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Chhodo aage badho.. this road has no pleasant end, you can just delay the misery moreover you won't just be delaying but deepening it. So just get the rid of him. No need to be sympathetic towards him because his being impotent was a news to you, not to him which also means he deliberately hid this fact. That man deserves it

Apart from some useless advices here, its ethically wrong on his side to have hidden this fact before marriage. He would have definitely known that he had this problem and should have taken treatment long back. Not at the expense of your life. You can seriously have a direct conversation with his treating doctor and understand the seriousness. If its going to take a long time, i would suggest mutual separation . Or if you have a magnanimous heart, you can wait

It was absolutely wrong of him to hide that fact before marriage. Ask yourself: Aside from this issue, how is your relationship with him? Intimacy is a very important part of life. Can you live without it? Seek a second or third medical opinion to see if there’s room for improvement. Then decide what to do.

Everyone has their opinions but According to me hiding these kind of problems at the time of marriage comes under cheating. So Give him some time if he is taking medication or else you can take the advice of the family counselor. If it still doesnt improve then you know what to do.

Give it some time...try to consult with some specialists...

Give a ...low.job.. you may know he is potent or not... if not divorce.

If you don't feel love for him, what is the point of staying together? Physical intimacy is essential in a marriage, and it will become difficult to leave this relationship later on.

Why did you cry? Is sex so important to you in life? Sex isn't everything in life. If he's a good man and loves you otherwise then ignore this one small issue.

That's why test drives are more important than the hymen layer 😀

छोड़ देना विकल्प नहीं होता है , प्रॉपर चेकअप करवाकर अच्छा ईलाज व अच्छे डाइट से इंप्रूवमेंट हो सकते हैं । बस किसी फर्जी नीम हकीम बाबा के चक्कर में n पड़कर अच्छे डॉक्टर से सलाह मशविरा करें । समस्या तब होती जब पार्टनर की सेक्सुअल चॉइस अलग हो ,उस स्थिति में असामान्य पार्टनर के साथ रहना उचित नहीं था लेकिन यहां समस्या दूसरी है जिसका इलाज उपलब्ध है ।शादी दो लोगों के बीच सहयोग का नाम है कमियां हैं तो आप दोनों को मिलकर दूर करना होगा । बाकी प्रैक्टिकली अगर आप अलग होती हैं तो समाज द्वारा एक दाग लग ही जाएगा , ऐसे में आपको ज्यादा स्ट्रगल करना पड़ सकता है । क्योंकि ज्यादातर दूसरे विवाह वाले रिश्ते पहले रिश्ते की अपेक्षा ज्यादा कटु होते हैं ।

He and his family had hidden this problem from your family. So this is a clear case of cheating. If the problem can be medically cured - try that. If not - divorce with mutual consent is only option.

This needs patience, impotence has cures but again, I am not a doctor, only the doctor can diagnose and prescribe appropriate medication. Your sadness and frustration are understandable, take a step back and think about the situation, let your emotions out and then be clear how you want to move ahead. He did not tell you about this condition of his and this is hiding such an important fact from his to be wife and you should at some point talk this out, that you're hurt that he hid such a major issues from you, and then make it clear that no secrets should be there and of course, continue treatment and both need to support each other.

Madam u should consult u r parents and elders and mutually take decision as soon as possible, and best part is take a divorce and remarry

But Ladkia toh jism se nahi rooh se mohabbat karti hain na 🌚

Depends what are your expectations. If intimacy matters to you as a women in marriage , then I guess it will only frustrate you because intimacy is lacking. If you are ok living with him in s** less marriage then carry on as couples . Yes there are medicines 💊 to improve testosterone hormones for men . Any hormonal improvement takes time to give effect in body 3 to 5 months , depends on person to person. Even after taking medicines If it doesn't improve it means it's karmic thing. There might be issue some illness like diabetes which also affects s** life . So need to check whether it's hormonal issue or illness issue . Even after a year it s the same . It simply means yes it can't get better . In such a case it's your call what to do , apply for divorce on the grounds of s** less marriage or stay it's your decision. It was not right on his part to marry if he was knowing there was a problem with him regarding s*** Sorry to hear about your condition. If u can't stay without intimacy better to depart. So you decide. Try to go on trips together sometimes it might be tension . Try evrry thing to see if he is able to give you intimacy happiness for a year. If he gets morning wood then everything ok . It's just some other thing . If morning wood also doesn't happen once or many times in one entire week then there is some issue . Penile erections are primarily controlled by the nervous system (nerves in the brain and spine) and blood flow. The pituitary gland does not directly trigger erections, but it acts as a "master regulator" that controls the hormones (like testosterone) needed to maintain normal sexual desire, arousal, and tissue function Try alternate nostril breathing to nourish brain cells and glands.

You can leave,it should have discussed. Also see what doctor tells

sorry to say nothing gonna happens

Ping me I can suggest further

Well, I think, it's your and your family issues and you all have to solve, but if you are deciding for the separation then take all the proof of his impotency, while saying this, I am not saying that, you disclose this things before this world or humiliate him but this will helps you in future that why you leave him.

Married for government job ,you should face this

Es k elwa AP k husband main or koi boraiy hai? Agar nhi to es ka ilaz mumkin Hai. AP chahiyn to main AP ki help bhi kar Sakta hn no issue you can contact

Treatment lo sabar rakho...sab achha hoga

Do not think about the past , try to make him healthy , I can give some advise DM me

Wait for a medication course to complete for six months to complete if there is no result then ask him for divorce and alimony because if got treated then u will be the looser

Maybe he is not attracted to u Or u are not seducing him properly. Try revealing dresses and roleplay, give him good head then he will surely aroused, without foreplay very difficult to get hard for a 34 year old man.

अगर यही दिक्कत तुम्हरे साथ होती और तुम्हरा हसबैंड यही सोचता तो तुम क्या करती जवाब खुद मे ढूंढो

Govt job, they never look they need only government job that's all your parents, your parents told adjust adjust it because he got government job life security so don't expect anything else. Just adjust it.😆😆😆😆😆😆

Chill kro

Parents ke ghar jakr life time rhna good decision nii hai . Better hai divorce lekr second marriage kr lijie ya fir child adopt kr lijie.

Madam use his mouth till he gets better it takes time to heal

Next time test drive the car before buying. This Is not about cars

Sooo sad story🥹

Why do you have to stress physical relation all the time ? Give him some time like 6 months and then take a decision 1months is too early to make any decision. Sit and talk build emotional connection be like friends for 3 months and then turn intimate don't just rush into physical relationship. Take councelling if needed. Build friendship trust love emotional connection and then physical. Weird confessions. Men get women who are not interested in physical relationship and women gst men who are least interested on physical relationship.

Taking good treatment ayurvedic can u tell me in detail about problem I solved ur hubby problem ok

Come personal so I can give u best

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Testosterone deficiency...male harmone But did he even touch you.. undress you and himself . Sleep on the same bed.. ?

Her husband should take Manforce Staylong tablet, all things would be sorted out

What he did to you is injustice and cheating. He has no right to spoil a woman's natural expectation and her life. He is very aware already, he has spoiled your life. There is nothing to feel ashamed of. Divorce him. And get a new life you deserve with your parents support. If they are expecting you to adjust and live, throw their thoughts away and approach a female lawyer and seek support.

U r wasting time he cheated u leave him move on

He hid such a serious problem is not acceptable .Let's just assume you had hid something , would he and ur in laws forgive you??? I would say file for divorce coz in future when and if you are not able to bear a child due to his medical condition he and ur Mil will blame u and spread rumours that u r infertile . Best to walk out

File a complaint against him

He was not fit for marriage and now they are blaming you Discuss with your family and don't prolong this trauma

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Is it possible for a human being to survive without eating, drinking or sleeping? Never because these are basic needs. Similarly, it is impossible to maintain a relationship without it.

Complaint against him, collect the evidence of doctor visit , u have age pls move on

Divorce

He and his family has cheated willing fully. No point in this relationship. Sex is the base of marriage. Leave it.

Divorce. Hiding this important thing is fraud and it is a right for divorce

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Tell him to visit a psychiatrist

Don't listen to any shitty doctor advice.Your husband has wasted a lot of semen in his youth so as final result the body systems have started fracturing.Reproductives nerves have been affected due to extreme vata What has to be done is simple the semen energy has to be conserved for 9 months which is 4 to 5 mandalams (1mandalam is 40 days).Make sure your husband doesn't even have a voluntary Erection during this time.A voluntary Erection even few secods during time will reset the 40 day clock and life force production will start from first.Voluantary Erection will move life force down and will cause emission as nightfall.So very strict bramacharya is needed the life energy will fill up and finally once it's full it will start healing all issues in body including penis nerve and tissue issues.He has to sleep by 9 wake up at 5 as night is pitta cycle and too much heat will interfere.Eat only satvic food as tamasic,rajastic food will trigger sexual urges.In nine months max he should be fully ready.When he starts bramacharya you have to walk out of his life fully for 9 months no phone calls,no talks your presence will trigger Erection and reset the cycle.So you have to wait.Dont go to allopathy and destroy your money.Nothing has worked,nothing will.Permanent cure is something you have to take from world's tradional medicine system for free.This is the ony way out there is no other way.

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Government job wale ladke ka aur lalach karo..tum logo ke sath Esa hi hona chahiye..tum logo ko bas paisa important hai aur kuch nhin

Hey ..most govt employee hav this disease. Bcos like their job they need bribe even for libido.. Give him under table money and ask to fck you.. He will get cured

Better divorce and re married with someone else