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Why are your relatives bringing you rishtas of people who are already in a relationship 😂and why specifically an NRI?

For a while I forgot which era I am existing in 🤣🤣

See Brahmin F ... The problem is not with Brahmin or Not Brahmin... Bengali or Non-Bengali ... The problem is with people who don't bring any peace and constructive value in a man's life. I'm Brahmin and Bengali, I've a friend who is same. And I believe other bengali Brahmin men will agree as well, we're okay to marry anyone from any caste or creed or religious background as long as they're not bringing past baggage, unnecessary headache and stupid drama. A man wants peace when he comes home. He doesn't need a Bengali Brahmin woman who has been in one or more past escapedes brings that troubling nonsense in the current marriage and makes the mans life a living hell comparing him to her past experiences and partners. It's as simple as that. Hope this clarifies. 🙂

Reading this post while being a non-bengali girl and having a Brahmin bengali bf 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 cry more !!

Correction. Requirement - Brahmin ❎ NRI brahmin ✅

Who's gonna tell her that the problem is her personality 😞

You also find a non brahmin guy

I'm non Brahmin and my husband is Brahmin. The elder brother of my husband also married a non Brahmin girl. I think Bengali boys don't give too much importance to the cast they try to find loyalty,love, peace etc in the woman.

Men choose character and not caste !!!

People are saying that she's frustrated, but I feel she's suffering from the caste superiority complex....

That’s like asking why many women prefer successful, financially stable men over auto drivers, mechanics, or puncture-shop owners. People choose partners based on what they personally value. Brahmin men choosing non-Brahmin women isn’t some mystery—just like women choosing outside their preferred pool isn’t.

Bengali bhrambin girl here , married a bengali non bhrambin boy . Being a bhrambin won't give you peace and happiness in relationship automatically. Choose a person who will love you , like all your suitors , who choose their love over caste.

I believe whoever wrote this confession must have time-traveled from 2000 BCE.

lol it’s sad that in 2026 ppl are still playing caste-caste

Frustration after repeated disappointments is understandable, but it’s unfair to generalize an entire community. People choose partners for many reasons—compatibility, shared values, love, family expectations, or personal preference. Bengali Brahmin men are not a single mindset. Focusing only on caste may narrow possibilities and increase disappointment in finding a relationship.

So you want a bengali brahmin + 1 cr salary + permanent residency of foreign country + own home in foreign - NIJEKE AAYENAYE DEKHECHIS BON? TOKE DEY KE?

28 years old, gen z and stuck in Casteism.

Reading this from my husband's phone who is a Bengali Brahmin and I'm a Bihari Rajput .😂😂😂Cry more 😂

The problem is u r looking for NRI Bengali Brahmin Guys. If u find in India, average middle class guys, you’ll find plenty. But Alas! You need a rich NRI Brahmin Bengali only..

With this mentality, better be single than ruin someone's life

I'm a Bengali Brahmin girl with a Bengali Kayastha bf. This guy is far far better by morals,character and humanity than my toxic Bengali brahmin ex bf who used to hit me whenever I caught him cheating behind my back. I don't want to compare both of them,especially after getting immense love,respect and independence from my current one. They both are absolutely very different individuals. Tumi jaat e biye korlei je tumi kheer khete pabe eta noye. Come back to reality please.

It's 2026 not 1800

The NRI gentlemen apparently forgot to consult the Community Loyalty Department before falling in love. 😭😂

Oh shit, I wish I knew what was it about you that turned them off instantly ! 🤔

Because discussing caste in West Bengal is ghetto and none wants a girl having that mentality, ever thought about in that way?

Sankalan lets write a metal track Cries of Casteism

Yesterday I was thinking how bengali boys are surviving with these woke ladies. Now I understand everything. Finally a win for bengali boys 🗿

Is it a matchmaking group? I thought it's a corporate confession group.

You're crying over him having a Non Brahmin gf, when we have seen Brahmin girls having Muslim boyfriends/husbands

Get married to an NRI non Brahmin boy....simple.... ultimately u r sad because u missed the NRI boys...

Laughed at he rejected me for a Bihari girl 😂🤣🤣🤣

Your post somewhere hints that Brahmins are superiors. Madamji, life requires peace and happiness , not marrying only Brahmins and fighting everyday. For Tamil, it is not only the Brahmins, other castes people also marry their own relatives only. They marry their maternal uncles and cousins from Bua.

thik hoyeche aapnar sathe ....aapnar ei jonme biye hobeiona .....🤣🤣🤣🤣

From your confession, it seems to me that you could benefit from genuine counselling and self-reflection. Caste alone does not determine whether a relationship will be successful or long-lasting. What truly matters in any relationship is stability, mutual respect, understanding, trust, emotional maturity, and the willingness of both partners to work through challenges together—qualities that many relationships unfortunately lack. Even if you choose an arranged marriage within your own caste, there is no guarantee that your partner will respect you, value you, support your independence, or have the patience and emotional maturity required to maintain a healthy and stable relationship. Physical appearance, caste, or social status alone cannot sustain a marriage. A successful relationship depends on compatibility, shared values, effective communication, empathy, and mutual effort. These are far more important than caste identities. Based on what you have written, I am concerned that you may be placing too much importance on caste as the foundation of lifelong happiness. It also appears that your views may have been heavily influenced by family or societal conditioning. I would encourage you to think independently, question inherited beliefs, and strive above all to be a good human being. You should also take some time to study the historical origins and evolution of the caste system. Understanding how these social structures developed may give you a broader perspective and help you make more informed choices in life and relationships.

So its high time that you must understood a truth...you can expect a good spouse just for being a bramhin.if You are still single just bcs no bramhin guy liked you,you should consider good guys who are not bramhin but are good husband material.This is 21st century.

Dear sister, exactly in which era are you living? Instead of feeling lucky for living in a society where inter-caste marriage is not a big deal, you are complaining about it? There are so many people out there struggling with life for not being able to marry their chosen ones because of caste issue. The only and only thing should matter to you is the “person is good hearted and compatible with you or not”. If you are searching for NRI money then that is a separate thing altogether, please don’t bring caste angle to it and make all other Bengali Brahmin girls ashamed. I am a bengali brahmin and happily married to a non brahmin boy because for me his caste and money didn’t matter. Instead of drooling over his money, we built and is still building our fortune together, and I am happy about it. So, please get out of the mindset “how can he reject me for a non bengali / non -brahmin girl “ for god’s sake !!

Abey Brahmin ghar pe paida hone se koi Brahmin nahi ban jata 🤣🤣🤣 kitni tapasya karni padi Asli mein brahmin bane ke liye

Atleast be thankful that they are not going for inter-religion marriages/relationships which some of the 'bengali' girls try to do.

Exactly my point but thank god I found a bengali brahmin guy 😂❤

Marry a rajput boy

Degeneration is in your mind! You are prioritizing caste than one's love. I know a Bengali Brahmin who runs a small shop ( like a hole in a wall shop) DM me...i will send your proposal

It's a joke, right? It has to be

Two things for you here: one, they marry who they want to because they are educated with their own opinions. Two, in the entirety of the post, you didn't put in one talent of yours based on which someone should marry you. You looked down upon other communities, you highlighted salaries and residences of prospective grooms yet never what are you offering. God save the guy who marries you.

Tirthaayani Srimani no way this is real😭🤣

Marrying from same caste is like marrying your sister or cousins 😂. You need to expand your gene pool

90% of Bengali now do not consider their caste as their identity. Bengali have and always been way ahead of other religions and communities when it comes to accepting the modern times. Glad to be a small part of Bengali culture and mindset.

It's because of you. It means Bengali Brahmin boys saw the culture of their home and obviously the don't like it otherwise why they wouldn't have search for different type of women. The same things happens with east Bengali boys also they generally don't prefer to marry east Bengali women. 😉😃

Their life their choice 🫠 and also if you slightly change your criteria and meet a few non NRI men settled in India you can find many great options believe me ..

I know for sure now time travel exists (or is it with Bengali Bramin F’s)

Will you accept a non Brahmin ??

Nothing like that …! Everywhere everything is possible Y can’t you prefer poor or middle class Bengali Brahmin boys rather than searching them in Canada & US

It's 2026 and you are worried if a boy is going to choose you or someone else? Focus on your own life path, the right one will come and find you in the right time. Be wise enough to know who is the right one for you and don't judge based on caste creed and money, but see family value , education and behaviour. Don't be stressed for stupid reasons.

None of my relationships lasted more than 6 months with Brahmin girls, honestly most of them had others in line😅...So what's going to be my experience tell me😓

Such a cute post hehe. I also feel the same at times. Why girls marry in other castes! What will happen to us brahmin boys hehe.. sweet post. After so many painful and heartbreaking confessions this was a bit on the. Lighter side..

Pronay Talapatra , from which dimension or multiverse is this coming?

I thought I time traveled to the 19th century

Jealously thy name is woman 😂🤣

I was married to a Tamil Brahmin!! But iam kannadathi!!

When I saw this post, I assumed that someone would give her proper treatment.. already lost by a girl nd still shameless to dishonour her by saying bihari girl..

Thutu fele dube mor...🤣🤣🤣

You take double revenge.. go out with non Bengali non Brahmin guys. That'll teach them a good lesson !

Update your criteria 🫢 You must ask your relatives or whoever is bringing a rishta for you, the rishta must be #Bengali_NRI_Brahmin.

Don't get married ato share sholo ana demand hole toke soyong ishwar er sathe biye dileo oshanti korbi. Jah pala

Being Brahmin doesn’t give you the privilege to degrade other caste or region in specific. I being a girl am very happy that they rejected you, cause for girls like u every other girl gets criticised. The boys got saved by not marrying you.. Who knows what would be your demand after getting married to a Brahmin guy. Probably a lumpsump amount after divorce

See I think being a Bengali Brahmin is also very respectable thing and you will also be accepted. Don't think so demeaning of your self. Be confident. You will also find someone who would be OK irrespective of your caste.

Actually, the Bengali Brahmin women can also opt for someone outside of WB.. Its not that uncommon. I mean, I have seen so many Bengali girls(caste and religion no bar) in love with and happily married to men of different ethnicities like Bihari, UP, Tamizh, Malayalee, Punjabi etc.. So, until and unless its a satirical post, do what I mentioned above

hope u dont have two horns :P

Why do you want only Bengali Brahmin guys? You can marry a Brahmin guy from another community too. If you think so, I’m always available for you. I love eating fish curry and rasgulla is my favorite sweet as well. And more importantly, I’m an NRI too (NRI — Not Rich Indian) 😌

In TN it's other way around either way if we cannot find suitable match better go for intercaste marriage as long there is compatibility n families r okay

Men choose character looks and brains to some extent , not caste

Btw inter community marriages have increased all over India. I understand your problem. I too am facing it 🙏, all my friends are as well.. Arranged marriages are not the same like at your parents ' time

Choose a person who gives you peace respect and happy good life.. There is nothing like brahmin tamil bengali bihari he should be loyal to you earn good money and gives you mental peace.. Leave this nonsense thing bengali bihari... You too can marry anyone who respects you, takes care of you, and loves you thats it dear...

Kapil Soti sunno inka dukhda

Tow possibilities, 1. It's a Post by a native hindi belt in disguise. 2. When people say bengal is totally caste free it's not. Although the majority rejects people like you it is thoroughly positive and satisfactory.

U r getting rejected not becoz of cast ..... Bt becoz of ur personality , mindset nd behaviour.... 🫠

Though a bengali bramhan but will Marry a girl who can give me peace and mental satisfaction....caste does not matter much

Another stereotype NRI paglu who cannot see beyond😏 I know a Brahmin decent boy who has his own chai tapri a future entrepreneur will you accept him? 🫣⛏️

I hope tum single brahmin hi maro …. Nonsense post

Anyway all Bengalis eat non-veg across all castes, so why can't she just marry a bengali guy from another caste? In south, brahmins are the only veg caste, so both men/women prefer to marry within caste for dietary preferences

Tamilnadu welcomes you

Simple, marry a Tamil Brahmin boy. Oh wait, they would not consider you Brahmin enough because of your non-veg consumption. FAAAAHHH!

What is this with looking only at NRI Brahmin boys?

Clear your search filter and search for a man who will happily take care of you than looking for same caste / religion guy!

Brahmin man shouldn’t lower them by tieing the knots with non Brahmin at all. Hope, You'll find someone soon. Try Brahmins from bsni, Asam or Tripura. Big Bengali speaking hub there.

Supriyo Bardhan Bro help her please

U r such an unique species. I have seen bengali women who are so liberal & narcissist tat they don't marry or marry not only outside their caste but also interfaith. U r upset because both are NRI's & even when they do have gf how come u got the proposal? Must be their parents forcing them to marry in the same caste. Thank god they got saved. One thing more either u r not so attractive or gorgeous or they smelled tat u r just marrying them bcos of their NRI status.😆 If u r so keen to marry brahmin guys then marry those pandit & purohit.

Why you're searching NRIs 😂

Look girl its everybody's right to marry whoever they want.I guess you are frustrated that good looking NRIs are being taken away but that doesn't give you right to talk down on other people.Thats plain discrimination.In this day and age if you want a specific bride from specific sect or community you have to put in enormous work and you should have gotten into relationship early with some one of that NRI caliber from sect you wish for.Anyway this is the first time I am hearing boys in a community doing well and women are trying to gatekeep or mateguard them.Usually it's the opposite

Lol. LOL. Upper caste randirona 🤣😭 *Proceeds to play BABA AMAR KI BIYE HOBEY NA! in full volume*

U too marry non Brahmins guy. What is the problem. If u can't marry without Brahmins why to blame a guy who is fine marrying other caste girl

Save BENGAL and BENGALI from HINDI BASHI 🤢

Not judging Bro you need a good mindset go find one all this Bengali brahmin are shit But does such orthodox women still exist 🤧

You are degrading the entire clan of Bengali girls just by showcasing your mindset

High caste problems 🤣

Your upbringing has been in a sick mental family. I am a Bengali Kayastha but nobody in my family ever suggested me not to marry a sc/st/obc or non bengali girl. 😆 You better remain unmarried 😆😆😆😆. For a man it's 100 way better to marry a bihari girl than a sick like you 😆😆

There is nothing call Brahmin girl/women. Women are casteless. They are just subordinate of their father (before marriage) and husband (after marriage). They don’t have their own identity. I don’t support this but if you support religion, must support patriarchy. You can't seek human right and equality without being an atheist.

You really exist?

Come to Karnataka, In Karnataka, havyaka Brahmins are plenty and single and waiting to find a suitable girl

Change your search preferences and you are set 😁

People are aither frustrated because they are married or cannot fine one