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Submit ConfessionGender: Male9 June 2026 at 5:41 pm
#C27319 I am an officer in an Indian PSU from a lower middle-class General category family with two elder sisters and parents. Joining PSU was a major achievement. Academically bright, I was raised to deeply respect women, instilled with superhero-like morality, ethics, and honesty. Conditioned to believe women don't want s**x while men crave it, I idealized purity. I look decent but not tall/attractive, remain introverted, self-critical, and conscientious. Some life events shook me, making me question if life is worth living. Previously posted remotely, I transferred to a corporate location. A senior engaged girl (good-looking, officers' union position) joined my department. Her fiancé worked in her hometown. As a boy craving female attention but with low self-esteem, I never initiated. Boss directed her to me for work doubts, leading to conversations. She was extroverted. She invited me for lunch walks, movies, brought midnight birthday cake in the shared township hostel. This was my first serious female interaction. She shared sob stories about ill-treatment by parents/family, forced arranged marriage instead of love, toxic exes, calling me a "nice guy." She invited me to her room at midnight twice, once drunk saying she loved me. I maintained boundaries due to morality, her upcoming marriage, and low confidence—never crossed lines despite growing attachment and falling for her. After a 2-week work trip, she suddenly distanced herself, acting normal. I asked; she blamed me. We resumed friendly walks/talks. I later learned she had lived with another guy (transferred) and was close to another senior (Karan) from previous department. Suspicious, I saw Karan visiting her hostel at midnight. She pressured me to drink. I discovered she was s**xually involved with Karan even a week before her wedding (he attended). Shocked and traumatized by her happy wedding reels. Post-wedding, she continued the affair with Karan. I subtly confronted her emotional state, lies, and my role. She dismissed my vulnerabilities, maintained victim acts and multiple lies. Emotionally cold, no empathy. I confronted out of frustration; she turned hostile, blocked me everywhere, told me to "die," and acted like nothing happened. I turned to ChatGPT for therapy as I couldn't share with anyone (feared dismissal as "fool chasing married woman"). She enjoyed manipulation, cheating, and sadism. Karan enabled it (he's married now). This shattered my trust, caused deep trauma. As a woman in power (senior, union), confronting risks career. I feel inhumanly discarded after sharing vulnerabilities. Reflecting on narcissism, society, politicians—wonder why moral/emotional people like me suffer. Is this how high society functions?
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ignore her slowly but completely.u don't need validation of a female to prove your worth.Maintain your self respect.
I would suggest you to apply for a transfer to a different location if possible... The further you are from them, the better you would be able to heal... There are many weird people in this world and you are bound to meet some... Welcome to society and in the end I can only say Savdhan Rahe, surakshit Rahe..
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Naah this is how cockroaches function That's why weed them out!
Tell everything to your lawyer for your job safety..... Lawyer will advice you...
Correction "I turned to ChatGPT for therapy as I couldn't share with anyone and also for generating this post..." 😁😁
She said she has issues from her family and pressure of marriage. That is enough to say she needs therapy and support. In India, women don't get that due to rigid social construct. Same as you're not getting any support for your emotional needs right now. It's always better to consult a counsellor since you're young. People won't give you the best guidance as well. Our society lacks emotional intelligence. And it's never about position, money or power; humans can go through things and that is okay. Don't blame yourself for something you didn't wish harm for. Make good friends, talk to a therapist and give yourself some love. 🤘🏻 P.S. - Don't visit any woman who is engaged or married outside of work.
We need to understand that, despite some reproductive differences, Men & Women are slaves for our vices, Education, Power & Position are just enablers to engage in our vices safely.
U should have given her your banana when she was inviting you. Thats all what she wanted.
Do not take therapy from chatgpt. Talk to a real person. If you can't afford to pay try Vanderwala foundation. If you can afford then try iCall or some other corporate therapy providers.
She was sex addict n u r seedha Sadha
Mind your own business. She will reap the fruits. So stop troubling yourself. Focus your energy on growing yourself and your family.
Inform both their partners and the HR. And put in a transfer request.
You had nothing to do with her, you weren't in a relationship with her , neither are you her fiance. Why do you care?
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Bro she is a mess . Run . The lives of the men she is involved will ruin