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Submit ConfessionGender: Female13 June 2026 at 4:31 pm
#C27439 I'm 25F, and I have a male friend from my office. I joined the company just a month ago, and we quickly became good friends. Recently, we went to watch a movie together. I have a crush on him, and during the movie, I held his hand. However, he didn't really respond—he just sat there and didn't pull away or hold my hand back. Later, he told me that things were moving too fast for him. This left me confused because I always hear that most guys would be excited in that situation. Is it normal for some men to react this way? Does it simply mean he's more cautious and wants to take things slowly? Also, did I do something wrong by holding his hand first, or is that completely okay? I'd appreciate hearing your thoughts, especially from people who have been in similar situations.
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Bro has Principles and is not weak minded.
He is not interested in you…as simple as that
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See, not all men are lusty or have loose morals like you think, that he will get super excited, jump and scream or run behind you madly by your mere touch. Men also have principles and self control.
It's very simple. He is not interested. Even for men no means noo
You didn’t do anything wrong. Holding his hand was a genuine expression of interest, and his reaction doesn’t mean something is wrong either. Not all men respond the same way. His comment suggests caution, comfort level, or wanting emotional connection first. Respect his pace and see whether his actions continue showing interest.
Next time....start with Cheeks. Hold his Cheeks. Hand will happen if he gets comfy with U.
Not all guys are ga*jis. U did ur part and he did his part. Both clearly communicated wat u feel.
He wants to fuck u...but acting like he is Not in hurry.... Pov: try removing ur clothes in a room and see his reaction 😂
You gonna enter in fwb soon girl👽
Is he cautious? Yes Did you do anything wrong? No Is he interested? May be or may be not You did something wrong expressing? No Are people doing to speak extreme shitty personal views? Yes FYI: Taking things slow is safe from legal point of view given how quickly men get trapped
Seems like, you are not the one to whom he touched for the first time.... Either, he's habitual s*x offender with no longer virgin or having multiple affairs .... Because when a girl touched for the first time, every single men will go thru some vibrations in the body .... And those feelings comes when a boy never touched any girl in the past .....
He has his own principles. And please don't hold his hand if he dislikes.
Yes he is cautious , he might be afraid of false me too case ...give him some time
May be his Orientation is different from Normal...
He is a player and thats how he knows how to occupy your mind... YKIYK 🤣🤣🤣🤣
If he said take it slow, be happy and lucky. He's cautious. You shud be too. Also, respect his wishes.
i think he is not interested in u and u just give him time and wait for the end result ...dont be in a hurry
You should have held something else ! *Hint* - not his leg either . You'd then realise if things were moving fast or slow. 🙄
He said no. No means no. It doesn’t mean anything else
He's cold man
He went with you as a friend maybe.
Maybe he is not up to your past experinces with different men
You expressed your interest and he didn’t say but need time. Be patient and try to understand each other
Should have held the harder one 😆
Respect the friendship. You went as a friend not as his gf. He is right. Nothing to say to you just maintain your dignity.
The guy has different frequency from other guys who believes in everything fast like fast food . Give him time But... Do ask him frankly Does he likes you ? And may be in the near future can we take this to next level of deep emotional relationship and marriage. If he says no just like as friends , stay friends ds and move on to search for your prince. If his answer is NO Don't move forward on love . It will hurt you.
Don't throw yourself on him. Have some self respect. U gave him hint and now it’s upto him. Just be casual around him.
Yes, for 1 month friendship things were too fast
Next Oyo
There is more to it, give him some time and space. BTW who paid for the movie tickets and petrol? Did you guys have dinner together? Even if he is you well wisher eat less in dinner date most likey he may reject you because he will start thinking that he is earning enough to feed you and you will become a liability for life. Anything which eats time, energy and money is a red flag. He may have mama ponnu with 200 soverigns dowry, so still processing.
Nothing wrong in your actions... Nothing abnormal in his reactions too After all, like buses or tains, there are various categories of reactions, slow ordinary, fast, superfast and lightning. So give him time to come to the frequency and then react ! Best wishes !
It's normal
Holding hand in cinema hall..is so down market. Mark my words u committed a big error n went too fast ...
Stay away it's a warning sign ☢️☢️☢️
Read more about dismissive avoidant attachment
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Lets meet and try to Hold my hand just once.... then see the magic
He might be a gey or like only mens frist find out it from other common friends usually boys never loss such chances but if he avoiding there will be something
The emotional turmoil of the situation and the questions it raises have brought you here. Focus on understanding and observing him rather than rushing to date him. If you keep pursuing this without staying grounded in reality, you may find yourself posting about heartbreak or accusations sooner than you expect 🙂
May be he is already in a relationship
May be u r not beautiful..so he tested I like normal friend
He is Sakth Launda!
Touch his thighs
He is gay 😁
woh garam karke thanda hi chod dega. ek kaam Karo AAP mera haath pakad lo
Didn’t he pressed ur boobs in the Theater ? If not , then he is gay . Leave his hand and hold my d**k 😜😊😀😂
Probably, u should share this with ur parents, so that, they ll understand their incompetence n selfishness in not looking for an alliance for marriage for their already past marriage age horny daughter...