#C27334 Now I'm 32. I was married a girl in Dec 2023 when I was. We both were working in IT. Before marriage she created a lot of drama by blaming my family for some reasons. I thought she will understand these things after marriage, and as we are from well respected family so we don't want this marriage to be cancelled. After marriage, from 10th day she started fighting with me by telling that you have an affair with other girl. As I don't have any affairs with anyone. I sit calmly and confessed her that I don't have any affairs or any other girl in contact also. After a month later she said that she want to go to abroad for study, I said, if it is your wish to do masters, please do. I give her all freedom and leniency. I lost my job in 2024, after losing my job she left me and went to her father home. And she is not stayed with me longer time. And I didn't asked her salary also. But she said in her home that I beat her, I asked her salary and my family did harrassament. After this incident she is not stayed with me for 2 years. And now she filed a complaint against me and my family. We talked with her and their family, she said she want divorce and 40-50L money to take back the case and agree to the mutual divorce. We also agreed to give the money and take back the case as we don't want to carry these things. Is there any other way to deal this? -Man
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Hire a shooter for 4/5 lakh then iykyk Simple solution...
40 50 lakh.... its too much.... 4 to 5 lakh is sufficient, you've to think in a different way... 😀
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Sorry to hear that you ve been victim and among 5 lakh+ men are struggling.. Your last line should hit all men in India '-Man' . Never ever give alimony easily.. It's not easy to get alimony maintenance equally tough for them Just don't feel breakdown for settlement.. Be strong aur let them travel to court for years There are hundreds of tactics your lawyer would help with..Get a good lawyer and wait and watch..
Hire a good lawyer .. if she has presented a evidence of domestic abuse the lawyer will look into it .. Keep the chats as your defence evidence .. Negotiate it ..
Buddy ..... Your case is similar to mine ..... DM ME ....... These women are the products of modern independent feminism......
1. Please dont agree for out of court settlement unless you think u have done something wrong. 2. Kindly keep all the evidences including every details (issues before marriage and after marriage) 3. If she has provided any evidences of domestic violence - check if you have any defense evidence available that can bail you out from those accusations. 4. If you and your family are not wrong then fight for it - it is fine to fight becuase sometimes u need to be stronger to face these (unless you think it might have impact on your parents). 5. Even If it is alimony, let the court decide (unless u think out of court settlement is lesser). 6. Ensure you have proper agreement signed and divorce procedures in place, it is out of court settlement (unless u still love your wife and what her back) - because this is first time, next time she might make bigger accusations. Be cautious of your actions and think exactly what you want. 7. Not all girls or boys are right/wrong - it total depends on what that person wants from you. If she wants you then she will love you no matter what you r (unless u cross some boundaries and except the person to be always adjusting, even you need to do the same). 8. If u want to divorce from this marriage - work towards it, take a clean breakup from your first marriage. In the future u meet anyone right give yourself another chance but dont repeat the same mistake.
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You ignored her unreasonable behaviour before marriage with some assumptions. You seem to be a positive and hopeful person. In your case only this is a one sided story. It is good to be good but too good is not right and normal. Her intentions are questionable...let her go and focus on your mental peace. If you want to know about your future then go to steer-U.com where you will get instant ans without disclosing your identity.
To everyone marrying, please enter a pre nuptial agreement for separation as well before marrying
Go with the case .. no court can do anything without evidence don’t get pressurised..
You already lost your job. So, you need not worry about anything. Just, file a petition before the family court under Section 9 ( Restitution of Canjugal Rights) of HINDU MARRIAGE ACT, IF YOU ARE A HINDU. She cannot be separated without any sufficient reason.
Don't give money, if she is earning and u don't have kids, if u have any evidence pls submit, watsup msg, msg like that
u went wrong at we are a respected family so we dint cancel
Rich families' arranged marriage stories. Dear Middle class commentor.. don't compare this with your experiences.
Hire a good lawyer and spend 5-10L .. She can't afford... End of the case you will escape
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Get evidence and drag this case for a few years then she will take divorce mutually and won't ask you a penny.
Another one bites the dust
Yeah buy a gun and finish all the problems with in second. Far better than visiting court again and again
No Rasta, give money, go away, pheel phree
Bhai court case ladne do na... Kya problem hai 40-50 lakh ladki ko dene se achha hai 40-50 hazar achhe lawyer ko de do. Chalne do case.
Get a good lawyer and make her payback
Hire a truck driver for 5L. Make it simple brother!!
She wants you to fund her abroad fantacy through divorce money
I have only one question why didn't you ask her to visit a psychiatrist at the very first.
Sorry to say this can’t end be end there you will understand why I said this in future
Don't give her money
Supari
Don't give abusers what they want
No need to give anything, we can settle at very less cost. It's been 2 years you are away from her
How can few aholes laugh at this post?
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Please contact Deepika Narayan Bhardwaj for steps to come out of this ordeal. Hope you find the right way ,take care
Dont withdraw case... big blunder.. file for multiple civil and criminal suits .... not only against her but all her known relatives...
Bro. Just get a good lawyer.
Today my settlement is Happening in just Rs. 50k with 6 years of case that too iam giving because I kept son myself since he born and cancelled her conjugal rights and even too visitations no interference with my family! If you give that much amount you are simply a looser! Remember in life there is ups and down really fighter is who fought with justice and won. Instead of giving that much amount give to needy one. These laws become too weak because of women's itself 90% cases are just false. Hire a good lawyer he will take care of everything even police . If she file a case on family simply lawyer will file in lower or high court because allegations will be vague and omnibuous.. If she complaint burden of proof on her not on you! Simply she will trap in her own plans! As far maintainance concerned you don't have kids and she is working there is 99% chance she will not get any maintainance also if you are truly unemployed chances are you will get maintainance from her salary 🤣. Join SIFF on telegram they will guide you.
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Bro.. You have been a victim of alimony business mafia. Some women have made this as a business. First they trap someone from good families, marry, stay for a few months, and then ask for divorce and alimony. Hire a good lawyer to defend against fabricated charges and see what can be done.
Thts how the Gen Z feminist mafia's operate these days .. even the police and judiciary is well aware that how these fake feminists put false cases on their husbands to extract alimony .. can't help seriously
She and her family are very smart players. Go for court divorce. Don't grant divorce. Say I want to stay with her and make marriage work. She can't move forward in life without divorce. Tit for tat , pay them back in the same coin. Drag the divorce case till you are emotionally satisfied to let go. Then dump her. Garbage.
Don't talk or communicate with her in private ask infront of all guardians u asker her salary so what's wrong in this second u and u r family tortured her fine pls show us some proof this girl community is making comedy avd taking us for ride
One old way is bl*ck m*gic. Watch actor Ravi Mohan video what he said. Let me know if you find a place
Ur biggest mistake is that u married a toxic woman and a gold digger. God gave u signs but u did not heed them. Now u hv to suffer for ur stupidity. Another solution, get rid of her and u surrender.
2 साल से वकील के पास गया ही नहीं तु,, और हमे यहाँ कहानी सुना रहा है, 😅😂, साले जॉब नहीं तेरे पास और 40-50 लाख देगा तु उसे 😡😡 निकल साले भो स d के,, आया बडा शाहना,, कॉपी पेस्ट करके।
Bhai paise mat do case lado...esi ladkiyo ka yahi kam hota hai ki ladko ko fansao aur alimony lo