became distance. And I realized I loved him more than he loved me. I should have left. But people who have never loved like this don’t understand. When someone becomes your safe place, leaving feels like losing part of yourself. So I stayed. Through every breakup. Every return. Every promise. Every silence. Because hope is dangerous. It keeps you alive… until it doesn’t. Then came two years of waiting. Two years of loving someone I had never truly held. Two years of building a life in my mind. And then he was there. Real. Standing in front of me. When I saw him, everything went quiet inside me. Like my heart finally recognized something it had been waiting for. The first hug felt like home. For three days, I believed. We laughed. We ate. We planned. I thought maybe this is it. Maybe everything led here. Then came the silence before the truth. I saw it before he said it. And then he spoke. He cared about me. He valued me. But he wasn’t in love with me. He wasn’t attracted to me. He couldn’t give me what I needed. And something inside me collapsed. Not loudly. Silently. I cried. I begged. I asked him to try. Because losing him felt like losing my future. But love cannot be forced. At the airport, we stood longer than we should have. He hugged me tightly. Like he knew. Like I knew. Then he pulled away. And before walking away, he said it. “I love you.” Three words. Eight letters. I held onto them for a second too long. Then he turned. And walked. And I stayed until he disappeared. He boarded. And then the message came. Not long after. Clear. Final. He loved me… as a friend. Something in me didn’t break. It ended. All at once. That girl died. The girl who believed in God died. The girl who laughed without fear died. The girl who had hope died. And in the nights that follow, staring at a blank screen, holding his jersey, I still wonder— does he know? That the girl he left at that boarding gate never came back? That she still stays there? That she still loves him, the same way she did two years ago?