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Submit ConfessionGender: Female11 June 2026 at 10:09 pm
#C27411 Hi, I never imagined I would be writing this. I am a 40-year-old woman fighting a court case filed by my own father because my mother executed a registered gift deed in my favour. For decades, I was the “responsible child.” Whenever there was a shortage of money at home, I stepped in. I paid for my college by taking tuitions because father wouldn’t pay and said he would marry me off as soon as I turned 21. Years passed and I moved cities and took jobs and got a masters. I trained myself at work and moved up. When my younger brother allegedly took money (15 lakhs) from the family business years ago, I helped repay debts - putting my PhD plan in Australia on hold. I funded family needs, postponed my own financial security, and even returned money my father said he had spent on my wedding. Today, I don’t even have the savings I should have built for myself because family always came first. My brother, on the other hand, received endless financial support—bikes, cars, watches, and opportunities. He never bothered to go beyond 9th standard. Father helped him buy fake degrees because of which he got jobs. Every mistake was excused as “he is still growing up.” He is now a married father of two. He also used to be v violent and beat me and mother and father stood like a mute not saying anything. Ghar ka naam kharab hoga! My mother saw everything. 12 years ago she made me the sole nominee to the house (she was the owner) after I repaid the debt created by brother. she even took legal action against my brother after their fraud. The declaration was in the national newspaper as well. He was thrown out of the house by the police but father brought him back a few years later. Brother repeated the same pattern - although not physically abusive anymore. Over the course of two decades, I have repaid my wedding expenses, my student loan, monthly portion, my PPF (10 lakhs) - everything totalling 50 lakhs. Even when I my father would manipulate my mother into saying his pension isn’t enough for household expenses (65k), mom would confide in me and I would send money (3-4 lakhs in a year). And in all these years brother hasn’t contributed more than 1 rupee! I later found out my father took that money and gave to my brother. I stopped being the cash cow and kept things formal between me and father. Mother saw everything and executed a register deed (house was in her name) after my brother started forcing me to pay for his car and his kids education!!!!!!!!! The response? My father challenged it in court saying I manipulated my mom with clothes and lunch dates!! Sick! What hurts more than the litigation is that since March, I have been unable to speak to my mother. My father blocked my number from mom phone. I live separately with my husband in the same city. He also put allegations on my husband saying he drank a lot and hosted loud parties at their home (I hate him). He also told my husband to be wary of me as I will take his house by manipulating him. My mom is elderly, isolated, and I worry about her every single day. I miss her terribly. The only news I get of her is through my daily calls to my Masi’s - who are in touch with her. They say she doesn’t talk much anymore. I got to know that mom cried after hearing that my baby has started walking! I am today because of her sacrifices. I had promised her that I would always stand by her. This isn’t really about property for me anymore. Its about the hurt from all the years of being manipulated into keep giving and giving not expecting anything. The court will decide the legal issues. I will respect that process. But today I am simply a daughter who misses her mother and is struggling to understand how standing up for herself turned her into the villain of the story. If anyone has gone through something similar, I would appreciate your perspective. I had filed an FIR against my father for gender discrimination and not letting my mother speak to me but the police is of no help. What can I do? Anyone help?
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What you’re facing is not greed—it sounds like years of emotional manipulation, unequal treatment, and now separation from your mother. Continue the legal process, document everything, and consult a family/property lawyer regarding your mother’s access and possible coercion or isolation concerns. Lean on your husband and trusted relatives. You did not become the villain by setting boundaries; you stopped carrying everyone else’s burden.
See a good lawyer abe document everything. You aren’t under any obligation to pay for your brothers car and kids fees... Keep in touch only with your mom The others don’t deserve your presence
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Register gift deed the law will allow to challenge it but there is no one will stop you from making property in your name . He has challenged it is register it will be from side only how long they put the case. Put property on your name seee other are just relation emotion issue you sort out
First, I'm sorry you're going through this. What stands out from your post is that this isn't really a property dispute, it's a lifetime pattern of unequal treatment, financial exploitation, and emotional manipulation that has finally reached a breaking point. From what you've described, your mother was the legal owner of the property and executed a registered gift deed while alive and competent. If your father believes it was obtained improperly, the court is the right place to examine that. The legal process will evaluate evidence, not allegations or family narratives. The more painful issue seems to be the isolation from your mother. If your mother is being prevented from communicating with you against her wishes, that is concerning. Since you've already approached the police without much success, it may be worth discussing with your lawyer whether any legal remedies are available to establish her welfare, ensure she can communicate freely, or record her wishes before the court. Also, please don't fall into the trap of thinking that setting boundaries makes you a bad daughter. Many responsible children are praised as long as they keep giving, but the moment they stop funding or enabling unhealthy family dynamics, they are suddenly labelled selfish or manipulative. That doesn't make the accusations true. Keep records of all financial contributions, repayments, transfers, and any documentation related to your mother's decisions. Facts and documentation tend to matter far more than emotions in court. Most importantly, try not to carry guilt for choices your parents made. You supported your family for years, often at significant personal cost. Whatever the outcome of the property case, those sacrifices do not disappear, and neither does the bond you share with your mother. Focus on protecting your peace, supporting your case through proper legal channels, and keeping communication open through relatives who remain in touch with your mother. Wishing you strength and hoping you get to reconnect with her soon.
Stay strong..
I don't know if you can bring you mother to stay with you and consult a lawyer if u can get a restraining order against your brother and father ...give them the property against commitment that they will never get in touch with u again ..even if any of them die also
Can't you bring ur mother to live with you? The way you have described and ur mother has written the deed in ur name, seems like even she wouldn't want to live there. Bring her to ur house. Rest the deed is in ur name. You can kick out ur father and brother from the house later.
Yes going to court to retrieve & restore your mother freedom is quite possible, just hire a lwr And get mother back n living with you, she longs to see your son, your husband anyway is maligned by your father so he knows what your mother is going thru, let yr mother live her last year's in peace and serenity (& sell that house and force the father n bro to live in rented property thereby, Enjoy the money finally or use them to bring happiness & a memorial for your mother, build something in her name which even public wil cherish not only your children)
An FIR needs to be registered. Both men must be behind bars
You need to go to Court and ask for the safety of your mom showing your dad has mental issues problem and has been abusing your mom .. Her security and safety is concern Then Court will grant order to police to knock on ur father's doors and produce your mom .. you need a good lawyer to handle it at Court ...Hire a lawyer first
You are a star. The verdict will be in your favor. Keep Strong. Move On.
Go to court file criminal case against ur father if he waged war don't h9ld back. Time to Give it back fact ur brother gone astray ur father responsible don't be Cash cow. To brother or anyone. Isolating ur mother crime. If u want tall to lawyer U should file criminal case of mental cruelty for ur mother behalf it's dangerous don't let it slide. Father doing on confidence u Will not retaliate. Don't hold back more. I feel he doesn't like u he has soft spot for male too. Worst case expose your brother fake degree scam he will lose everything in no time. If he acts smart
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Oh look feminism isn't needed anymore, the men don't abuse women anymore.