← Back to confessions
Comments for Post #C27448
Submit ConfessionGender: Female14 June 2026 at 3:37 am
#C27448 34yr F. Married from 6yrs I have been following this page for a long time. And finally gathered the courage to write my own confession. Before marriage, I was in a relationship. It was for 6yrs. He was my relative. On the 2nd yr of our relationship my family got to know from some sources and they were against this relationship because of his educational and family background. But for me he is still a wonderful person. He was loving, caring and respectful. I fought for our relationship for 7yrs long. My father did everything to break this off. I tolerated verbal abuse, mental trauma, stress, anxiety everything. I know he has his own reasons, maybe it's his male ego, social pressure. I have heard my dad crying late at night In front of my mom. There was a huge emotional fight inside me. Finally the daughter inside me won the battle. And I gave up on my love. I couldn't stand my dad breaking down every day because of me. My boyfriend knew all the scenarios and he supported me in every step. I know he was hoping to be with me for the rest of his life. But at last I intentionally hurt him with my words so that he will give up. And after that day we never spoke. After a year I got married. My husband is a good person. I told him everything before marriage which he accepted. But the regret and grief is still inside me which is getting worse day by day. I know this post will never reach that person. But I don't know how I will reduce my burden. I also know that the love for him will never reduce. I just pray everyday, if there is a next birth not to give me such pain.
👍46
❤️1
😂1
😢7
Sponsored
Comments (21)
Again, I don't understand why people start relationships when they know their parents won't approve...
You loved, you sacrificed, and you chose what felt right at the time. Be kinder to yourself. You’ve carried this pain long enough. Hugs!🤗
Halka Mon – Your Safe Space To Be Heard
No harm in meeting once and say sorry to him. Your husband seems to be wonderful and I hope he understands your emotions and agrees to it.
You haven't done anything wrong. You just chose your parents and God gifted you with a great husband. Life isn't fair and destiny places us where we ultimately end up.
Feeling really bad For ur hubby
Now every thing is over, you have no right to spoil your husbands life
It should reach your father. Some actions don’t just hurt people… they destroy lives.
what is your ex doing right now? is he well settled ??? If not then your father did the right thing....
My relative means?
God Bless U Both 🙌
He was your relative, yet your family was against it because of family background? Hmmm, something doesn't quite add up Anyway Move on.. no use crying over spilt milk. Your husband deserves better.
The pain you describe of is self inflicted. You did this to you and the people around. Pray that in next life you grow a spine and stand for what you want.
Join Thirtyfound.com instead of other shaadi app... it's 100% verified profiles and it's only for 30+
Regret never help you to live life. Life means move on, he may have also moved on and he may have any regrets, than why you should have it? Moreover, he had understood why you chosen to leave him so why regret now? Just look at your family which your present and future.
Forget everything... As u have started new life , if you hve guilt, than simple you can pray to God to keep Ex healthy & wealthy & let him have Good wife better than you.... Hopefully you guilt may come down
Why the hell did you have to marry an innocent man? Your father didn’t want you to be in a relationship. So you broke up. That should have been it. You should have stayed single until you could get over it. If you couldn’t get over, you should have stayed single for life. You didn’t have to marry someone & unnecessarily spoilt their chances of finding someone who would have loved them back.
Respect 🙏
Now u r ruining not only one but 2 life's by marrying
Parents🤦🏻♂️
indian parents b their drama
Why do women like you ruin the life of a Man. May this post reaches to your husband and he divorce you. Such a bad human you are!!