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#C27393 M, 32 Currently working in a Central Govt job. I lost my mother at an early age in a drastic accident. My father is surviving cancer. Have to look after little brother who is mentally unstable to face the harsh reality. I kept cook and maid at home and it would be impossible to run the house without their help. Had an relationship which ends in 2022 (My gf had pressure in her house as her dad was very sick & she had to marry at an early age). My hobby is working out, reading books, watching movies & travel(which is not possible at this moment). At present I have to fight 3 battle each day. One at office, One at hospital & one at home. Friends & relatives are frequently asking for getting married. But I can not make them realise the fact that I am mentally devastated & it is not the right time to tie the knot. Frankly speaking I am literally not interested in Orthodox arrange marriage ( where only matter is flamboyance occasion-give and take policy- & to produce children after few dayz). I am not against the system but somehow I realize that I am not fit for that or circumstances makes me feel in this way. My type of marriage would be so natural, no show-off, where two soul will unite only for themselves, not to produce child in this cruel world. The main goal of the marriage is to explore the world together and know each other. And to save money for future & simultaneously try to do something in future for society. May be an orphanage, an old age home or a rehab for homeless people. I love dogs, & if mind diverts in future adoption is not an bad option (only if the other one thinks so). I have decided only to get married if I found a girl with the same mentality. Is there anybody or I am the only one to think like this.