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Submit ConfessionGender: Male10 June 2026 at 9:59 pm
#C27361 I am in a relationship with a girl for more than 5 years now, and we were a well-known college sweethearts. I was a year senior to her, and I got placed in a reputed company and had to migrate there. We still managed to do long distance and used to visit her sometimes while she was completing her final year. Even during long distance everything went well. There were ups and downs during the relationship but somehow we managed to steady the ship. That's when after many tries she was left unplaced and had to drop a year. She stayed at her home, toiled hard and cracked into a reputed IIT where she got into a barely decent branch as well to pursue her master's. I continued with my job and had steady lifestyle owing to good salary, expense management, and financial background. I even used to support her financially to support her studies. I was the primary motivator and guide that helped crack the IITs for her master's. Everything went haywire after she joined the IIT. She changed, she changed very fast. She was no longer the sweet lovely girl I fell for. She changed. We started having disagreements. She didn't like the way I moved, dressed, and even looked. She kept asking me to change. I tried my best to change and asked her for more time and support which she mocked. During this time, she cheated thrice, one where she was semi-n*de on video call, two where she continued friendship with a friend who tried to have an affair with her. I forgave her for both these incidents. The third one is where I was broken. She had an affair with a fellow student for nearly an year. They kissed, hugged, did foreplay, and almost everything. They got intimate once, and she got pr**nant and she ab*r*ed the baby. The guy relocated after job and she continued her master's. Mind you, we were still in the relationship, so she was two-timing us. He knew about me while I had my doubts and kept asking for confession. She finally confessed after he left her. The reason she confessed really baffles me. The guilt in her may have done it, but I have been a loyal guy throughout even though I was asked by my female friends. In return, I got was a cheating partner. I am in a dilemma. She says she always wanted me but was physically unsatisfied and he was probably I am assuming a good looking guy according to her and she felt that it was right for her to cheat and satisfy her needs. Now, she wants me to continue in the relationship. I genuinely love her but isn't it unacceptable if someone cheats for such a long period and only comes back because they left. I am in a deep agony and pain. After 5+ years of loyalty, all I get is a cheating partner, that's it. If don't know what to do. I hope Mahadev shows me the right path ahead.
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Bro, you know the answer, we know the answer ! Plz process don’t get stuck !
I wonder how come an IITian getting so much time to cheat 🙂 jokes apart Bro never lick the spit once you thrown it out! Relax and kick her out! If you kick her out keeping everything aside mahadev will help you to reduce your pain✊
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If you sit in wrong train, better leave early otherwise it will become more far from your destinantion .... There are 8 bl people in this planet you will find someone like you !!
What you are now experiencing is known as ‘Sunk Cost effect’ - you have invested so much emotions, time & finances. However, she is no good for you.
Leave her simple 😂 .. what to do matlab kya 😂.. if cheated on you then end the relationship simple .. you go your way and she will find some body other
Bro, leave her at any cost don’t take her back or if you need to partner go for arranged marriage
Five years of love and support matter, but repeated cheating, a year-long affair, deception, and returning only after being left are serious trust breaks. Love alone cannot sustain a relationship without respect and honesty. Don’t decide from pain alone. Take time, prioritize self-respect, and ask whether trust can realistically be rebuilt.
Leave her now for never ending future regrets… you already know the answer
There are many Mahadevs in comment section showing you right path.... I see some Mahadevis also.. All have same thought...
Jus leave her, it will take some time to forget & dfntly pain vl be there bcz it’s your 5 yrs precious feelings & time but you have to manage, start your new life u vl get good girl who match’s u.
Bro, it is not complicated. What to do means what ?? She cheated, double dated, got physical, pregnant, ab-rted and many more.. there should not be second thought. LEAVE AND MOVE FORWARD.
If you want her back then do marry or forget her completely. Don't regret later.
Find a right woman and move ahead and for her, if she cheats you once twice and then again thrice she wont think twice before cheating you again
Don't let the same snake bite you twice , Flush off her from your life and end this relationship without a second thought . It's not the end , just a bend, get on with your life
Once a cheater is always a cheater
You know what is right and wrong, who is wrong here too, then why are you calling God, he has already showed you what kind of person she is, pl move on
Naah... Never every leave her. You need her. Yeah, get married to another good girl. But dont leave her.
Run for your life
1. Love is weakness 2.leave her completely 3.thus,u will Save yourself from further heart ache
Run as fast you can
Is any one naming #MAHADEV here ? Please guide this pure soul onto a divine path !!!!
Bro don't continue with her at any cost,she satisfied her desires now she wants you as a backup plan for a secure future, today 90% girl's are same like her,bro if you will continue with her, you're no longer a men , your simp.i hope you will got understand.
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Once a cheater is always a cheater, Runn bro Runn
Leave her and move on please
Run run runn
Bro it’s red flag for you, run away
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Now you know what to do.
Please give me her number bro
And 1 more thing. Please mention the details of the cheater if the confession is about a cheater. It would be helpful for people to avoid such thrashes in the future so that they don't get their lives ruined by these scums 😐
Abey saale koyi tujhe baar baar cheat kar raha hai fir bhi tu dunia se pooch raha hai mei kya kru? Chumtiya hai kya?
Once a cheater always a cheater
move on and let the who’re be on the street to get satisfied and also earn some money
this is enough what u have done so far...show ur middle finger to her and move on...she does not deserve u
Nikal....pehli fursat main nikal....kyu life ki band bajwa raha hai....learn from other guy who left her...be practical..
Wtf you are waiting for. LEAVE
She will continue to cheat on you and keep playing the women victim card game...... You better stay away from her and move on in your life..... Better concentrate on your job and career
If man have money then he do everything for female but if female have money then she kick male first, it's a lesson of life, if he cheated u once then u hv reason to kick her, but if he cheated u thrice and give excuses that she need physical satisfaction then it clear no for that slut coz it will continue life long, she have a habit of taste different d..k
In the first instance how did you forgive her after semi nude video calls . You fell in to the ditch yourself.
If you are okay with living and marrying a whore go for it. Shes going to do the same after marriage as well. Shes a 2 timer. And once a cheater always a cheater.
You have made yourself a fool. And she cheated you because you are a fool and loser, and you have nowhere to go. A thing not taken is always a leftover. You are that for her.
It's sad, ur parents are incompetent to find u a girl. U had to rely on ur own inexperienced self to find a girl.
Bro you are the world's biggest idiote person if you are still with her, she will keep cheating yout with other men and will get pregnent and you be a good loyal boy friend, who will raise her bf child..