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#C27451 Plz admin post it 😭 Need some genuine advice. I’m a 22-year-old college student, and my girlfriend is also 22. We’ve been together for almost 6 months. This is my first relationship, while it’s her second. About me: I’m an average-looking guy, but I’m very active in academics and sports. I represent my college in sports and have even won Best Player of the Year. Because of sports, I have to travel for matches regularly. Before this relationship, I used to talk to some girls on Instagram, but once I developed feelings for my girlfriend, I completely stopped talking to them. I genuinely love her, care about her, and have always tried my best for this relationship. I do have a short temper, but I’ve been working hard to improve it, especially during the last few months. About her: She had a previous relationship before me. When we first started talking, she told me she still couldn’t completely forget her ex. During the early stages of our relationship, whenever we had arguments, she would go back and talk to her ex for hours, saying she needed sympathy and emotional support. I forgave her multiple times because I wanted to make things work. Now we are facing another issue. Since I’m a sports person, I have matches and tournaments quite often. Recently, she told me that she feels she has “lost her life” because of this relationship and that if she had known earlier how busy I would be with sports, she would have stayed with her ex instead of loving me. During arguments, she also threatens to talk to her ex again. I have forgiven many mistakes in this relationship and always tried to understand her side. However, hearing comparisons with her ex and threats to go back to him whenever there is a problem is becoming mentally exhausting. Am I wrong for focusing on my sports career and college activities? Should I continue trying to fix this relationship, or is this a sign that I should move on? Looking for honest opinions and advice.