#C27326 F28. I am facing a family issue and would really appreciate some genuine suggestions. I have been married for 2 years. My husband works in the IT sector, and I am a housewife. Since our marriage, I have taken responsibility for looking after his parents and managing all the household work. I have always tried my best to take care of the family and maintain a peaceful home. Over the last few months, I started noticing some changes in my husband's behavior. One night, I woke up to use the washroom and saw him chatting on his phone late at night. When he noticed me, he quickly locked his phone and turned away. A few days later, I happened to see some unknown contacts and a girl's profile picture on his WhatsApp. Before I could understand anything, he came into the room. The next day, those chats and contacts were no longer there. Eventually, I shared my concerns with him, but the conversation turned into a major argument. Things escalated badly, and he slapped me during the fight. After that incident, I came back to my parents' house. The hardest part is that I don't have any proof that he was doing anything wrong, but at the same time I can't ignore what I saw or how the situation unfolded. Out of desperation, I even contacted someone online who claimed they could help me access his phone, but it turned out to be a scam and I ended up losing ₹5,000. I feel hurt, confused, and unsure about what the right next step should be. I would sincerely appreciate hearing different perspectives. If you were in my position, what would you do? How would you handle this situation?
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Slapping was a bad thing.. It doesn't happen between loving couples.. either he is not in love with you or seeking sex outside marriage.. you should know better . How is your sex life? It will answer your question
Talk with him with both side elder relatives. Then he will afraid and accept whatever was the truth. If it is true you can give a chance to mend himself. If ir does not work out you separate fr him
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So you wanna know the truth?? Let’s say if you know it, can you handle it? What you gonna do? If there is Nthg and you already disturbed your brain and his brain and the relationship So what is it going to be?
If I were you, I would not make any major decision based on suspicion of cheating, bcoz after this fight,he may not chat even he was going before. But I also would not ignore slapping,that is violence. I would stay with my parents for now, seek advice,support from trusted family members, and judge the future with husband based on whether he admits his voielnce, shows genuine remorse, and demonstrates through behavior-not just words. Based on that, If I feel relationship is safe and respectful then I will think it is good to continue otherwise have to think other way.
All men do that...it's common...did he meet anybody then it should b a concern for you
Goto cybercrime PS. They will confiscate his phone and can use forensics to retrieve every thing. He will admit his guilt much earlier before the phone is examined.
Get a clarity on matter..Also don't think of planning baby unless things r sorted
Cool and calm discussion with him will help to sort out this issue.
Don't pay any money for the solutions, solutions depends on us nd how we react When u know the problem, if u don't react he seems that u r not worried about him, why can't u talk to him understand ur problems and inform that if that suituvation if I do what will happen, just make him understand and make him sure that u love him the most , thn too if it doesn't change better inform ur nd his parents That's better I hope according to me
First and foremost does the husband know this lady offline or is it just online fling? If it is offline then things would have gone beyond the mobile conversation. Also after the confessor has left the home and husband has not made any efforts to bring her back. Then probably he has already interest in this married relationship
Unless you have solid proof of deviation, wife should trust husband and should not question his loyalty and commitment
Go back and get proof, then confront him. Be mentally prepared for what comes next. If he’s cheating, you have two options: he ends it with her, or you end it with him.
There is a private detective agency you may approach them to get proof done
I’m really sorry you’re going through this. The deleted chats may raise doubts, but the fact that he slapped you is something that cannot be ignored. A healthy relationship is built on trust, honesty, and respect. Instead of trying to find proof, focus on whether he is willing to take responsibility for his actions and work on rebuilding trust. Take your time, stay where you feel safe, and don't let anyone pressure you into making a quick decision. Wishing you strength and clarity during this difficult time.
This is very normal for males.they easily get bored .even this activity they will be bored shortly. So just try to ignore and act as becoming normal.
These matters will end gradually. Give him n his parents more love n care. Mark my words, he will stop all these.
1.) Gt some1 to follow him an take video of him with this person 2.)Once u have sufficient evidence 3.)File for divorce an claim alimoney
5k loose krdie ro rhi ho aise taping ni hoti
Leave him
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Give some more time & check
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The next step would be filing for divorce. Not for cheating, but for slapping you. This is not the last time, remember this, if a guy has the mentality to hurt you once, be will do it again, and again, and again. Please file for divorce and look for a job, get financially independent. Forget this as a bad experience and move on. I know it sounds drastic, but five years from now with a baby when you will finally get proof of his cheating, it will be too late and you'd be beaten up worse.
उसके घर ऐसी चली जाओ जैसे कुछ हुआ ही नहीं,, उसको अपने प्यार में फसाओ,, उसको बोलो तुम कुछ भी करो पर रात मे मेरे पास ही वापस आओ, 1-2 days gap चलेगा,, मुझे तुम्हारे affairs से कोई गुंजाइश नहीं,, फिर वो खुश होगा,, डबल सर्विस मिली बोलके,, उसे वर्क फ्रॉम होम काम करवाके दिन में भी ३ बार सर्विस दो,, उससे हो गा ये ,,या तो वो तुम्हे ignore करेगा ,,या मजे lega,, अगर उसने ignore किया तो उसे उसके पास जाने के लिए उक्साओ,, और धीरे धीरे सबूत इकट्ठा करो, कैमरे वाले बहुत सारे gadgets मिल जायेंगे जिसे उसे कभी पता भी नहीं चलेगा। ये सब एक महिला वकील की सहायता से करो। उसको ऐसा एहसास होने दो की तुम , तुम्हारा पति, और gf ३ some में भी interested हो, वो gf नहीं मानेगी वो तुम्हारे चाल को समज जायेगी पर मर्द को उकसाना तुम्हारा कर्तव्य है। उसको लत लगाओ, करीब 2-3 माह तक,, १ नही 10 सबूत इकट्ठा करो। पुरुष वकील के पास मत जाना। मेरी बात का गुस्सा आयेगा,, पर ठंडे दिमाग से इसे सोचो।
Genuine suggestion is get off the freakin internet and stop seeking advice from strangers