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Submit ConfessionGender: Male11 June 2026 at 12:22 am
#C27366 M, 32 Currently working in a Central Govt job. I lost my mother at an early age in a drastic accident. My father is surviving cancer. Have to look after little brother who is mentally unstable to face the harsh reality. At present I have to fight 3 battle each day. One at office, One at hospital & one at home. Friends & relatives are frequently asking for getting married. But I can not make them realise the fact that I am mentally devastated & it is not the right time to tie the knot. Frankly speaking I am literally not interested in Orthodox arrange/love marriage ( where only matter is flamboyance occasion-give and take policy- & to produce children after few dayz). I had a relationship in past which didn't work. I am not against the system but somehow I realize that I am not fit for that or circumstances makes me feel in this way. My type of marriage would be so natural, no show-off, where only two soul will unite only for themselves, not to produce a child only in this cruel world. The main goal of the marriage is to explore the world together and know each other. And to save money for future & simultaneously try to do something in future for society. May be an orphanage, an old age home or a rehab for homeless people. I have decided only to get married if I found a girl with the same mentality. Is there anybody or I am the only to think like this.
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A lot of men want simple weddings without grand celebrations and expenses. About women I am not sure.
Ditto same. The only difference is I am 26 F vegan. But want to put most of my hard earned money in Animal NGO and maybe in orphanage too.
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Although the idea looks good but chances of that happen is less than 1% there will be such field for sure but finding her would take another 6-7 years if u are not lucky because on matrimonial app u will find same mentality girls looking for 4 x husband package than her . And I don't think u have the capacity to explore out of that in your current situation . God bless u
When it comes on head then people change . So before marrying tell her the reality of your life or marriage are big mess now
You are only 32 being a man there are millions of Indians who are still unmarried.. plan for next 5 years, at 37 by then, it's perfect time, ofcourse take care of your health.. don't hurry on this.. 5 year plan is what you should be thinking
My god, can't imagine what u are going through
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I don't think such woman exists... So you should stay single or else you will have one more battle to fight... Also it's ok to marry whenever you are ready...
Nice ! Good idea all the best👍
Afraid of handling more responsibilities
हमारे भाई के लिए रिश्ता ढूंढ रहे है हम, आप इच्छुक हैं तो संपर्क कर सकती है , वो 30 साल का है।