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#C27369 Hi, Not sure how to take this forward please guide me. Female married with one kid in early 30’s we are living abroad everything going well till some point but my husband is very much attached to his family when living in abroad it’s common to feel guilty and more attached so I didn’t take it as big issue but my daughter birth even where do I stay at the time of birth everything he did according to his parents wish I didn’t took it seriously as I was very much into him. Slowly long hour calls with them on all weekends detachment started from us and whenever I go India I was allowed a limited days to meet my family though my mom is completely depending on us. I started my career back with so much of excitement but 0 support from him most of his focus to get his parents here and go world tour with them we covered many places only when they are present I feel detached in this relationship which I cannot make him understand now he started noticing the detachment and start doubting on me checking me often restricting even the modest dresses I’m not interested in anyone and slowly start hating this relationship as well. One time he created huge issue and asked divorce but I refused by keeping in mind about my kid from that day onwards he became more dominant he thinks he can keep threatening me like this. I’m trying to save money on this job so that I can handle if I go back as I don’t have father and no financial support from family, dono it’s worth a reason to stay away all I need is genuine effort to rebuild instead he s making me like a slave each and everyday I stopped fighting I stopped raising voices I’m taking care of his family even in abroad but lost myself in this journey I’m not same anymore what are my options